It’s really beta to ask. If you’re not sure if she wants to kiss then don’t. Huh her and then put your face close to hers. If she doesn’t immediately reciprocate then she doesn’t want to kiss
In these days, you may need to ask for an approval before you can initiate the kiss. Due to a possible sexual harrassment case being filed against you. Some might argue "If I didn't like you why would I go to the movies with you?", but again maybe she allowed flirting and dating, but that does not constitute or equate to an approval of a kiss. Lol im just kidding just go for it man!!! But again what I mentioned could very be possible so be aware.
It's a hit or miss. Some are gonna think you're a dork for asking others will appreciate that you asked and showed interest in kissing them. The first girl kissed me without asking and totally caught me off guard then the next one asked me if I was going to kiss her, with my ex I jokingly said you sure did cuddle with me a lot not to go home without a goodnight kiss, just go with the flow
If you have a good feeling that she's not going to slap you then go for it. A first kiss should be spontaneous, it adds to the thrill and makes it more memorable.
Well think for a second before you do it how does she act towards you? If she looks like she likes you but can't tell you yet go for it💙 if your not sure first put your arm around her if she automatically doesn't rest in a bad way your good to do it👍
Just go for it. I've never had a problem when guys do that. I can just explain that I'm taken afterwards. Not that some guys see that as being a problem. 😏
Go for it but dont like force them or anything, they can pull away if they dont want to kiss you, that way no one's forcing anyone but it doesn't kill the mood if they want to.
@TheKack I'm still a feminist though. And by definition, that is what I am. Anyone who doesn't believe in equality of the sexes is not a feminist even if they claim they are. They are instead sexist
@morrowlow I see you're most likely absentminded. Dude, any logical person should be able to SEE and feel when someone wants them and wants EVERYTHING. Obviously don't kiss people who hate you or look at you in disgust.
Maybe don't ask. Say something like "i would like to kiss you right now" or "im going to kiss you" make sure there's a lots of chemistry and carefully observe her expressions, mood and body language all before you try to kiss her.
My boyfriend and I stared at each other for a month before someone got fed up and said "just kiss her already"...
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honestly I asked this girl once & i had super chapped lips so I waited till they weren't so chapped 3 days later. which I know sounds beta but I still asked just to be respectful & not impose even though it felt it was right & I read into the body language correctly.
Read her eyes. If she wants intimacy they will signal you. It may take time, but it's worth being patient.
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just go for it. I kissed a girl straightly when I was in class 3...(a little awkward and inappropriate) Now I think it is just a way to show you love, not something about sex or dirty thoughts. So just kiss when you think you need it.
I would same it depends on how her body language is. Sometimes you can tell that it is ok to just go for it. While other times you might be better off asking.
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Respond to cues. I always know when someone is in to me and I don’t mind making a move. Just be confident.
It’s really beta to ask. If you’re not sure if she wants to kiss then don’t. Huh her and then put your face close to hers. If she doesn’t immediately reciprocate then she doesn’t want to kiss
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In these days, you may need to ask for an approval before you can initiate the kiss. Due to a possible sexual harrassment case being filed against you. Some might argue "If I didn't like you why would I go to the movies with you?", but again maybe she allowed flirting and dating, but that does not constitute or equate to an approval of a kiss. Lol im just kidding just go for it man!!! But again what I mentioned could very be possible so be aware.
It's a hit or miss. Some are gonna think you're a dork for asking others will appreciate that you asked and showed interest in kissing them. The first girl kissed me without asking and totally caught me off guard then the next one asked me if I was going to kiss her, with my ex I jokingly said you sure did cuddle with me a lot not to go home without a goodnight kiss, just go with the flow
If you have a good feeling that she's not going to slap you then go for it. A first kiss should be spontaneous, it adds to the thrill and makes it more memorable.
Well think for a second before you do it how does she act towards you? If she looks like she likes you but can't tell you yet go for it💙 if your not sure first put your arm around her if she automatically doesn't rest in a bad way your good to do it👍
Just go for it. I've never had a problem when guys do that. I can just explain that I'm taken afterwards. Not that some guys see that as being a problem. 😏
Aren’t u a little old for this kinda stuff?
Nope. You'll realise one day when you're grown up.
Well in two years
Go for it but dont like force them or anything, they can pull away if they dont want to kiss you, that way no one's forcing anyone but it doesn't kill the mood if they want to.
only wimps ask to kiss a girl, it is obvious when she wants it
Only men who think twice and who don’t want to get in trouble and not be accused of sexual harassment ask.
@Kruger98 i can agree but it's also respectful to ask.
@KRUGER98 yup, this is the issue in our day.
Funny to call em wimps when you have a million men with guns ready to arrest us at your command. I agree that it is not romantic though
Definitely just go for it (with me at least). I see people are complaining about feminism, I'm a feminist and I say go for the kill.
I would venture to say that you're not the type of feminist that people complain about and lie more in the realm of egalitarianism.
@TheKack I'm still a feminist though. And by definition, that is what I am. Anyone who doesn't believe in equality of the sexes is not a feminist even if they claim they are. They are instead sexist
I agree. But that's not what a lot of extremists believe.
@TheKack I'll have to know what they stand for in order to judge that
this is exactly how you feminists trap men and file lawsuits against them.
@morrowlow I see you're most likely absentminded. Dude, any logical person should be able to SEE and feel when someone wants them and wants EVERYTHING. Obviously don't kiss people who hate you or look at you in disgust.
Gotta learn to read the body language. She'll tell you that you have permission without saying anything
I think if you're not sure whether or not she is open to the idea asking "Can I kiss you?" Is better than catching an attempted rape/assault charge
Go for it, i feel like asking makes it awkward. Definitely make sure the feelings are mutual, be sure both parties are interested.
Maybe don't ask. Say something like "i would like to kiss you right now" or "im going to kiss you" make sure there's a lots of chemistry and carefully observe her expressions, mood and body language all before you try to kiss her.
My boyfriend and I stared at each other for a month before someone got fed up and said "just kiss her already"...
honestly I asked this girl once & i had super chapped lips so I waited till they weren't so chapped 3 days later. which I know sounds beta but I still asked just to be respectful & not impose even though it felt it was right & I read into the body language correctly.
I feel like if he does the "hover" that is him asking. And its then your place to close your eyes and lean in.
Read her eyes. If she wants intimacy they will signal you. It may take time, but it's worth being patient.
just go for it. I kissed a girl straightly when I was in class 3...(a little awkward and inappropriate) Now I think it is just a way to show you love, not something about sex or dirty thoughts. So just kiss when you think you need it.
I would same it depends on how her body language is. Sometimes you can tell that it is ok to just go for it. While other times you might be better off asking.
I would say it depends* sorry type-o