Is it possible for a guy to entertain you because he wants attention and not because he wants to be with you?

[jennifer_bloom]

My friend says some guys do this but I've never met a guy who did that with me before

[NightFlirt]

Yes. I have been on a few "dates" where I was just arm candy for the guy. I had no problem with it as the pay was good and I got dinner to boot.

[girl963]

That's a major fuckboy trait, he is using you for entertainment and attention. Watch out for fuckboys they fuck your mind hard not your body

[lightbulb27]

How about he wwnts to spend time. doesn't mean he wants you... bit could. Who says he knows what je wants? He may not.

[MrOracle]

It's possible, but it would certainly be the exception to the rule.

[Anonymous]

Sounds to me like your friends are kind of selfish. I think you need to tell them " You know it's not always about you right"?
I give, but i expect to get as well. And if i find myself giving but not getting back in return i stop giving. I can see how in a woman's mind that might seem like i just want attention but the reality is you're just not showing me any interest. So yeah, I'll just go through the motions until 1. You change your tune 2. A woman comes along that treats me like i deserve. Since clearly the first one doesn't.

[louiiix]

Yes, but there are some guys who are genuinely about their word and won't do such a thing. If you find yourself in a situation like that, try to break it to him the best way possible that you can show attention but not be with him. He may be lonely and just needs a friend.

[Meta1087]

Not all guys are horny apes so yes it is definitely possible. Some guys just want to be laughed at because they don't ever get any attention, or just to be noticed and heard out. Entertaining for a laugh or for interest is just a way for them to get some attention, and does not always mean they want to be with you. It's not everybody though, some will abuse that and do both.

[Alistar88]

As I write this out I'm sitting next to a close friend that is a girl I have no intentions of trying to ever flirt with. We like each others attention and we laugh and joke and argue without falling for one another. It's possible to do, just hard to figure out the good guys from the players

[Dinoraptor101]

No, i vase this of my opinion I love money, I love science, and I wouldn't waste my time with a girl unless it was dating. The only exception to that is if the girl was an intellectual and we would discuss our perspectives and theories.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Some guys have such big egos, they love attention and the it way they get it is by flirting and entertaining women. It boosts their ego

[xoxogurrl]

Yes sometimes men do it to stroke their ego. In other words, they feed off the attention woman give them without really wanting that woman, just because it makes them feel like the "man" .

[Adam1978]

I guess so but isn't that what the whole casual sex thing boil down too, just want to be pleased and get attention. Not start building emotions and relationships and actually be with you.

[RGTube]

There are man called players and/or predators. They are people that have a goal and it's normally to temporarily entertain you to get in you pants

[Erica_mitchell_1997]

Yes it's possible , a lot of crazy guys do but it's like 50/50 you just need to look and ask them what they want in life and watch their actions if they act the opposite not what they said then they playing you

[BestUserName100]

Sure like a ego boost thing. You make them feel good and they will use that with the people they like and are after.

[samael_kmarty]

I don't think that's the case. A guy only entertain if he wants to be with you or to cheer you up for his work to be done.
Or he is being just a good friend.
That's all I can think of.

[loki35]

Of course its possible it just takes a certain breed the kind that aren't thinking in their pants, albeit few and far between but they are out there.

[random091]

Everyone wants attention and affection of some form. Blokes are not unique in being with someone because of how they make them feel... at the same time though, this obviously doesn't work out long term

[nayrb]

Yes. They could be a socialpath but don't even no it

[andrermm]

If i entertain you you're either my friend or i want to jump you
But i guess some guys might enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

yes possible. he did that to me. and I already cut off the relationship.

[AnokhaBanda]

If a guy wants attention then he will obviously put efforts for that girl so that she notice him. Unlike girls who become more egoistic and dramatic when they want attention

[Anonymous]

People do this.. It is a good way to get attention.

[Vallius86]

It's called being an entertainer. Every actor in the universe has that.

[Vallius86]

This girl is not used to people just wanting to be friends lol 😂. It is possible.