Very few or no matches = Unattractive
Is Tinder the best way to determine if you're attractive or not?
Very few or no matches = Unattractive
I think you are confusing attractiveness with the count of matches. The number of users and active users in your geographic area, and other factors influence the number of matches. Number of matches a user gets doesn't mean they are highly or lowly attractive.
Tinder is not a platform to determine whether someone is desirable. Attractiveness is the degree to which someone is liked, desired, and usually being sexually interested in them.
A person's physical looks, age, sex, economic status, education, achievements, character, personal demeanour, values, interests, and temperament influence their attractiveness.
Tinder does not provide the means for an individual to provide even 10% of the attributes mentioned above. It’s even impossible for Tinder to capture one’s attractiveness fully and accurately.
Tinder strive to capture some details of a person’s physical looks, age, and sex. Even the few details about one’s physical looks are hardly accurate. Digital photos can enhance, distort, and fake one’s physical looks depending on the angle and settings of the camera.
If you are interested to determine your physical attractiveness, upload your photos onto photofeeler. Though not scientifically perfect, it gives you a better idea of your physical attractiveness (mine shown below).
In a way, because attractiveness clearly encompasses more than physical attractiveness. Those well adjusted men, with busy, active social lives, are clearly going to fare better.
Having said that, I've used my female friends Tinder and Bumble. As an average to attractive female, with no written profile, every right swipe is pretty much a match. She thought her experience was the same as men's ('the problem with this is, any man has lots of options').
I swipe left on most people, because I can't be bothered wasting my time with people who I'm not particularly drawn to, and won't be able to make conversation with, even if I find them physically attractive. So there's too many variables, and people using it in different ways.
I had guys who didn't swipe yes for me because I didn't set a bio. Its not all about looks. (One swiped yes for me and told me he wanted to swipe no because of no bio). I do check hey does a guy look cute and check his bio to see if he’s intresting. I do hate loooong bio’s tho
By that logic, most women are attractive & most men are unattractive
That's actually true
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Any man that goes on tinder or dating sites in general are just desperate fools
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In some limited extent yes. However dating sites are filled with prostitutes who seek after customers, desperate single mothers who just want a provider soon as possible and bots/ pad faker which match you automatically for the sake that you remain motivated.
For females. There are a lot of desperate nudes hunter "send bob and vagene... bitchlasagna"
Don't know about for dudes but I think for women it's not a good way to tell. I've seen guys just swipe right on every girl sometimes without even looking at their phone. So women will usually end up with a lot of matches whether they're attractive or not.
It’s the best way if you’re a guy, but it doesn’t mean you’re ugly if you don’t get matches.
It just means you aren’t in the top 20% for attractiveness.
If you’re a girl, you’ll get matches regardless of attractiveness.
I feel that if someone bases a large portion of their self-worth on what others think about them, especially about their looks, then that self-worth really isn’t worth much. It’s better to look in the mirror and ask yourself if you think you’re attractive.
If you're a guy, you can figure out if you're totally hot or super photogenic with Tinder, but that's about it. If you're average looking or handsome, but not total eye candy, you might be ignored. If you're a guy, you're likely to be disappointed by Tinder, even if you are handsome.
For males, Yes. Hot guys have females aggressively being sexual and instigating sext and hookups.
I have seen this.
Non-attractive males get ghosted.
For females... unless she is an absolute bog beast... even fat girls will get attention from certain types of males.
there are a lot of bots on it now. if you don't use it and jump on you'll suddenly start swiping on girls and get loads of matches almost instantly. guess it's not paying off for them.
its a possible option but might not be the best way , most single guys would likely swipe yes for any half descent girl. wouldn't mean your a stunner cause some dude say yes , he might be saying yes to every girl on that app
For guys it is probably a good way, but for girls it probably isn't since even average girls will get a ton of matches on account of guys being a lot more indiscriminate in their swiping.
It will tell you whether your picture is good. But people can look way better or worse than that picture, plus not all attraction is physical.
Def helps to get somewhat an idea.
I got 1500+ matches in 2 hours when I made an account.
Some hot ass dudes on there.
Don't vase everything off looks, could be personality issues or how u approach situations and women. So always factor that in as well.
Not really because tinder is not very linear at all. It's more like a step function for both men an women.
The men begin to have loads of matches when they are quite hot. The females begin to have many matches when they prove they "I can has pussy."
I've never used the Tinder app. As I am confideant that I am attractive in more than physical ways, as friends and lovers tell me this often. Great ego boosts they are.
I've deleted profiles multiple times to refresh people i may have missed and some times i get a total of 10 like and others i get a total of 200-300 plus. So it just seems super inconsistent to me.
no. cause as a guy, you won't get any likes no matter how hot you are and as a girl you'll get more likes than you caould ever look at even if you're ugly as fuck.
Post a picture on here and get roasted... that helps
I never used 'tinder'.
Meeting people who do find me attractive, I am 'determined' to continue not using 'tinder'.
I think this site is a good indicator, if you put effort in the picture
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