Would you go to a swimming pool for your first date?

[Anonymous]

yes!!

no

[ChurchOfIron]

Swimming is fun as hell. I'd totally go for that. Fuck what everyone else says, that sounds like a great first date. You can play in the water, have a good time, have some friendly competition, play stupid fun kid games, push her into the pool. I like that idea. I'm gonna use that. Plus I could show off my body. It kinda sucks when you're shredded, but you can't really tell with a shirt on.

That's prolly what it is. The chicks who are secure in their body would be down; the chicks who are insecure in their body wouldn't.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most girls will probably say "no" because they are self conscious about their body. Most guys will probably say "yes" because they want to see the girl's body and it probably provides some opportunities for touching/physical contact that would otherwise not be available.

[lumos]

Probably not, I don't really like swimming and I think it would be a bit difficult to get to know someone better while splashing around. I'd prefer to take a walk with him or sit down somewhere, where I can give him my full attention and vice versa.

[AuroraRoseat]

No. It’s seen as sleazy: he wants to see what she looks like with barely any clothes. Not attractive to me

[daniel5863]

I don't see swimming pool as a date, maybe if she invited me to a cookout or barbecue and the it happened to have a pool there. but I would still not considered it as a date. I consider a date a time when to people who have romantic/sexual interest in one another go out to know each other better and have a good time.

[sawno]

Yes, but only if its with a friend i already am close with after all i do not want it to be creepy.
But i love swimming, and if i know she loves it to it would be a great date idea but perhaps not as the first date.

[CuriousChick101]

I would wear a one-piece swimsuit, and save my bikini for a later "pool date" when we've been together long enough 😉

[SkipStop]

It's a great way to see her without makeup before it's too late. However, I think swimming and similar activities is too much for a first date. Save it for the second date.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

The girl is gonna worry about how she looks in a bikini or swimsuit. It might be a fun date idea but we forget women stress about everything haha
My advice is to make the first date as stress/insecurity free as possible.

[Shutupman]

No, I don’t want a guy I don’t know ogling me and touching me on the first date. On my first date with my husband we went to grab some food and drinks and talked about our lives.

[Dinklex3]

No. I can't swim and I'm afraid of water.
We'd just be admiring each other's bodies the whole time.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Can't swim lmao what if he pushes me in the deep end

[Hurlyburly]

I do not do dates, but yea I would go to a swimming pool with a male friend, why not xD

[Rundown]

Do you plan to marry, have sex, and have kids?

[Hurlyburly]

@Rundown I'm living with my boyfriend and I'm not a virgin.

[Rundown]

So, ur living together unmarried?

This isdnt the 90's!

[Rundown]

Isnt*

[Hurlyburly]

@Rundown what does it have to do with the 90s? Most people move together before marrying xD

[Rundown]

Nope

[Hurlyburly]

@Rundown maybe not in your country 😛 but here in Germany it's really common.

[Hurlyburly]

And way way more common than in the 90s that's for sure 😂

[Rundown]

Then you have no idea what you're talking about

[Hurlyburly]

@Rundown if you say so 😂

[alohaahyes]

That seems weird but I would like to learn how to swim so sure.

[alohaahyes]

I'd rather go to the beach instead. The swimming pool isn't very romantic.

[zagor]

But the beach is a terrible place to learn how to swim...

[alohaahyes]

I meant as a date. I'd rather go to the beach on the first date. The swimming pool isn't as romantic as the beach.

[Rundown]

Go at night, much cooler at the beach, than during the day, plus, the moonlight makes it a little more romantic, if the moon is indeed out.

[Evil_Chuck]

Not likely. I can't swim, I don't have access to any nice pools, and I don't have these things called "abs" that everyone goes gaga over. I'd rather invite her to a decent restaurant instead.

[SirRexington]

Sure, I guess. I love going to the pool and it's a different idea for a first date.

[IlyaTheImpaler]

Highly recommended actually, can't wear makeup in water :DD

[Nicolette777]

You can actually 😂 waterproof makeup exists and is a lot of people wear it without even realising haha

[mishmishayezie]

Lol no... if a guy ask me that, just means he just wants to see me half naked straight away lol

[Rundown]

What's wrong with that?

[mishmishayezie]

@Rundown bad impression for me.. That means he just wants to have sex on first date
Definitely RED FLAG for me

[Rundown]

Not necessarily

[mishmishayezie]

@Rundown Umm 99% of the time, it's true. I'm a female. I have a lot of girlfriends. And we go on dates. So I know what I'm talking about.
You can deny it all you want, but you're not going to convince me that it's not true lol
So don't bother mate

[ChurchOfIron]

So lemme get this straight. You'd prefer it if random men saw you half naked straight away, but not a man you just started dating partner or a potential long-term companion? o_o;

[mishmishayezie]

What the hell you talkin about?
Did I say I prefer random men seeing me half naked?
Moron
Where did I ever say that above?

[ChurchOfIron]

hgfgh
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[mishmishayezie]

Yeah thought so.
Moron 🤦‍♀️

[ChurchOfIron]

It seems so, doesn't it?

Whateves. Have a good night.

[mishmishayezie]

Yea bye felicia 😁

[ChurchOfIron]

You tryin' to keep me around? 'Cause that's a good way to do it.

You're a very rude person, you know that. Don't get me wrong, IDGAF. It makes me wonder what kind of life you have to be so venomous.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron you're the one that came at me first mate. Don't put turn this around and put it on me.
I asked you straight up.. where did I say that I prefer random guys to see me half naked?
You're the one assuming and talking bullcrap about me.
I don't play that nonsense.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron so next time, if you ever want to talk shit to someone and can't take the heat, then don't bother commenting at all.
None of us want your two cent opinions.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron and my life is perfect thanks.
I have a great job, a great relationship.
I'm not an evil person lol.
But if you going to step on my toes, I'm going to come back at ya.
Cheers mate.

[ChurchOfIron]

Hey, I was attempting to understand your perspective. If you're that sensitive that you couldn't handle a simple question without emotionally lashing out, that ain't on me. Your "heat" is cold as ice, to me, chica. Simply curious, given the situation and your highly emotional reaction.

If you have ever gone swimming in a bathing suit in a public swimming pool, it stands to reason you would show your body to the men who were at that swimming pool, does it not? Or have you never gone swimming? If you haven't, I apologize and retract my question.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron Yeah but you came at me like you're judging me straight up and we have never even talked before.
Why pass that judgement without proof?

And yes I have gone to the beach and swimming pool.
Yes there's guys around.
But so what?
It's totally different to a guy ASKING me out for a first date to the beach or swimming pool.

Those random guys check out many girls and I know they won't bother asking me out for a date and want to get to know me personally.
But if a guy is asking me out for a first date, he should be trying to get to know me first? Not try to see me half naked.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron I've dated many guys and the ones that have become my boyfriend, NEVER asked to go to the beach or pool for a first date.
It's because they want to get to know my personality too.
The ones that don't give a shit and just wants to get their dick wet, will ask to go to the pools.

If it's a third or fourth date, then I would agree to beach or swimming pool.
But NOT a first date.

[mishmishayezie]

@ChurchOfIron my heat is cold? LOL alright mate, don't try to act like you're some tough kient when you're not.
You wouldn't be lashing out on me like this hahaha

[Jimhflmn]

If I though my date might like it, sure! However, the women I have dated, and the woman I married would not have liked this as the first date option!

[Holy_Ghost_Fire]

I don't think I would but I would consider doing it if the time was right.

Swimming together would be a refreshing and new idea for a date.

[YHL6965]

Why not but I don't see how we get to know each other well.

[Anonymous]

Well, I've already seen the girl I like, basically naked, so, it'd be a step up, lol. So, yeah, maybe

[Opinion Owner]

Mish blocked be because she knows im right

She's just one person in a world of billions

She doesn't speak for all women and men

LOL

[Opinion Owner]

mermaidia_lol

Blocked me too cause she knew I was right and couldn't handle it, hahaha

[Anonymous]

Women will generally say no because without a mask of makeup they look like gollum.

[Elleenaaa]

Rhere’s always water poof make up they use 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@Elleenaaa Yeah and when you come out of the water your face looks like plastic.

[Elleenaaa]

Not in every case but some yeah

[Lauren-green]

No, pretty revealing clothing for a first date..

[natasha3012]

I am wayyyy too awkward for that

[EriFrancis1994]

Nah. I wouldn't be comfy in a bikini so soon

[lycanzz36]

Nope. Im a landbased mammal.

[UnderHisEye]

Yes. I pee in the pool

[Asker]

yas , thats ma boi

[MajesticTwelve]

So long as he doesn't get too handsy yup.

[Rundown]

"too handsy"?

[MajesticTwelve]

@Rundown Yep. A lot of guys decide swimming is a great excuse to feel you up.

[Rundown]

How's that any different than any other "date"?

[Shutupman]

@Rundown not sure what kind of dates you go on, but usually a first date isn’t touchy feely. You talk and see if you have common ground. It isn’t a hookup.

[Rundown]

You should be at least holding hands or kissing, on a first date

[Prof_Don]

I would it sounds like fun!

[wallflower_fantasy]

Well I’m scared of water...

[Wowgirl30q]

Yes but I'm confident

[mermaidia_lol]

I don't wanna be half naked on my first date.

[Rundown]

What's wrong with being half naked?

[mermaidia_lol]

Indecent

[Rundown]

How so?

I mean, what happens if you wind up doing it eventually, why is it indecent for the FIRST date?

[mermaidia_lol]

Cuz dates are usually in public

[Rundown]

Yeah, and?

[mermaidia_lol]

It's disrespectful to others.

[Rundown]

Nah, not really

[Rundown]

Swimsuits are natural

[Rundown]

In fact, technically, being NUDE is actually natural

[mermaidia_lol]

Well, there's laws against it. So, no. That's not gonna be me.

[Rundown]

What "laws"?

There's nudist colonies all over the place

[mermaidia_lol]

Look it up

[Rundown]

I'm just sayin'

[mermaidia_lol]

Yeah

[Rundown]

I'm just sayin', you need to get a reality check

[mermaidia_lol]

Running around naked isn't for me, ok? Ok.

[Rundown]

I get that

But, you just have to think about other people out there

[mermaidia_lol]

What about them?

[Rundown]

There are other people in this world

[mermaidia_lol]

And not everyone can have their way... if it were like that it would be an ever worse place.

[Rundown]

Everyone can have it their way, if they TRY

[mermaidia_lol]

Nah.

[Rundown]

Yes!

[mermaidia_lol]

Nope

[Rundown]

Yup!

[mermaidia_lol]

Nope..

[Rundown]

Yep...

[mermaidia_lol]

Nope...

[Anonymous]

no but it might be a fun idea

[robertKugler]

It's great interaction instant bonding

[legalboxers]

interesting 1st date idea

[HereIbe]

Match the date to the woman.

[Jennifer_32]

Enjoy the pee water if it's public

[AdHdSqUiRrEl]

Nope.

[elizamichale1]

Yup i wouldn't mind

[Wolframium]

Absolutely not.

[Thatsamazing]

Only if she was hot.

[AshleyMadison00]

Maybe hair thing lol

[Browneye57]

If you're under 18.

[BButterfly]

No way

[Babygirl_S]

May be

[lemongrabswife]

Nope

[thesoilder]

Most likely not.

[Anonymous]

Probably not.