Would you have a first date on a nudist beach?

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This question is not mine, but has been suggested to me by a fellow G@ger who however wishes to remain anonymous.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

A first date? No. I can't imagine a lady agreeing to go to a nude beach for a first date. And assuming she was a little cutie, which is one of the main reasons I would want to date her in the first place, I'd be nervous on our first time together. Being nervous and seeing her nude on the beach, I'd be afraid of having a boner the whole time. I don't think the point of first dates is to strip nude and assess each other's naked bodies. That sounds more like a porn interview.

First dates are for chatting and seeing if there is any chemistry. If I really wanted to impress her, I'd take her to a nice restaurant.

If we hit it off, I'd ask her on second date. Then maybe a daytime date to some outdoor place like a botanical garden where we could stroll around hand in hand, chat comfortably, and find places to sit on a bench or lie on the grass and make out. I've done that before.
On my third date with one lady, I took her to the L. A. (Ca) county fair and we had a great day. When I dropped her off at home that evening, she invited me inside and treated me to the greatest sex I had every experienced. After that, we wound up living together for over a year. She was a remarkable women.

I kind of like the lady and gentleman routine. We can be casual, laugh and be ourselves, but I like her to feel like a lady, not a piece of meat, even if she dresses provocatively and we.

Once we got to the point of being eager for sex, I'd want the first time I saw her nude body to be at one of our places or at a special hotel. Just the two of us. I'd want to treat her like a priceless treasure and for her to be just a tad self conscious. That isn't to say that we wouldn't have unbridled sex.

wtf636 · Accepted Answer

I mean, if the woman is ok with it, I don't think I would mind. I think it would be really fun if we are both attracted and open to the experience.

It would be a little weird, but I could see how it could be a good first date. Get to see everything right away, probably breaks down a lot of walls. New and exciting.

Also has the potential to go very wrong and hurt some feelings, if someone is not attracted, too creepy, etc. And what are the rules?

We are both naked, am I allowed to hug you or touch you at all on the first date like this? If we do kiss, and I start getting a boner on the beach are we gonna be kicked out, or are you gonna be offended? All these little things that you don't normally have to worry about can come up.

CourtneyJane · Accepted Answer

I would. It would allow me to see what my prospective partner looks like when he/she is naked without finding a room and "going all the way", afterward I can make my mind up on if I want to keep seeing this person if they're in good physical shape or not and if I find them appealing.

Being nude around people I'm not familiar with doesn't bother me since I used to be a stripper, and I've been to a nude beach before. They're fun.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

No I would not... Nudity on a first date isn't my thing...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Unless both of us had a lifelong history of being nudists, having a first date on a nudist beach very strongly suggests that the date will be concluded in either her bed or mine.

Miristheiss · Answer

No.
I wouldn't have ever gotten with a girl who goes naked in public.
If I had developed feelings... her going naked around others would cross my boundaries so she'd be a no go.
First date? No.
I'd not go to a nude beach anyway. That doesn't appeal to me. If I wanted to be naked in nature I'd want to be secluded with my wife somewhere private... not in public with tons of strangers and pervs with hidden voyeur cams.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I’m comfortable with going to a nudist beach or camp.

I would actually suggest a nudist camp for a date, rather than beach, mainly as you can have a drink, meal, game of pool or whatever. Whereas the beach is just like having a date on the beach but no clothes.

I guess it’s a good way to check for recording equipment etc,

it’s also a great leveller if the girl has been used to a nudist life style but is maybe shy in public.

TruthBringer · Answer

I respect myself enough not to go to nudist beaches in the first place, let alone taking a date. I don't date girls whom I don't see as potential long term relationship material. So I wouldn't date someone who is okay with going to such places either.

NathanDavis · Answer

No, because of a simple reason... I am not a nudist. I've never tried and honestly I don't get it. Mexico or Texas are not good places to go around naked, mosquitoes are the sizes of Apache helicopters and most places (in this region) looks like a set for Naked and Afraid but way way hotter... so the idea of being a nudist just does not appeal to me, which I think it would be the point no? to experience the nudist experience.

sophiejo · Answer

That actually sounds like a really fun idea takes away any awkwardness and and insecurity you may have a bit like naked attraction

goaded · Answer

A bit like this UK dating show? I wouldn't have the nerve to ask, but I'd be OK with being asked. Maybe if I met her in a sauna, so the nudity had already happened...

Starrisunset · Answer

I would feel super uncomfortable but I guess that would settle things right away. You'd immediately know if you were physically attracted to them. I couldnt do it tho.

Quidthonian · Answer

If she is that crazy, then I would be interested. She will then see an overweight, middle-aged man with a short flaccid tool. It would be for nudity and getting to know each other. I would expect very little sexual advances except for the typical, clothed flirting.

Adam1978 · Answer

No I am not a nudist and it's a good way of coming out as a pervert to suggest a date that involves her getting naked.

nolabels · Answer

It would depend totally on the personality of the woman I'm dating. I've known a couple women whom I'm almost positive would be cool with going to a nude beach on a first date. It'd be fine with me.

Rachelspiks · Answer

I'm not sure. Maybe. I think I'd be willing to give it a go.

MrAngilley71 · Answer

Absolutely, I find it very sensual, and also a sign/test of trust and self-control. If things happen they happen, if not well at least it would be interesting and we would be closer as a possible couple or love interest.

Poppykate · Answer

Like that TV show? 🤔 I would want to hit the gym for a few weeks to tone up. But then again, not with my boob size. Lol 😂

dustybiker · Answer

Daytime or nighttime? Full moon could be pretty romantic.. but then it’s colder at night and would need a campfire.. and candles. So many choices here.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not sure I would even know how to suggest that as a first date..

How would it go:-

Me.. Would you like to go out with me?

Her- Sure. where'd you have in mind

Me - Oh I know this nice nudist beach we can go..

Yeah.. no I'm going to pass. Not that I'm prudish about my body or anything because I'm not..

MsTaniaUncensored · Answer

I'd be a bit wary of any guy that brought me to a beach and expected me to get nude on a first date; I get he wants to see me naked but that's a bit sus.

JHNS98 · Answer

Don't you have to be in the nudist community, or whatever it's called, to have access to that sort of beach? I don't know if they're public, but maybe I'd go if I was dating a nudist, or if it was for a friends with benefits arrangement.

Pyrofox · Answer

Sure I'd do it sounds quite nice nudists don't really care what you look like so long as your not like an a$$.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

Beginning of 2020 just before COVID hit that year... I took a Brazilian 🇧🇷 woman on a date to a nude beach ⛱️ 😎 for our 1st meet before she was flying home.

We had a great day out, enjoyed one another's company while nude and would highly recommend these kind of fun dates 😊

Floppy2112 · Answer

From what I have seen of nudist beaches, hell no. I wouldn't even go to one. The hottie in your stock photo aren't the kind that show up.

Smegskull · Answer

No.
Either: she isn't hot and my visible lack of arousal is an insult. She is hot and it distracts me from the date.

Stuff like this is never to a mans advantage because we cannot control how and when our attraction is disclosed.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes I have and would again!

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Not my thing I ain't a nudist, I would only considered being nude is around the house. Even than it isn't going to be exactly all the time.

DavidHart · Answer

i don't think i am suitable for that type of date. i might easily get erection the whole date. Just being honest here..

Andres77 · Answer

When I was young and fit. Yes. Not anymore... not for a first date. But I'd go with my wife... in a heartbeat.

es20490446e · Answer

I already did that. Not appropriate, as I had a boner the hole time.

Anonymous · Answer

That sounds terrifying. Example, your lying on the beach naked. Your date walks up fully clothed says hi and shakes your hand, looks at your junk and remains clothed the rest of the convo and leaves. No thanks

Better_off_here · Answer

i would not choose that as a first date option. but i will say it takes some of the tension off you since you won't be spending all day imagining them nude.

Minamikun · Answer

I never went into a nudist beach because, you know... I'm only 16...

fingerslinger · Answer

LOL. My first question on here and I don't know if i would or not. Probably not. If she wants to see me naked it could happen. It would depend on how well the date went.

geofken · Answer

I don't know if she comes up with the idea I'm willing to give it a try 😂 to be honest I've never been to a nudist beach in my life 😂😂 the things you do for love 🤔🤔

SenseiSeptred · Answer

It would take some getting used to, but I would more than likely go for it.

Drewman2 · Answer

i prefer to be nude. so i would totally accept this ides, especilly if she propossed this location.

Glasgow55 · Answer

Gosh, what an interesting question. When I was younger, definitely, but not now. Or perhaps...

zagor · Answer

Depends on where - do you know what cold water does to a guy?

loves2learn · Answer

Wowwwww first date? No. Would have to be a trusted relationship for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, any girl going to a nude beach for a 1st date is probably DTF

najekim · Answer

Only if both had lived in the nudist or Naturist lifestyle beforehand.

Hanrej · Answer

Wouldn't be my first choice but wouldn't complain if she wanted to. 😊

888theGreat · Answer

nope and if she is a nude beach person , I wouldn't be interested

Turtleneck22 · Answer

Would sure take a lot of guess work and wondering off the mind

Carmellia79 · Answer

No maybe if you dating for years a first date not a serious relationship.

FamilyGuy2020 · Answer

I knew growing up in an openly nudist household would prepare me for this day Lol , So Yes of course I would go on first date at a nudist beach the only thing I'll be wearing is my Mask due to Covid 🍆😁😷

Starwitch23 · Answer

No, that's never going to happen.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think I'd go to a nudist beach full stop, let alone on a first date.

ThiFingGuy304 · Answer

I think that its only recommended that you are nude, not law.

Jlegacy · Answer

The nudity of my wife is my private property

coednakedyoga · Answer

Absolutely. In fact, it would be my first choice. Elaborating just a bit, people tend to just be themselves when they're naked. No pretenses. Plus it's a really quick way to break the ice.

Scarecrow13 · Answer

Possibly. Maybe if we met on said nude beach. Otherwise I would wait a few dates.

bannacookies · Answer

No. At a nudist beach, that would be like going on a first date with everyone in sight.

proNutro · Answer

Never, not my think at all

connemara_crocodile · Answer

Sounds fun! I might do it once for the craic

GirlFromWork · Answer

Sure i would love that

JustSomeDude400 · Answer

Sure, if I could wear clothes why not! ha

Sia_nee · Answer

Hmm nope. Who does that?

humanearth · Answer

That would be cool, but most won't go for it

Kelly6 · Answer

Mostly yes

Titanic1912 · Answer

Hell, no. That’s going wayyyyyy too far too fast!

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Lol no.. it just weird

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