He told me he loved me while drunk?

[Anonymous]

Been seeing this guy for a few months now who I lost my virginity too. We’re at the dating stage of “what are we” but I kind of like it because there’s no labels yet. We are both only seeing each other and spend a fair bit of time together. The other night I picked him and his friend up from a night out and he was pretty drunk. After I took his friend home he begged me to stay at his house with him, but I couldn’t stay so I said I would come in and cuddle for abit and leave early in the morning. When we were in his bed he seemed pretty sobered up and we were just talking and then he asked me if I was happy. I said that I was and he said good because I love you. And I was so shook I didn’t know what to say but I ended up saying it back. We haven’t talked about it sober yet but I don’t know if he really even meant it or not lol help

[xkildy]

I truly don't understand relationships today thank goodness I have one. to me you have to know that you love the person before you engage in sexual actions you have to know that you are dating them they are tied to you as much as you or tied to them until you break up for whatever reason. This whole no labels thing is really weird it's more like hey I'm not going to call you my girlfriend's but I'm going to see you I'm going to kiss you I'm going to make love to you so when I decide to leave I don't have to worry about breaking up with you because we have no labels.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s pretty sad but it’s just how it is now pretty much

[xkildy]

But why each person that lived can have they type of relationship they want to have there is no law that says you have to behave this way in dating

[AGen4]

I think it can be true

[AndyLakes]

Talk about it together sober 🙂