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My girlfriends ex snap chatted her at 1:30 in the morning. Should I confront her? (Page 2)
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Why are you staying in a relationship in which your girl is still talking to her ex? No respect for yourself man. You need to set clear boundaries, and stop getting walked all over. Too many guys are afraid of coming across as controlling or insecure, and you need to develop some backbone. You had this coming. You allowed it to happen for a year. She’’s most likely not doing something you’d approve of.
She’s getting snaps at 1:30 AM from her ex and you’re still afraid to approach her about it? You’re being a fucking pussy dude.
If a woman said that, you all think she is an annoying bitch
@shinka1y234 Not for me at least. Reciprocity should be respected.
People are so insecure. Exes can be friends if romantic feelings are gone. For someone to DEMAND that their partner can't talk to an ex, it's controlling and shows distrust. You can ask her about it lightly
Ya I wouldn’t demand anything. I just would ask her lightly why this guy is snapping her that late
I had a boyfriend who demanded to never speak to my ex and it took a toll in the relationship because I felt controlled
So did you get back with your ex?
No I didn’t. We’re just friends and he has a new girlfriend now. I’m not friends with my abusive recent ex
Good , you shouldn’t be. Sorry to hear that.
Controlling is one thing, and boundaries are another. Most rational people would agree that they don’t think it’s appropriate to talk to your ex. There’s really no business too. Are you really claiming your ex was abusive because he didn’t like you taking to someone you were romantically and physically involved with? Godamn lol
When i said confront , i just meant to ask her about it. Wrong wording.
@TonyBologna25 No he verbally and sometimes physically abused me.
Just because he snapped her doesn't mean she replied. He was probably just thirsty. As long as she didn't get into a long convo with him, I wouldn't even say anything.
And that’s why you don’t date people who talk to their exes.
I’m friends with one ex... we don’t have each other on social media anymore by choice and we have mutual friends so it’s Mutual between us we’re adults. Some people don’t know boundaries that’s all.
@lovedejj_xo I’ll stick to my opinion. I won’t date a man who talks to his ex.
Do you just saying others can be an adult about it lol when you have mutual friends your bound to see them.
@lovedejj_xo you can do what you want. That doesn’t mean others have to accept. I personally won’t accept that in my partner.
Simple
Not even a hi is innocent 1:30 am... don’t let this man clown you by thinking he can do that. I’d confront her
Why confront her? it's him that's texting.
Because she should have enough respect for him that all guys don’t feel like texting her is okay to do 1am... clearly she’s being too comfortable
Hell, a drunk ex could message me in the middle of the night because she suddenly missed me. I have no control over that.
Let me get this straight. You want to confront your girlfriend over something somebody else did? Hmm.
Ya , but what if she snapped him back? I can’t just ask her what the hell he wanted from her that late?
Ok, so did she snap him back? Your question Stated you wanted to confront HER over HIS snap.
If you dont want to look insecure, then think about this.
I don’t know if she snapped him back
She can't control when he snaps. But if their contact bothers you, the best thing you can do is to talk to her about it. Open and honest communication solves a lot of problems.
Sounds like he was just drunk. I wouldn't even worry. Especially if they are still friends. Nbd really
I know that they’re still friends, but in the back of my mind , I always fear that something will spark with them again and i’ll get dumped. I guess I’ll just have to trust her.
Trust her and hold your confidence. Once you start acting suspicious she loses attraction. Trust me.
The same happens with my boyfriend. Everytime he shows jelousy im so turned off
And then you cheat on him?
Uhm no!. It just shows he's strong and dosnt think there's any competition among other men. Confidence is hot. Insecurity is not
Ughh I don’t know what to do here!
I would be honest with her. But I snap people at night because thsts when I am up I expect them to answer in the morning so I think it's more important her response to him is
I'm really not that little- I think you mean "stupid thin cuck." Secondly, what makes you think she needs your permission to do anything? If you can't trust her not to fuck her ex... you shouldn't be with her at all.
Unless she has kids with the dude her ex should not be associating with her at all. This would bother me too in fact id write his snap name down and snap his ass back from your phone telling him to stay away from your woman
You should wait and see maybe, if it keeps happening tell her, but don't me mad at her, it's him that sent the messages
If the genders were reversed and it was your ex sending a snap at 1:30 in the morning you know she'd be going batshit crazy, and all her women friends would encourage such toxic behavior. Time for some gender equality.
Do nothing unless she if far worse than average. There is nothing you can do because that is the nature of women. They are always looking for an upgrade. You can change to a different woman, but she will be the same as the one you replaced.
If I had an SO and she wanted to be friends with an ex I would leave her. Only cheaters, or people planning on being future cheaters want to be friends with an ex.
If you ask her that doesn't mean you are insecure it means that you actually care. Was it a pic or a text though?
A pic I believe. So it could of been a picture that this guy sent to a group of people. Who knows
Well if he sent a nude or something it matters on her actions, did she text him back?
Yes she did
This is so messed up. Tell her to delete snapchat or you will dump her. If she says "No" it means she cares more about an app than you
One time he might just be drunk. Did she write back? If not it has nothing to do with her. You might ask if he does that often, and if she is ok with it. Because quite honestly I would not be ok with it, from my ex or his.
I’m not sure if she replied back or not. I’m guessing that she didn’t ignore him though because she told me that they were still friends
Lol, mistake number 1 is letting her be friends with her ex.
She can be friends with whoever the fuck she wants- we are passed the point women are property, yes?
@AdamBeau326 Shut up you stupid little cuck. This isn't about making women property, this is about permitting your girlfriend to be in contact with someone she used to regularly fuck. You think all those feelings and attraction just disappear the second they break up? Letting your girlfriend hang out with her ex is the easiest way to get cheated on.
I advise the same for women-don't let your partner be friends with exes!
Go toot your feminist horn somewhere else, somewhere where people will tolerate your stupid, narrow minded bullshit.