there’s a girl in my class that I talk to. She seems more on the quieter side, but I’m not sure about it. She always seems to stare at me often in class and even at the school gym when we go w out mutual friend.
anyway, I recently started snapping her and our convos seem good. She responds within minutes and goes kinda well. I started our snap convo 3 times and it went well, but she hasn’t ever initiated. I don’t want to come across as desperate so I left the ball in her court and it’s been a day and she never snapped me. I was considering just asking her to hang out but starting a 4th time makes me look desperate.
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It's possible that the girl is simply more reserved or shy, and may not feel as comfortable initiating conversations. It's also possible that she may not be sure if you're interested in her or if she wants to pursue a friendship or relationship with you.
It's good that your conversations on Snapchat seem to be going well, but it's important to remember that online communication can be different from in-person interactions. If you're interested in hanging out with her, it's okay to ask her if she wants to do something together, but be respectful if she declines or doesn't respond.
It's also important to remember that one-sided communication can be a sign that someone may not be as interested in pursuing a relationship or friendship as you are. If you feel like you're always the one initiating conversations and the other person is not reciprocating, it may be a sign that they're not as interested or invested in the relationship as you are.
Ultimately, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with the other person, while also respecting their boundaries and feelings.
So she is in your class and yet you use Snapchat? 🤦♀️
Just ask her to hang out. She might be shy.