We have been dating for a year , and a half. I have already known that my girlfriend is still friends with her ex , but this guy is snapping her at 1:30 in the morning. I wasn’t looking in her phone or anything, her phone just lit up right infront of my face. I mean what could he possibly want at 1:30 in the morning. I want to confront my girlfriend & tell her that this bothers me , but i don’t want to look insecure. Afterall, it was just a snap so it could be innocent. What would you do in my shoes?