Would you like to date/marry an Italian?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Trying something different this time.
If it ends up being too controversial or gets few answers, I won't do it again.

Dobra! Let's see how this goes!

Yes, I'm open to it

No thanks, I'm good

I HAVE/AM and it was WONDERFUL! (I'M ITALIAN)

I HAVE/AM and it was a DISASTER! (I'M ITALIAN)

I HAVE/AM and it was WONDERFUL! (I'm NOT Italian)

I HAVE/AM and it was a DISASTER! (I'm NOT Italian)

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Okay, this question was pretty popular, so I will continue this series.

[_SOARER_]

I am part-Italian. In fairness, Italian-American. So its very different. I have dated a real Italian and an Italian American woman. Both were wonderful girls, but it didn't work out.

Rn I have feelings for a woman who is not Italian, so I am focusing on her.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Oh man
Why?
What happened?

[_SOARER_]

1st woman I only used to date when I visited my family in Italy
We never got too intimate, but I would spend a lot of time with her. She didn't want to have a long distance relationship
We were 15-16 years old at the time.

2nd girl, we encountered a lot of difficulty 3 years into our relationship surrounding external circumstances.

Both times were circumstantial. Had nothing to do with them or their Italian heritage.

[blutwolfe]

it's crazy cause I know an Italian girl who is a sweetheart, on the other hand I know another Italian girl who would be the most unfaithful, and driving me up a wall in general. I don't think ethnicity/culture would have anything to do with it.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I personally do.
It's the characteristics of the MAJORITY that define a group

[Cynicaldreamer]

If he's my type and we get along? Absolutely!!! Italian men can be handsome and romantic.

I had a crush on one when I was in my 20s, but it didn't work out due to our age difference.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Damn

[Cynicaldreamer]

Yeah, long story short: he liked me, I liked him, but due to our age difference, he refused to date me

So he married a woman just like me instead (his words) 🤦‍♀️

Needless to say, I'm no longer talking to him, lol. But I'm not holding that against all Italian men- his loss

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

No. A lot of people say that Puerto Ricans and Italians are really close here in the northeast, but they get on my nerves and I get on theirs. We don’t get along lol

[ZeussLightningBolt]

LOL
Why?

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

Well for one thing they are not physically attractive... and we just don't get along. Plus they're all like "I'm white!" and I'm like dude you're darker than I am and I'm latina, get outta here

[ZeussLightningBolt]

They're white amiga!
I think some of the ones in the south are mixed with Turks.
As is the case everywhere, the further north you go in a region, the whiter the people are.

I consider you a White Latina :p

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

Well they don’t look white and they don’t act white, so as far as I’m concerned they’re not white.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

LOL
What do they act like then?

Are Italians white?
Historically and genealogically wise, Italians are not white. This is due to the occupation of Moorish people, the Ottoman Empire, the Persian Empire and North Africans in Italy.
Are Italians considered white? - Quora
www.quora.com/Are-Italians-considered-white

Oh well. There you go. :p

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

“... and North Africans in Italy.” BOOM

That explains why they wear their pants on their knees 🤔

[ZeussLightningBolt]

LMAO!
What?
Can you show me a picture of what you're talking about?

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

You don’t remember the beanie guy? He was Italian 😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

He WAS?
I thought he was a white guy with a fake tan

[Rica_ChicaUSA]

He did have a fake tan, and he claimed to be white (just like I was talking about they do).

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Even the census considers them white, but actually North Africans are also white, but Southern Italians are dark. I think they're most likely descended from Bedouins. But Northern Italians are white.

But the Maltese definitely aren't white

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Well, at least not Caucasian

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Actually the only true white races are Caucasians and Scandinavians.
Everyone else is mixed

[thegirlfromthething]

I’m open to it but an Italian wouldn’t be my first choice. It’s not like a goal of mine to find one and I doubt I’d like a guy more because he’s Italian.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Fair eniugh

[SydneySentinel]

I'm open to it. I wouldn't seek someone out for that reason alone.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

A traditional Italian girl who's close to her family, cooks, acts and dresses feminine, knows how to be a lady and not a slapper, who is intelligent and great in bed?

Yeah I'd give her a shot!

:D

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That Jean Marie Celine guy said they're all snobs though

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Can I just be a horny mutt in peace? haha, although I have met some snobby Italians tbf, but then at same time I had a total crush on the Italian girl in Master Of None on Netflix lol

[BrittBratt2416]

Sure if i was single, but my boyfriend told me Italians are racist as fuck against black people... so nope.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Okay yeah that's kind of true, especially now that Somalian scumbags are harassing female locals and tourists.

I just read they love Americans though, which is why I suddenly became interested.
As long as they like white people I really don't care to be honest

[CubsterShura]

Why not? They are quite attractive and their food is good. The struggle would be to find a Muslim Italian.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's a GOOD thing

[CubsterShura]

Lol why

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Muslims belong in MUSLIM countries

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I want Italians to stay Catholic

[CubsterShura]

Anyone can be Muslim.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I know. But I want Catholic cultures to remain Catholic.
Under YOUR argument, a Muslim can convert to Catholicism too

[CubsterShura]

Well they could.

[Massageman]

If I didn't marry Bohemian, I'd go Italian or Hispanic.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Bohemian?
You mean like from Bohemia?

[Massageman]

Yes. The specific names may vary a bit depending on when in history you look, but Bohemia is now a "province" or segment of what is now the Czech Republic.

[KaitieSearching]

Genetically, sure, but I’m only gonna date someone who is an American. I don’t like long distance that spans oceans.

[Dchrls78104]

I'm a citizen of the West Indies so if a girl like that came along it should be interesting.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

You are black man?

[Dchrls78104]

@ZeussLightningBolt and yes, I am a black man.

[BeHappy1985]

Only if it is a real Italian who grew up in italy, not the fake American version.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I agree

[Cowboy6666]

i would like to date an italian lady if she isn't racist to South Asian guy

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Fair enough

[ZeussLightningBolt]

[SarahsSummer]

I've never been attracted to a nationality, only to a man.

[Inneedofusername]

I mean, Italian guys are super handsome. Totally my type when it comes to appearance

[Ganta2Igarashi]

I could imagine that it would work great do to the simular culture that Italians and Arabs have both have a deep respect for family and religion. Italians are allegedly very stylish and I am too so yeah would be great

[ItsAMeA]

Not marry, but I would consider dating an Italian woman. It just depends on her as an individual. Her being Italian is irrelevant.

[BjornDK]

I will never rule out any nationality, but I do find Italians to be loud and kinda cocky in general. I'd be open to anyone who isn't like that tho

[The_White_Queen]

If single sure. My man's a Russian though.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I didn't know you were dating a Russian.
Anyways, Italian women are HOT!
Other Southern European girls are unattractive, unless you count Ex Yugoslavia and Albania as southern Europe

[Apple1996]

Already married to one

[ZeussLightningBolt]

The FUCK?
He's ITALIAN?
I thought he was Mexican.

But I meant a REAL Italian, like from Italy.

[Apple1996]

My husband mexican? I fuckikg wish 😂😂😂
But yeah his grandpa came to the us from Italy, his last name is super Italian. Main reason I won't take it is because it's to difficult to say

[Apple1996]

We are acutally trying to get stationed in Italy just for the experience and cuz he wants to try to meet some family

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I thought you said he was Mexican.
Okay yeah, I ain't sexting with an Italian's wife :p

[Apple1996]

😆😆😆is that too dangerous?

[ZeussLightningBolt]

YEAH.
LOL

[ChocoLada]

If I were single, I would if I like the guy.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

You said you like Italian men ;)

[ChocoLada]

Of course I do, and Spanish men too ;)

[ZeussLightningBolt]

You said they're cocky though

[ChocoLada]

Yes they are, but in a likable way ;)

[PurpleTeardrops2]

If he's rich, I would

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Ew Gold digger!
BOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

[PurpleTeardrops2]

Ew a broke man
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

[bytes]

they would have great food and family mentality!

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Most do

[SexyAshh]

Probably not because i think of jersey shore

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Oh yeah, that one fuckin' Italian guy who was invited to the Bruce Willis roast and was booed off the podium.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

The Situation!
What the fucking fuck?
What kind of retarded faggy stagename is THAT?

[SexyAshh]

Im not judging any of them personality wise, i actually like the show and all of them. Im judging looks wise.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Oh! I see. LOL
You actually watch that shit?
What about Italian footballers?

[iFarted]

Im open to it. I dont personally know any Italians irl but there were 2 I've talked to on GaG that were dope.

[marckuschapolo]

Open minded people don't care where you are coming from

[13IsALuckyNumber]

Sure. It’s a person, who cares where they come from.

[AkshiJanjua]

i don't get the difference between Europeans Italians, Germans, English all look same

[ZeussLightningBolt]

They do NOT

[AkshiJanjua]

how?
what are the differences

[DjZrate]

Pssh y'all just hating on this Mexican Italian 💪😎

[anmari2001]

Hot italianos mamma Mia!

[Slim57]

Uh yeah I've never seen an attractive Italian woman that wasn't automatically a 10

[AngelLily]

I'm definitely open.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

In more ways than one

[GhettoGirl]

Ew, I dont know, I heard they were greasy.

[JesseJayNeak]

I am Italian

[ZeussLightningBolt]

AND?
Have you dated one?

[JesseJayNeak]

Yes, I did.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

And...
?

[JesseJayNeak]

Not bad but not good either

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Shit. What happened?
What part of Italy was she from?
Are the women less snobby in smaller towns/villages?
What about on the islands?

[JesseJayNeak]

The first one was close to my hometown. She betrayed me for someone else. The second one was better, but her parents...

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Damn. That sucks

[CuriousMufuxka]

I may or may not want to..

[1828avaava1828]

idkk

[mermaidia_lol]

I don't mind.

[EmeraldGreen190]

No j don’t date outside my race

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Racista!

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Actually on second thought that's good, leave the whites for whites :p

[EmeraldGreen190]

Cool! Everyone should be with their own people.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Everyone should stay in their birth country too

[EmeraldGreen190]

Yep I agree 👍

[ZeussLightningBolt]

That's bad news for me though, because I love Indian girls

[StephenCF]

I don’t date outside my race either, simply because they’re not my preference (& we know having likes & dislikes is normal).

I can date different nationalities, but they’d still need to be white more or less. Any other race would only be in my friendzone, I don’t care how much interest they show

[EmeraldGreen190]

@StephenCF Okay? Good for you.

[Phoenix98]

Sure.

[Tyffen]

Yeah

[ZeussLightningBolt]

I saw one that looked like YOU, but I won't find it now

[Tyffen]

But you won't find it? 👀😂

[ZeussLightningBolt]

This wasn't the guy, but close enough
https://youtu.be/mA-qeAPwVWw

[Tyffen]

Hahaha 😂😂

[nimmouser]

Yes sure why not.