Should you go on a second date if you don't feel the SPARK? (Page 2)
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Depends on the situation. You can feel no spark as in not attraction to the other person intimately but still find them to be fun to be around or to talk to as a friend. But in that you would have to let them know before you go on the second date so you dont get their Hope's up for accepting the second date.
If there is no connection what so ever than no dont go.
No, your just trying to convince yourself there's something there. Worse still if he really likes you your just going to make it harder on him when you do say no more dates.
If for fun, yes if not then no. The spark usually is right at the beginning and if isn't there then don't waste time.
I think you might be right !
I wouldn't. I hate when people say try it and see if u like it. Nah if i already decided i dont want it, then i ain't tryna try it
I think so, I've heard go 3-4 dates. First dates can be awkward, sparks can be bad sparks. but there needs to be something of interest...
If I don't feel that connection in the moment of meeting someone, I move on.. They'd only be good as a friend
It depends like if we had similar interest but the first date was awkward and went nowhere as far as conversation went. If there was no spark then probably not as I would hate to force myself on someone who wasn't feeling the same way I felt. Or trying to force a spark.
Depends little on if I gotten bad feelings or not.
No feelings can become feelings. obviously doesn't majority of people understand this anymore. only after that fast movie spark that is made up to sell movies since it's extremely rare. an spark that players artificial creates to get in someone's pants.
A lot of people have become retarded on this front.
I've had dates where I didn't feel a 'spark' on date 1 and actually then went on to have others and finally had 1 when I did have that spark hit. With a guy I didn't have that spark with, I had 2 dates but it didn't change things.
Nah... I wouldn’t. One day you will meet someone who makes you feel like you’re flying and you’ll wonder why you wasted your time on someone who didn’t do it for you.
I don't need a spark to spend time with a person who gives me joy while talking and we understand each other.
You don’t care about the “spark” of love?
Even attractive women don't cause always a "spark" (pheromone or something like that)
Yes. I went on a date with a guy last week and we got on, but I didn’t feel any romantic spark. So I’m seeing him again this week as my decider to whether we should continue going on dates or not.
I never went on a second date were I didn't feel something the first date. It didn't need to be a raging Inferno but there needed to be something there.
Sure, a spark could be confused with the idea of being with someone or a strong sexual attraction. If you have stuff in common with them and get along pretty well, then why not
I would just to give the girl a second chance maybe even a third..
Hell no!!! If I would do this very dumb time wasting activity, I might come home and drink pine sol. I think it smells good enough to drink. Nevermind the mental retardation that will follow... better just go ahead tho. It’s in my cabinet already.
First dates are too early to REALLY know if there is a "spark". Even experienced daters can have an awkward first date, giving the wrong first impression. I would give it a couple more shots before writing off the possibility of a relationship.
You dont owe them a second date, but it's not bad or misleading. I mean if you dont feel it on the first date, it is possible the second one may have redeeming qualities. You never know, it might work out, unless your gut feeling says otherwise.
Yes. A lot of women pressure themselves too much on a first date.
I might because I wouldn't have gone on a first date if I didn't find her interestibg and sometimes a woman needs some tome to feel comfortable.