Their neediness could be fear of losing you or insecurities they have who knows. Next time ask a guy why he's like that and communicate to him that he needs to chill. Maybe don't be in a relationship, sounds like you don't want to be tied down.
Lol, you might be the unicorn here. 🦄🦄🦄 Most people say they want what you keep finding. Just be up front with people in the beginning and let them know what you are looking for.
Guys that want to rush like that are eager to fall in love, a. k. a. insecure. You're selecting decent guys but all betas. Seek a man who makes you work a bit for his attention because he's busy working on himself.
Good god, that sounds hard. Maybe you could use a break?
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I don't know, but there are plenty of assholes out there who would fulfill your fantasies. I used to be one of those guys, but women like you made me realize that I need to stop giving a fuck. I notice that women now give me more respect.
@kim45456 What does that have to do with your question or this discussion? Do you think that making groundless personal attacks strengthens your argument? I could easily assume from your question that YOU are the one who "can't choose the right partner."
Sounds like BS when you said "they're very attractive", everything else lined up but that, unless your attractive scale is much less calibrated than the average scale.
Because you're being victimised for being too good looking love. You get the best there is, and then someone calls it 'needy'. If a man is manly, he is a jerk, if he is romantic, he is needy - jealous friends will always find a way to attach some bad label so you dump a guy that actually is good to you (and they can justify their own deficiencies). Most of love problems come down to those around you being too jealous to let you enjoy your own life.
How is this unrelated or irrelevant? Arnold broke Maria's heart. His actions caused the end of a beautiful love story. And his attitudes were most likely the seed of those actions.
@Jamie05rhs Boy, that's some mamby-pamby bullshit isn't it? What makes you think it was so beautiful in the first place? What about HER attitude? Don't you think her 'attracting' in the first place tells you something?
@Jamie05rhs - You're clearly clueless. Oh well. Have fun on GAG. And your little shaming tactics don't mean jackshit to me. IDGAF It's not even your question and you don't know anything about women, relationships, or life. What's even worse is you're a 32yo guy that acts like a 12yo girl. complete fail. You must be one of those girlie-men. LOL
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You're a brat for not appreciating that. At least you know you'll be loved and looked after. Heaps of girls would kill for that.
What in the hell are you thinking girl? Those are the men that matter!
Their neediness could be fear of losing you or insecurities they have who knows. Next time ask a guy why he's like that and communicate to him that he needs to chill. Maybe don't be in a relationship, sounds like you don't want to be tied down.
I guess girls are just gonna complain no matter what lol
You probably have an outrageous set of tits.
" I don’t want a bad boy or a jerk, " Yeah, you do.
Lol, you might be the unicorn here. 🦄🦄🦄
Most people say they want what you keep finding. Just be up front with people in the beginning and let them know what you are looking for.
Same thing happens to me.
You typically attract opposite ot what you are, it balances out the two of you together.
If you find you dont like it, start looking for the opposite then
Weird most women complain that men aren’t romantic and don’t commit enough... seems like men can’t win whatever we do
Yep. Catch 22
I think it's less that and more that there are different women with different tastes. You can't please everyone
If you're not ready for anything serious then just use tinder and do short-term stuff.
I don't believe that you attract them, I believe you subconciously choose them.
It would seem to me you DO want the bad boy type but only for sex and the romantic for everything else. Is this at all accurate?
She is a entitled hoe
I had a girlfriend like that. I miss the hell out of that girl. She was awesome, followed me like a puppy.
I wish I had a boyfriend like that. I’m always alone
You want a clingy boyfriend? I think I I found a real life unicorn! lol. Most ladies dont want that. You are gonna make someone very happy.
Guys that want to rush like that are eager to fall in love, a. k. a. insecure. You're selecting decent guys but all betas. Seek a man who makes you work a bit for his attention because he's busy working on himself.
Good god, that sounds hard. Maybe you could use a break?
I don't know, but there are plenty of assholes out there who would fulfill your fantasies. I used to be one of those guys, but women like you made me realize that I need to stop giving a fuck. I notice that women now give me more respect.
Stop generalizing
@kim45456 I wasn't generalizing. I clearly wrote "women like you." That isn't all women.
It is your fault if you can't choose the right partner
@kim45456 What does that have to do with your question or this discussion? Do you think that making groundless personal attacks strengthens your argument? I could easily assume from your question that YOU are the one who "can't choose the right partner."
Sounds like BS when you said "they're very attractive", everything else lined up but that, unless your attractive scale is much less calibrated than the average scale.
You should tell them early on, that you just want sex and to use them for shit.
A lot men don't get the kind of attention and affection that girls can get. Can you blame them?
Can you tell me something - how pretty good looking are you, and do you have blue/bright eyes?
Lol. No my eyes are hazel but I always hear that I’m a 9. Why?
Because you're being victimised for being too good looking love. You get the best there is, and then someone calls it 'needy'. If a man is manly, he is a jerk, if he is romantic, he is needy - jealous friends will always find a way to attach some bad label so you dump a guy that actually is good to you (and they can justify their own deficiencies).
Most of love problems come down to those around you being too jealous to let you enjoy your own life.
Cuz you're afraid of the alpha male. Don't date girlie-men.
I remember someone who used to call guys "girly men.". He cheated on his wife. It destroyed their family.
@Jamie05rhs - Do you always make unrelated and irrelevant comments on a subject?
How is this unrelated or irrelevant? Arnold broke Maria's heart. His actions caused the end of a beautiful love story. And his attitudes were most likely the seed of those actions.
@Jamie05rhs Boy, that's some mamby-pamby bullshit isn't it?
What makes you think it was so beautiful in the first place?
What about HER attitude? Don't you think her 'attracting' in the first place tells you something?
@Browneye57 You're a real piece of work, man. You're never going to find peace in life until you come to terms with the bitterness in your soul.
@Jamie05rhs - You're clearly clueless. Oh well. Have fun on GAG.
And your little shaming tactics don't mean jackshit to me. IDGAF
It's not even your question and you don't know anything about women, relationships, or life. What's even worse is you're a 32yo guy that acts like a 12yo girl. complete fail. You must be one of those girlie-men. LOL