Is it okay to kiss him on the second date?

[Anonymous]

I recently went on a date with a guy and we had a blast. When it ended, I think my interest in him had developed into a full fledged crush. The next day, he asked me out again and we agreed on a second date. If things go well, I think I'd like to become more intimate... Like a kiss. Problem is, I don't have much experience. My first kiss was stolen in a club and I was in too much shock to actually process what was happening (all I know is that the dude was french kissing me and... I don't actually remember how it felt lol). Second time was... Well I had a one night stand and before that I was making out with the guy. At least, I'm pretty sure we did (I was actually drunk by then so I only remember bits and pieces from that night). So yeah. That sums up my experience, which I basically don't remember. Should I just kiss him on the cheek or something? Or a quick peck on the lips?

[_SOARER_]

A small kiss on the cheek, peck on the lips, and let him take the lead. Dont try and use tongue yet.
Let him take the lead.
Use your lips, those are the best kisses.

He will be super happy to feel like he is making progress, even if its just hand holding haha :)
Just show him affirmation, you will do great!

It will go well dont worry

[_SOARER_]

I hope it goes well! 😊

[Asker]

I hope so too. Am keeping my fingers crossed. And thank you so much!! ☺️

[_SOARER_]

haha update me on how it goes!
I have a date on Friday... and I was wondering the same thing, because it will be my 2nd date too
For guys its a bit different because we have to take the lead :) So the pressure is real.
I hope our dates go well! Fingers crossed!

[Asker]

Haha alright I will!! Good luck with your date 😊 and while it's true that the pressure is on the guys, the girl has to take the initiative sometimes too.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

And there are *STILL* people that ask me why I don't do dating and relationshits, I just fuck and move on.

I might have to start telling them to visit this site, they'll quickly discover why for themselves.

[Asker]

Why? I don't see what's wrong with anything I asked. And I don't care if you're jaded by relationships or what, but don't compare me with people who hurt you because you don't even know me and I sure as hell ain't here to be judged by you.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

You've already demonstrated that you're a slut, and now you're debating whether it's ok to kiss a guy.

You can't put shit back in a horse.

[Asker]

Oh please and you're a man whore who just declared that you ONLY do the whole fuck and then leave routine. Spare me your double standards. We don't live in a patriarchal world anymore and you need to get over yourself and stop being such a male chauvinist. You know that's probably a big reason why you can't maintain a relationship: you lack basic respect for women.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Cool story cupcake.

[Asker]

🙄 Yeah don't patronize me.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

You're too far away and I don't feel like spending the $3 on a drink to get a bar restroom blowjob.

[Asker]

Don't worry, I wouldn't do it even if you were last man on earth.

[VIVANT]

@TheFlake38

To kiss on a second date, is slutty
🤨🤨

[VIVANT]

@TheFlak38

Anyhow asker, it’s fine if you like to. No problem. 😊

[VIVANT]

Just go with how it feels... of it feels right go ahead. With however you are comfortable with.

If you want to kiss him, that is fine.

If you want him to kiss you, you can hold his hand touch his arm or lean in etc and he will probably kiss you.

I wouldn’t worry about how to do it Though. Just go with the flow. If you Guys are both feeling it, it should be fine 🌟

[Asker]

Hehe thanks for the advice ❤️ I feel more reassured now.

[VIVANT]

Awesome 👍🏻😎🌟

[Anonymous]

''Well I had a one night stand...''

''Is it okay to kiss him on the second date? ''

Females summed up in 2019...

[Asker]

Well yeah I mean the hookup was because I was curious about sex and wanted to explore my own sexuality. And this guy is someone I'd like to date long term.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I see. Then why not simply explain that to him. I'm sure he will understand. When we talk about what makes us nervous, it releases the pressure.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that if you are feeling it. Even on the first date if you're comfortable.

[Loveinveins]

Yes.

[TheFlak38]

no. it's slutty.