Why hasn’t he kissed me on the second date?

[KathrynTaylor]

He bought my lunch, then walked me to the train station, was really attentive, then just gave me a big hug. I kissed him on the cheek and he said; ‘You’re sweet;’ and wandered off. What is that? Am I friendzoned, or is he shy? We did agree to take things slowly.

[Daniela1982]

Because you kissed him on the cheek and not his lips. That made him feel you didn't want to really give him a big fat sloppy kiss on his mouth.

[KathrynTaylor]

He wasn’t going to give me one anyway.

[KathrynTaylor]

He keeps going for a hug and not kissing me.

[Daniela1982]

How do you know that? Maybe your body language was saying, no kiss for you. Orrrrr... maybe you did get friend zoned, or he was just without much dating experience and a bit shy. At least he wasn't trying to cop a feel.

[KathrynTaylor]

True. He’s a guy who respects women.

[LazerBean]

Why the hell would he? It's the second date. Some guys just aren't that easy and actually care where their mouth has been.

[summiter]

he may be shy or not sure how to proceed. You may need to take the initiative.

[slatyb]

He's shy. Just kiss him yourself. Has he dated before?

[KathrynTaylor]

Not sure

[mommymommymommy]

Because some people just take dates at a certain pace. I know some people who believe the third date is the sex date, while others believe it's not

[shades777]

you started the friendzone with the cheek kiss, cheek kisses aren't for couples its for family members