When a woman walks past guys. Why do so many men make it completely obvious that they are staring at the woman. Like a hungry tiger.
It never bothered me. I used to take my son to the pool hall to teach him how to shoot pool. He was about 16 then and the other guys that were there playing were young guys, like 18.
I don't look my age and really looked way younger when my son was a teenager.
I had long blondish brown straight hair down to my waist, nice make up on, not too much. I was tiny (not too short) and hadn't lost my girlish figure yet.
Those guys probably thought I was around their age, or a little older. But all of them were checking me out and starring at me. I was embarrassed but flattered at the same time. vyeah, they liked watching me leaning over and playing a good game of pool.
Construction workers are probably the worst LOL
They would almost fall of their ladders looking at the ladies.🙂
But that was back in the good old days when women didn't get mad at guys starring at them. They took it as a compliment.
Man, I miss the good old days when it was all done in fun!
You're young. Used to be common for a lot of them to wolf whistle and yell disgusting comments. Then the movement came that called that behavior out as disrespectful. Now it's just this. Lots to be grateful for.
Poor communication skills. Such men want women but don't know how to get them so settle on just broadcasting their desires with body language. These men don't seem to understand that communication skills aren't just the means for talking to women, it's also what some women are actually attracted to.
The problem is developing communication skills is as challenging as developing the skills of any sport, except there is no way to mark ones imporvement. So it's not something a lot of men pursue in their early years, like other sports. And when they reach 20 or so men tend to be set in their ways already, hence instead of doing the work of learning how to walk through the labyrinth they stand outside it expecting women to come to them.
What exactly is staring? Like how long time wise would a man have to look to make it look like he’s “staring?” Your time frame may be different than everyone else is time frame of staring. A lot of YouTube videos do this, especially the girls videos in the gym. They will slow down the video when a man glances at her so it looks like an eternity of him just staring at her when he isn’t. I look at everyone. I’m just like that after 10 years in the military. I look numerous times to register clothes, who they’re w, they’re behavior, etc. But I’m not starting in the way you think like I want to screw her or something. I do the same w men.
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Same reason I stare at a Lamborghini or the 900,000 two-masted yacht docked at the marina like a hungry tiger.
Not playing the "it the woman's fault because of how she dresses" card, but lets face it, men are hard wired as visually stimulated creatures. It was a survival of the species necessity. 10,000 years ago we selected the hottest looking one from the herd, grabbed her by the hair and dragged her to our cave to procreate and ensure survival of the species. Times have changed the selection process, but the hard-wiring still remains the same.
We simply find a nice ass or nice tits or a pretty shape stimulating because it releases dopamine to the brain, a reward hormone neurotransmitter. That was necessary in the past when survival of the species against man-eating predators and unfavorable climate was a challenge to the species.
The human central nervous system hasn't changed that much since we were created thousands of years ago.
This is exactly what the feminists want, to turn men and against women and women against men, so they do not mate. There is nothing wrong with staring, it is natural and normal. The problem is women having a problem with it. Plus it is in a public space and we can look where we like and think what we like. This is just more hypocrisy from women trying to control men. I mean trying to control where we look and what we think. Men never did that to women in the past.
It is also worth noting that staring is linked to a range of conditions such as Autism, Epilepsy, Narcolepsy and Dementia. And you have no right being ableist and discriminating against people with disabilities.
You are also being a snowflake and need to grow up.
We guys are visual creatures. We like to look at good looking things. And when we see an attractive woman, we like to look, and sometimes stare. It doesn't mean anything, and most of the women I've known treat it as a compliment when a guy stares at them.
Women have evolved to be more evolved. Their social circumstances demanded it for so long. Men have been able to be less evolved far too late. Kill, eat & fuck… the biological imperative of at least 33% of even modern men. Ell oh ell!
What may surprise most women is the primal drive of seemingly very evolved modern men.
Natural selection. Society places the entire burden of romantic pursuit on men, so it makes no sense to be subtle about it. If she notices, she can reciprocate (if she's interested) or rebuff him (if she's not); if she doesn't know, he's likely to waste a great deal of time.
Because that’s how most of us men were made , it’s our natural instincts , we are like animals when we see a beautiful girl that catches our eye , we imagine her in our arms and having our way with her , some
Men control their instincts better than others’ tend to , but don’t think for a second he hasn’t already pictured you naked in his arms, if he approaches you and starts flirting with you , He pretty much wants to bang you
How else are men supposed to show to a woman that he is interested? He can't talk to her these days without risk of harassment charges. Can't even look at women we find attractive now? It's no wonder women are crying about being single in their 30s 🤣 y'all don't this shit to yourselves and I feel no sympathy for you
I have never seen any evidence of this, in fact quite the contrary I don't look and I don't see other men ever do this either.
I read an article recently where a guy wondered the same thing and did an informal study. He said they watched over 200 different men on the beaches near Miami with women walking around everywhere wearing very little. The men he claimed in almost 200 instances hardly paid any attention.
Because women want men to stare at them like that. Otherwise she wouldn't attempt to make herself look attractive for a man's attention. The problem isn't men, it's women dangling steak in front of a tiger and expecting it not to want to eat it
You make it seem like men are predators, stalking a kill. I think a more approrpaite analogy would be "Why do all men stare at attractive women?" Because it surely isn't all women that are being stated at, and most men aren't predators.
Because they ARE hungry tigers.
Nature and evolution designed men to be visually stimulated by the sight of womens' bodies and aggressively pursue a sexual relationship with women to lead to procreation and survival of the human species.
You should be thankful because without that you wouldn't be here today to talk about it.
Because many guys are that desperate as they've first or only seen a woman naked in porn. Many guys these days are watching porn that's why many girls consider making an OF profile.
... Bad metaphor. Tigers are ambush predators. They generally attack from behind, where the prey can't see them. That is the complete opposite of "completely obvious".
Hiding it would be lying. Women do it, too.
Because if all they are gonna do is look ehy hide it
I hear you. What would be a better non verbal way or even something like "I live summer!" when walking past?
To be honest, I don’t even notice. 😂 Only a handful of guys have ever said anything as I walked by them.
I have only done that a few times with a girl I like accidently. Usually I'm too shy to do it intentionally.
Yea I do it to as someone who attracted to both. And also do same with train wrecks.
I know some guys do but they should not make it so obvious. Do you ever check a guy out?
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