This morning (the day of the date) I get a long message responding to my previous text and in between ‘I’m sorry please don’t hate me, I’m really sorry something came up and I can’t make tonight. Can you please do any days next weekend?’ ... so no explanation really..
I sent a response saying I couldn’t do the next weekend and to let me know what other days he can do. He has messaged since saying ‘apologies again, I feel really bad now, can you do a day during the week?’
Now I don’t know what to think or do! This combined with his different behaviour over the last week has confused me. We’ve never met and this was meant to be our first meeting/ date!!
Some advice /opinions would really help...
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Firstly, he doesn’t owe you an explanation, you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone, it’s a first date. Your not best friends and your not his girlfriend. So the fact that he isn’t giving an explanation is not a bad thing. It’s a sign he has self confidence actually and doesn’t need to explain himself to a person who he has only been talking to for a few weeks. No one owes any sort of explanation to someone they have known for that’s length of time.
Secondly, he has made SEVERAL attempts to reschedule with you. If you keep trying to make him feel bad and almost beg to see you again he is never going to want to make a plan with you again because if he can’t come you are going to make a big deal of it. The fact he is trying to see you again really bad shows he is Interested in you. Something probably did come up, maybe with someone he has known for years and sorry girl but that takes priority over someone he has known for three weeks.
So forgive him, stop making him feel bad, and say sure no problem let’s do bla day, and put a smiley face, xx