How to have a good first date?

[heyitsmemorgan]

Ok guys, what makes a good first date? Give me details! What’s your ideal date and what makes a date memorable? I’m very shy too, so any tips for making things less awkward is much appreciated!

[Dongtai]

A good first date for me is one where I go home wanting to know more about the girl and looking forward to seeing her again.

What usually does that for me is feeling like I’ve connected with her on some level. When I was younger a physical connection always did it. But now I need a mental/emotional connection to consider a girl worth keeping around.

Conversation is the best way to connect with someone. Talking about things that matter to you and relating it to the person you’re talking to. It makes you feel understood. Like you have a person who “gets you”. But don’t forget to laugh and flirt a bit.

All of my favorite memories about women revolve around connection. Find a way to connect with him in a way most girls wouldn’t think to. Find out what matters to him. Not the surface things. But the things you have to find out by getting him to open up. Then relate to him by telling him things about yourself that connect with what he says.

[Sockertz]

First and only date I’ve been on: take her to an amusement park that was turned into a Halloween horror thing with haunted houses and stuff. I didn’t know it was an amusement park or anything about horror anything but she liked the idea so we went. Spent the time in line talking about each other asking questions and getting to know each other, and when we got on the rides she got to laugh at me fearing for my life. She had a great time and so did I. It’s all about getting to know the other person and having a good time with them, enjoy the person you’re with and anything can be a good date... even if you want to cry because you’re scared of heights and roller coasters.

[diphylleiagrayi]

go to a place that makes you and him happy and have fun. for example like an amusement park, hiking, or going to the beach or etc. and as others say, just be yourself, and smile as it is bcs that's what makes you more beautiful and will certainly be loved by your partner :>

[redpanda_]

Be yourself, don't try be anyone that you're not. Chances are you'll make it memorable with something you don't even pick up on 😊

[Tyffen]

A relaxing and informal atmosphere. Which helps if you know the person from before the date.

It's helpful if you have something you both want to do, that involves an activity. It could also just be a restaurant type of thing, if you're more into talking.


If you don't know the person. Try not to talk too much about things he has got no relation to.


Don't be too open and intimate. But don't isolate yourself from an interesting conversation.

[blutwolfe]

Just enjoy it, go in with low expectations, if you go in with high expectations you'll just be disappointed, if you go in with low expectations, you'll be surprised.

[curiousmanguydude]

Bowling is always fun. Its that time of the year for ice skating. Maybe going for a midday hike could make things fun since were late into fall.

[SkinFlute]

Just be yourself. If he acts rude, kick him in the nuts. You deserve a special date night. God bless.

[Jaybird19]

I don't suggest kicking anyone in the nuts if you want to stay away from criminal charges

[Somethingwittty]

Smile, listen, and a coffee joint or a movie then dinner.

[nicholas4376]

take her out to dinner or a movie or get some ice cream and go for a walk and talk show her a good time

[karanxro]

Do something fun, as you'd do with a friend. Eat something together. If he can't do fun, not worth your time.

[Harami10]

First of all Be your self in your every dates be comfortable and relax date will be going great automatically 😊

[coolhandroo]

Sex at the beginning of it

[Anonymous]

Baking pie together.