Guys, do you always talk to the girl you like everyday? No breaks in between? Do you think she’s too needy if she wants to hear from you everyday?

[Pinay_ako]

[EABsTUQ]

I'm going to tell you my brain's answer and then I'm going to give you a review of my actions.
Brain Answer: Yes I will talk to her everyday
Previous actions: Girls always break up with me for the same reason. It may come in different forms but it always breaks down to the same reason. The reason is, they believe I am too distant. When I was younger and when this "distant" was most obv to me is when I would talk to a girl for 3 weeks or 4 weeks and then disappear without being aware I was even doing it. The one time I put a immense amount of effort toward giving my girl attention and not disappearing, was the worst relationship I heard had. She always believed I had hoes or whatever and she basically believed I was playing her. And this was probably the girl I loved the most. She would always tell me, "I feel like I don't know you". If you really wanna have a profound relationship don't text you're lover all day, BE with your lover all day.

[MrOracle]

It's one thing to talk that much if you are face to face most of the time, but I can't do that over the phone. I am a small business owner who already has to be on the phone too much that it's hard to get work done, and when I finally get home, I still have 1-3 hours of work to do, plus meals, showers, and housework. I am lucky to get 7 hours of sleep a night. So, yeah, it's often rough for me.

[HannahTanner]

That doesn't really happen to me. But they do usually talk to me more often

[CallMeDave]

Well, I live with her so yes I talk with her every day. But even before we started living together we talked every day. And that's not just because she wanted to but because I want to also. On the 5 Love Languages quiz ( my highest score is for Quality Time which means spending time together with my partner and that includes communicating with each other when we're not together.

Earlier this year we went on a trip where we were together nearly 24 hours a day for 11 straight days and neither of us got tired of that and in fact liked it, so I certainly don't think wanting daily contact is being too needy. Some guys don't like to be as tightly connected with their partners as I do though so I'm sure there are some that would consider it undesirable if she wanted more frequent contact than he did.

[Finchie40]

If 2 people really like each other then that shouldn’t even be a question , you should want to hear from your partner everyday whether it’s just a Hello or just thinking of you , when someone can go days without talking to someone they claim they care about then that just goes to show that they are just a convenience and that they don’t really value you that much. People that need space in a relationship shouldn’t be in a relationship, because they only really care about themselves and are very selfish , we don’t get committed to someone to be single , if they do then they don’t deserve you and you are just wasting your time , your partner should always be your number 1 priority , if you can’t treat them like that then don’t be surprised when they find someone that will. You need to be with someone that compliments your life not someone that complicates it

[Dave-from-Illinois]

I personally enjoy hearing from a lady I like every day. It makes me feel special and I like to do that to her as well. If she is the type that doesn't want to talk or text every day is fine too as I respect that.

It's only endless texting that drives me nuts where I hear my phone constantly going 'ding.'

[Lliam]

I like to talk to her every day. Sometimes more than once a day. Being pesky and wasting someone's time isn't desirable, but showing interest in each other's lives and sharing thoughts, feelings and daily events like BFFs are what relationships are all about.

[egarcia1360]

My girlfriend and I make sure to at least text each other every day. We also video call most nights. We're both pretty clingy, but we also know when to give each other space. Everyone is different, though; some people can go several days without so much as saying hello to their SO and that works for them. Some people need constant attention and that's what works for them. What matters is finding the right balance so one person doesn't feel overwhelmed and the other ignored.

[JSmuve]

That twitter chick has some kinda issues. If a girl wants to talk to me throughout the day, then I'll respond to her messages when I get them. But she's gotta start the conversation. Otherwise she'll hear from me a few times a week to check in if she's lucky, but not more.

[westwordbound]

Funny thing is women have a double standard on this. I had an ex who wanted to talk to me everyday. It got annoying but I figured that was the price I had to pay having a girlfriend. Then over Christmas break I got lonely and only for a few days did the same thing to her.

She told me to never contact her again and completely ghosted me. Blocked my number and blocked me on all social media. We had dated for 9 months.

[Rob19777]

she was being sarcastic in her post. and i don't talk to my girl everyday. sometimes i'll leave a quick i love you to her and that's it other times i'll tell her about my day sometimes i'll wish her a good night or a good morning and wish her a good day.

[COMMODOREII]

I think the way i look at it is if you both know each other's schedules and text for when each other are free so you don't get into trouble at work or school. Then there is no problem with wanting to say something to your partner. You can even say good night and good morning everytime you go to bed or wakeup. If you are also in a real relationship you never say honey, dear, babe, or any word like that with every single text you send. It's ok when you are ending the convo or starting the convo.

[d1sord3Rx]

If I had a girl or a girl I liked I would def talk to her everyday! It would be strange not to... at least say something like... thinking bout you, miss/love you sweet dreams... So no it's not needy :)

[ObscuredBeyond]

I check in at least once a week. Maybe more, if I like where things are headed. I'm busy, and assume she usually is too. Though, I do still want her to feel important.

[ChiTown33]

I talk to the woman i like when i feel like talking to her. Which is generally all the time. But i'm kind of weird when i'm intetested in a woman i'm only interested in her. It's my achilles heel

[ShadowofRegret]

Depends on how comfortable I am talking to her, if I open up to her enough where I feel like I can relax around her, then I would not mind at all.

[winterfox10]

That would be too much for me. I need my space and independence. Plus, being away from someone for a while lets you build up things to talk about when you are together.

[YHL6965]

We have been talking everyday for quite a few months now with my crush and, the only time we could not, it was because of external factors. We never took a break. Why would I take a break from someone so perfect?

[andreasderjuengere]

Well: we live together. But we don't talk 'too much'.
It's just good to feel the presence of the most important other person in my life.

[markscott]

It seems needy to me, to need to talk to someone every day.

[cavmanier]

Yes, hopefully I would want to talk to them everyday. Oh course not the whole day straight though.

[Somethingwittty]

If were not serious then no I dont unless they need to talk or its serious.

[0112358]

I’d want to talk every day and would find it odd if she didn’t.