Do men call or text if they aren’t interested?

[Anonymous]

Do men call or text if they aren’t interested in you?

Yes

No

[Creepazoid]

sometimes when we're bored and for some reason unable to contact the person who we are interested or dating. at least that was the case with me, I rather be on the phone with a chick than a guy.

[Asker]

So like a back burner?

[Creepazoid]

No like a friend

[Creepazoid]

Tbh I have no clue what a back burner is

[Asker]

Someone who you are basically leading one

[Creepazoid]

Leading on how? Has he expressed any interest or did you draw that conclusion?

[Asker]

Yes. He calls and texts all the time but we haven’t hung out in awhile. I’ve tried but hasn’t worked out. He said it’s not that he doesn’t want too. I feel like it’s weird to talk to someone everyday with no interest in seeing them.

[Creepazoid]

Yeah sounds like he is "side burning you" if he has expressed interest. When was the last time he's expressed interest has it been a while? How often does he call? Sorry for probing but just trying to get a better understanding of the situation

[Asker]

He tells me if he didn’t want to hang out he’d tell me. But why waste your time calling and talking if you aren’t interested in seeing the person? I’ve confronted him. He says, it’s not another girl or anything. But he could be lying as well. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Creepazoid]

Lol but you said he doesn't want to hang out. Boredom could just be the reason. if it bothers you just stop answering his calls or text or keep them brief to show you are no longer interested in communicating with him in that way. He does not sound interested at all from what I've read. Yes I've called random female friends and acquaintances out of boredom as well. Yes he may very well be lying to you about a particular interest. Hope I was able to help

[different83]

Most of the people I converse with are female. That doesn't mean I'm interested in all of them

[Asker]

But do they know you aren’t interested?

[Asker]

I guess I’m trying to figure out if I’m just someone he calls 🤷🏼‍♀️

[different83]

Yes of course. There is only one I am interested in and I just met her recently so she does not yet know my feelings.

[Asker]

How do they know you aren’t interested? Sorry 😐

[different83]

No need to be sorry, there isn't enough clarity in the world anymore. I have female friends and I typically get along with females better than I do with males.. anytime its come up I have always been very clear about my feelings. Just because we aren't dating doesn't mean we can't be friends. The women who are in my life at the moment are friends and as I mentioned only the one I just met is the one I'm interested in.

[sassy1433]

Most likely not. I wouldn’t text or call a guy if I wasn’t interested.

[Asker]

Agreed, same here!

[chriscdi]

no those are signs of interest

[Agem123]

It depends on what frequency.

[yamixiii]

Depends on the person. Some can be very shady.

[Asker]

Who can be shady?

[yamixiii]

Anyone. Men specifically.