Ask your husband if he is fine with you removing your wedding ring so guys can buy you free drinks because they think you are single and attractive. If he isn't okay with that, then yes, that's cheating.
It's not cheating per se but it's still despicable. Your friends trying to manipulate other people so they get the best bargain at someone's expense. Its despicable.
If your husband thinks so then it is to him. I think it is shady for married women going to bars and talking/flirting with men. You are acting single. Why are they even there.
It's not "Cheating", but it is a very... I don't what word to use. It's just wrong. It's like tricking people to steal things. Your friends are a bad influence. They don't deserve to be married. If I found out, I would tell their husbands about this.
Yes, you are double cheating. You are cheating on your man by saying he is too broke to meet your financial needs. And you are cheating the men that are buying you free drinks. They too have limited resources and you are preventing them from meeting "the one."
Hell yeah it is if my wife ever take that ring off other than its getting re sized dont even attempt to put that back on thats a circle of trust letting aomeone buy you drinks leads to flirting flirting leads to something else and something else leads to me reaching into my back pocket for a great big can of ass wooppen!!!
Well, flirting (especially excessive) is cheating. Depends on their behaviour tbh, but I'd say it's more than likely cheating, without knowing more details.
Keep your ring on and drink water. Tricking guys/gals into buying you drinks is never a good idea. You can still enjoy a night out with friends without buying alcohol.
Why people would offer you (a single female) a free drinks? - Kind of approaching to initiate a flirtation, So to pretend to be a single female is just dirty trading
Your married friends sound toxic , maybe it’s a good thing that you can’t afford it , your friends taking off their rings to get free drinks just shows what kind of people they are and probably shouldn’t be married period , if you love your husband you should stay away from that toxic shit , it might seem innocent. But who knows what psych stalker is going to get mislead to think he has a chance with 1 of those girls and then follows them home and starts trouble with their husbands? It’s a possibility. But the thing is that’s what’s wrong with marriages and relationships , people tend to only think of themselves when getting into a relationship and that’s how relationships end , you should always wear your partners shoes and before making any decisions you should think how would my partner react to this situation , how would they feel? If you can’t do that in a relationship you shouldn’t be in one
@Sarahr123 it can be hard to know people are this way and many people have flaws. I was just talking to a doctor I know which is not a dumb guy about relationship problems he's had. He gave up on women.
Well you can be academically bright - almost any average person can be with effort. But that doesn’t mean he’s smart enough to see when someone is an ass. I mean some people have average to above average Intelligence Quotients but very bad Emotional Quotients, which is just as important. He’s book smart, he’s not street smart. He doesn’t understand people and how manipulative some can be. He cannot spot a narcissistic person a mile off. Some people have a natural flair for being able to sense twisted people and I think most people should be able to awaken their third eye. If you just look, observe, think with an open mind then you can spot the “red flags” from the onset. Like it’s ridiculous for someone to even ask if this is okay and the fact this woman even thought it I would know I’d want anyone I care about to steer well clear of her but someone who is gullible will give them the benefit of the doubt. I get a warning deep in my core when I fear someone is not good for me or people I care about. You should, and so should the doctor too. If you only listen to your conscience because you have sixth sense and you will sense when you are being used, exploited, manipulated. If you feel disrespected you cut people off right from the start don’t allow it to get further. People make too many mistakes by being desperate. No the world is a huge place and you must know your own worth.
Cheating, maybe not. But if you're willing to ignore the vow you made to your husband to literally whore yourself out for a few drinks... is that any better?
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Ask your husband if he is fine with you removing your wedding ring so guys can buy you free drinks because they think you are single and attractive. If he isn't okay with that, then yes, that's cheating.
It's not cheating per se but it's still despicable. Your friends trying to manipulate other people so they get the best bargain at someone's expense.
Its despicable.
If your husband thinks so then it is to him.
I think it is shady for married women going to bars and talking/flirting with men.
You are acting single. Why are they even there.
The husbands chose poorly and have shitty wives.
Yes, it is being deceitful but if that is what your character is go for it. What people will sell out for a few free drinks.
It's not "Cheating", but it is a very... I don't what word to use. It's just wrong. It's like tricking people to steal things. Your friends are a bad influence. They don't deserve to be married. If I found out, I would tell their husbands about this.
Yes, you are double cheating. You are cheating on your man by saying he is too broke to meet your financial needs. And you are cheating the men that are buying you free drinks. They too have limited resources and you are preventing them from meeting "the one."
truly cheating is when you have a romantic or sexual encounter with someone. either physically or mentally.
so taking off you ring to get free drinks. is more or less boarder line cheating in a since.
Hell yeah it is if my wife ever take that ring off other than its getting re sized dont even attempt to put that back on thats a circle of trust letting aomeone buy you drinks leads to flirting flirting leads to something else and something else leads to me reaching into my back pocket for a great big can of ass wooppen!!!
Well, flirting (especially excessive) is cheating. Depends on their behaviour tbh, but I'd say it's more than likely cheating, without knowing more details.
Keep your ring on and drink water. Tricking guys/gals into buying you drinks is never a good idea. You can still enjoy a night out with friends without buying alcohol.
Don't you want people to know that your married to a man you love
The ring signifies that you taken by someone special to you
So yes it's cheating
You need to warn your friends husbands believe me it's better to end it before it gets worse
Why people would offer you (a single female) a free drinks?
- Kind of approaching to initiate a flirtation,
So to pretend to be a single female is just dirty trading
Its called double cheating
First you cheat those guys to get you free drinks...
Second you cheat your husband because you probably didn't tell him about...
And, a husband will move on if he can't trust you about these things..
I don't think it is cheating, but it is a really shady thing to do.
That is the saddest attempt at prostitution I've ever heard of...
Lol...
Yes it’s wrong just like it be wrong for your husband to take off his ring to go to bars with his friends,
Your married friends sound toxic , maybe it’s a good thing that you can’t afford it , your friends taking off their rings to get free drinks just shows what kind of people they are and probably shouldn’t be married period , if you love your husband you should stay away from that toxic shit , it might seem innocent. But who knows what psych stalker is going to get mislead to think he has a chance with 1 of those girls and then follows them home and starts trouble with their husbands? It’s a possibility. But the thing is that’s what’s wrong with marriages and relationships , people tend to only think of themselves when getting into a relationship and that’s how relationships end , you should always wear your partners shoes and before making any decisions you should think how would my partner react to this situation , how would they feel? If you can’t do that in a relationship you shouldn’t be in one
It's manipulative and pretty much stealing as well as disrespectful to your husbands.
I wonder who was dumb enough to marry them
@Sarahr123 it can be hard to know people are this way and many people have flaws. I was just talking to a doctor I know which is not a dumb guy about relationship problems he's had. He gave up on women.
Well you can be academically bright - almost any average person can be with effort. But that doesn’t mean he’s smart enough to see when someone is an ass. I mean some people have average to above average Intelligence Quotients but very bad Emotional Quotients, which is just as important. He’s book smart, he’s not street smart. He doesn’t understand people and how manipulative some can be. He cannot spot a narcissistic person a mile off. Some people have a natural flair for being able to sense twisted people and I think most people should be able to awaken their third eye. If you just look, observe, think with an open mind then you can spot the “red flags” from the onset. Like it’s ridiculous for someone to even ask if this is okay and the fact this woman even thought it I would know I’d want anyone I care about to steer well clear of her but someone who is gullible will give them the benefit of the doubt. I get a warning deep in my core when I fear someone is not good for me or people I care about. You should, and so should the doctor too. If you only listen to your conscience because you have sixth sense and you will sense when you are being used, exploited, manipulated. If you feel disrespected you cut people off right from the start don’t allow it to get further. People make too many mistakes by being desperate. No the world is a huge place and you must know your own worth.
@Sarahr123 I'm quite naturally attracted to good women. I have great taste.
Well duh why are people desperate for cheap attention
Cheating, maybe not. But if you're willing to ignore the vow you made to your husband to literally whore yourself out for a few drinks... is that any better?