" Dating " with this girl... Why She keeps distance All the time?

[DanMaj]

I am dating couple off months with one girl.
I asked her out when she pass by my work , cause she was gorgeous. She got me by her smile. And lucky , she said yes. But after some dates she still keeps distance , and it making me total Mad , anxious , sad... I don't know what more to do , to her close. She is realy complicated , and I need do some effort to have fun together in " dates " . ... What to do , to get her more close?

[mindNsoul]

Maybe she just wants to take it slow.. maybe she fell before head first for a guy who hurt her.. talk to her. Don't overthink it and just say to her I really want to build something here but I feel that you are holding back. Listen to what she says and then make judgment and decide if it's genuine or not. You will be surprised to know the trauma some had to go through in their life before you. Abd somtimes is just fear that hold us back.
All the best.

[mindNsoul]

Thank you dear and I hope it went well between you two :)

[DanMaj]

Thank you very much , you are right with her. She is bit safe , trying to know me more so She is keeping some distance. She told me about her depresions and stuffs , soo I need to be patient 🤷

[mindNsoul]

☺️🌹🌹

[Mayfair]

I think she's either scared or she's just using you for entertainment and free meal purposes. Start being distant and see what happens

[DanMaj]

Trying to be distant as possible , I don't want to loose her thou

[Gatman34]

Dude she is seeing other guys and using you. She is using you. She is keeping you at a distance cause she knows it will keep you interested and drive you crazy like it clearly is. She is shit testing you and you are falling for it. This is why men need to quit being desperate and you sir are clearly getting played

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[Avicenna]

She's going on dates with you so she must think you're all right. Stay patient and build trust on her part.

[Anonymous]

Don't like you

[DanMaj]

Ok , this can be , but still why she is keeping going out with me? 🤷

[YellLow]

She likes eating and not paying 🤷‍♀️

[DanMaj]

Not realy , when we are on date we split , or one day she pays or I so i don't think so is it for the money