coming from experience I have actually noticed that as I dealt with more and more women, my minimum age limit has gone up and I am more ok with the idea of dating an older woman now honestly
Why? cause older women tend to know exactly what they want
It’s very hard to tell! I’ve dated 3 women who are older than me. The latter being 3 years and a half older. I wouldn’t call it mommy issues. I feel like it has more to do with your mental age and maturity. I’m more mature than my age due to certain circumstances in my childhood and that made me very quite and contained, which attracted older women and also made me attracted to them as well.
Can be, but in my case I think it is something else. My mom was almost 45 when I was born, so most of her friends' daughters were usually several years older than I am. I was 7 or 8 hanging out with mostly 13-15 year old girls when mom's friends were over so I just gravitate towards them as "peers."
In my place men are generally discouraged to date older women and are advised to consider them as elder sisters. So I've got no clue about the mommy issue but I'm assuming that it's not a problem at all as dating your fiance has nothing to do with your relationship with your mom. You can correct me if I'm wrong.
No, if dating only older women is the only thing that you can think of that might be because of mommy issues and nothing else, I don’t think it’s enough to conclude that you do in fact have mommy issues.
It seems you have mommy issues, which there is nothing wrong with. We all have issues at least you can identify yours. However in and of itself dating an older woman is simply that. Maybe she is hot or super interesting or any of the reasons you date any woman
I'd guess that you are just attracted to the greater maturity and confidence that these somewhat older women have. You aren't dating women 20-30 years older than you anyway, and I don't see mommy issues here.
These women don't seem maternal to you, per se, just more confident and experienced, so you respect them. My last gf's father was only around 4 years older than me, so obviously she had daddy issues.
Because stereotypically the young girls are lost too deep into their world of social media. The moment they think social media likes and posts matter more than the real relationship is the moment you can't have a relationship with her.
But I'm not going to let it be unmentioned, that young boys are lost too deep into their world of videogames.
Dating an older woman doesn't mean mommy issues (maybe in extreme cases). You have a type of woman that you like and nothing wrong with that. Some guys like dating older women because of the experience she has in life.
No... I've only dated women older than myself but that comes from being mentally advanced compared to my same-age peers who were vapid and vain for the most part... my eccentricity and business mind made me an interesting commodity to say the least
People like to find patterns, it's how our brains are designed. So people see a decent age gap and some similarities between people as mommy issues.
Truth is, we get half our genetics from our moms, people like others who are similar to themselves, so wouldn't it make sense that you would choose someone similar to your own mother?
Nope. Even I'm into older women. They're just more easier to date and when you date them most of them are specific. Not to mention they're totally awesome in bed.
Hell no... it's a sign your mature enough to handle the best and most experienced pussy out there when I was 16 I was living with a 35 year old and I fucking loved it. I would drive her station wagon to school pick up all my buddies. Man did I think I was doing something
I believe that is something only you can answer, for you know you best. However, I don't think it exactly means that. There is a lot more at play when it comes to mommy issues than just dating someone older.
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mommy issues? lmao nah man
coming from experience I have actually noticed that as I dealt with more and more women, my minimum age limit has gone up and I am more ok with the idea of dating an older woman now honestly
Why? cause older women tend to know exactly what they want
It’s very hard to tell! I’ve dated 3 women who are older than me. The latter being 3 years and a half older. I wouldn’t call it mommy issues. I feel like it has more to do with your mental age and maturity. I’m more mature than my age due to certain circumstances in my childhood and that made me very quite and contained, which attracted older women and also made me attracted to them as well.
Can be, but in my case I think it is something else. My mom was almost 45 when I was born, so most of her friends' daughters were usually several years older than I am. I was 7 or 8 hanging out with mostly 13-15 year old girls when mom's friends were over so I just gravitate towards them as "peers."
In my place men are generally discouraged to date older women and are advised to consider them as elder sisters.
So I've got no clue about the mommy issue but I'm assuming that it's not a problem at all as dating your fiance has nothing to do with your relationship with your mom.
You can correct me if I'm wrong.
No, if dating only older women is the only thing that you can think of that might be because of mommy issues and nothing else, I don’t think it’s enough to conclude that you do in fact have mommy issues.
It seems you have mommy issues, which there is nothing wrong with. We all have issues at least you can identify yours. However in and of itself dating an older woman is simply that. Maybe she is hot or super interesting or any of the reasons you date any woman
I don't have mommy issues.
Some men simply find older women more alluring & interesting. There may not be any underlying issues.
I'd guess that you are just attracted to the greater maturity and confidence that these somewhat older women have. You aren't dating women 20-30 years older than you anyway, and I don't see mommy issues here.
These women don't seem maternal to you, per se, just more confident and experienced, so you respect them. My last gf's father was only around 4 years older than me, so obviously she had daddy issues.
No. Many men just like the company of mature and experienced women.
Because stereotypically the young girls are lost too deep into their world of social media. The moment they think social media likes and posts matter more than the real relationship is the moment you can't have a relationship with her.
But I'm not going to let it be unmentioned, that young boys are lost too deep into their world of videogames.
It could be but not necessarily. Just because you might have mommy issues doesn’t mean your relationship is totally based on that.
Dating an older woman doesn't mean mommy issues (maybe in extreme cases). You have a type of woman that you like and nothing wrong with that. Some guys like dating older women because of the experience she has in life.
No... I've only dated women older than myself but that comes from being mentally advanced compared to my same-age peers who were vapid and vain for the most part... my eccentricity and business mind made me an interesting commodity to say the least
People like to find patterns, it's how our brains are designed. So people see a decent age gap and some similarities between people as mommy issues.
Truth is, we get half our genetics from our moms, people like others who are similar to themselves, so wouldn't it make sense that you would choose someone similar to your own mother?
Dating older women at my age becomes a question of... grandma issues?
lol...
No. I am genuinely attracted to older women. I have better chemistry with them.
They understand me a lot better.
Nope. Even I'm into older women. They're just more easier to date and when you date them most of them are specific. Not to mention they're totally awesome in bed.
Nah I don't think all men who like older women necessarily have any mommy issues.
No, it's a preference like choosing hair color or body type. You like what you like... unless of course you call a girlfriend mommy. 🙂
Hell no... it's a sign your mature enough to handle the best and most experienced pussy out there when I was 16 I was living with a 35 year old and I fucking loved it. I would drive her station wagon to school pick up all my buddies. Man did I think I was doing something
I believe that is something only you can answer, for you know you best. However, I don't think it exactly means that. There is a lot more at play when it comes to mommy issues than just dating someone older.