I mostly attract women that have been so broken by men that as soon as I try to be a good man, they bug out and leave me. But I figure rule of probability says the right one that we want each other will come into play.
A few. It's mostly because I am nice and I try to make women feel good about themselves. It can occasionally backfire. They get the wrong idea that I'm interested in them.
Sounds like me. If there is a woman, its always the wrong one in some way. I was more picky back then, lol. I still want to marry a Christian woman though.
I'm not into most females because the overwhelming majority of them are unattractive, usually either due to being a mom or being fat. But I still have had some of them attracted to me in the past or whatever; nothing comes of it of course.
Yes, all the time. I don't know why either. It's pretty annoying at times. I have a girlfriend now that I like, but it was almost a similar situation with her.
Um well tbh I don’t think I attract any guys hardly ever, I mean if it happens once in a blue moon it’s just random guys you see in a store or somewhere but I don’t think too much about it since I don’t have a specific type.
Yes i attract guys either much older/younger OR guys with a body type or bad habit im not into OR the kind who want to get laid asap or had a lot of sexual partners OR the ones so desperate and think im into them because im kind to them
I attract mostly my types, but at times I attract depressed dudes, wannabee delinquant black dudes, younger teens…., sjw trigger warning girls, older men, very show off bling bling failing at being suave arab dudes. Thats pretty much it.
Mostly friends of mine and they rarely try and flirt with me directly unless they're drunk as fuck. Which never goes well.
I've had one bring me drinks everytime he saw my glass was empty. Hover around me and ask if I need anything. One dude literally stood behind me and held up the straps of my dress after I complained that my back hurt. Those things make me incredibly uncomfortable. They act like doormats instead of trying to be funny and chatting me up. And they weren't unattractive men either.
The weirdest thing is that those guys later often date friends of mine and they are very assertive in those relationships
I don't ask anything of them. And I'm typically not interested in them, why would I flirt with them? I'm not going to lead some dude if I'm not interested in him
He did not only bring me drinks, he observed my glass and dropped everything as soon as it was empty. Like his whole evening was focused on making sure that I could just sit and chat with friends. And we weren't even talking, he sat at the other end of the room and went back there after bringing me a new drink. He didn't show any interest in talking to me either. It just made me extremely uncomfortable. I felt like I was using him even after telling him multiple times that I can get my own drinks.
I do attract a good number of people I'm not interested in, but enough that I am interested in to balance it out. The more blatant I am with who I am, the more people I find who are a good match for me.
everyone thats ever asked me for sex or a relationship (in real life) has been unattractive or someone i don't have feelings for. literally not been with anyone because of this
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I mostly attract women that have been so broken by men that as soon as I try to be a good man, they bug out and leave me. But I figure rule of probability says the right one that we want each other will come into play.
A few.
It's mostly because I am nice and I try to make women feel good about themselves.
It can occasionally backfire.
They get the wrong idea that I'm interested in them.
Sounds like me. If there is a woman, its always the wrong one in some way. I was more picky back then, lol. I still want to marry a Christian woman though.
I'm not into most females because the overwhelming majority of them are unattractive, usually either due to being a mom or being fat. But I still have had some of them attracted to me in the past or whatever; nothing comes of it of course.
Yes, all the time. I don't know why either. It's pretty annoying at times. I have a girlfriend now that I like, but it was almost a similar situation with her.
I mean this dude at college seemd intersted in me
But I don't wanna date anyone yet, so that's not happening.
not all white women are republican like is thought of above ! I am white and am not republican ! Thanks
I attract controlling girls because I am nice but when I don’t do something they ask they want to throw an attitude
Wow! I used to be that guy too.
Yea how do you stop it
Don't do things for them. Let them down easy.
Um well tbh I don’t think I attract any guys hardly ever, I mean if it happens once in a blue moon it’s just random guys you see in a store or somewhere but I don’t think too much about it since I don’t have a specific type.
You're a cute girl.
@ManOnFire. Um you really think I am
@diamond567 Yeah, I do. You are not unattractive at all.
@ManOnFire Thank you so much for being so kind I was not expecting that 🙂
Kind of hard to imagine that people don't think you're attractive.
@ManOnFire I think it’s mostly because I hardly go out or ever meet new people, I am just home most of the time.
Oh. You would probably get hit on a lot if you went out more. But nothing wrong with being at home.
@ManOnFire Well it’s not necessarily bad but I don't know sometimes it can get a bit bored at least to me it feels that way
Yes i attract guys either much older/younger OR guys with a body type or bad habit im not into OR the kind who want to get laid asap or had a lot of sexual partners OR the ones so desperate and think im into them because im kind to them
I'm trying to get laid with you too! You figured me out, damn! 😆
I attract mostly my types, but at times I attract depressed dudes, wannabee delinquant black dudes, younger teens…., sjw trigger warning girls, older men, very show off bling bling failing at being suave arab dudes. Thats pretty much it.
"very show off bling bling failing at being suave arab dudes." - Lmfao that is so funny.
Are you black?
nope, why?
Because of "wannabee delinquant black dudes." Guessing you must be white.
I attract a lot of passive men, which I'm not personally attracted to.
What is a passive man like? He did come up to you and start chatting didn’t he?
Mostly friends of mine and they rarely try and flirt with me directly unless they're drunk as fuck. Which never goes well.
I've had one bring me drinks everytime he saw my glass was empty. Hover around me and ask if I need anything. One dude literally stood behind me and held up the straps of my dress after I complained that my back hurt. Those things make me incredibly uncomfortable. They act like doormats instead of trying to be funny and chatting me up. And they weren't unattractive men either.
The weirdest thing is that those guys later often date friends of mine and they are very assertive in those relationships
Maybe because you are asking too much, though I agree the dress thing is creepy
Why don’t you try to make them laugh? I’m sure they’d enjoy that
I don't ask anything of them. And I'm typically not interested in them, why would I flirt with them? I'm not going to lead some dude if I'm not interested in him
Yeah I agree they should just have normal conversations, but that one guy did bring you drinks
He did not only bring me drinks, he observed my glass and dropped everything as soon as it was empty. Like his whole evening was focused on making sure that I could just sit and chat with friends. And we weren't even talking, he sat at the other end of the room and went back there after bringing me a new drink. He didn't show any interest in talking to me either. It just made me extremely uncomfortable. I felt like I was using him even after telling him multiple times that I can get my own drinks.
Did you try to chat with him?
We were friends, we talked a lot. Just not on that evening
At least you have friends
I'm very lucky, I have a lot of awesome friends :)
Yeah thanks for rubbing it in
How is that running it in?
All the freaking time what’s up with that I wonder? 🤔
I do attract a good number of people I'm not interested in, but enough that I am interested in to balance it out. The more blatant I am with who I am, the more people I find who are a good match for me.
happens a damn lot and I think I only attract people I dont have even a smidge of attraction towards... :(
I attract different types of guys.
I attract older men
Younger guys
Guys with girlfriends
You're not that hot
Calm down
@lofii I don’t get any complaints 😚. I must not be too ugly.
everyone thats ever asked me for sex or a relationship (in real life) has been unattractive or someone i don't have feelings for. literally not been with anyone because of this
Wow. Interesting.
It happens and you converse with them and move on. Yo don't know what they are going through so you hear them out and provide guidance if needed.
Ufff... most of the women that flirt with me are not my type.
Oh well. What can you do? When you're a sexy man beast that's just how it is😎.
Well... maybe if the Republicans are typically the women who are otherwise good, then there could be something to that? Just a thought. Anyways.
I typically attract single moms.
Not necessarily. Their Republican values are still not what I agree with and do not match mine.
Ah, okay. That makes sense.