Yes, I do flirt always as it is my natural personality and it is autonomous. I always catch myself in a flirt that simple started as a compliment or sometimes started as twisted humor. It can be a good thing and it can be bad. I do it, again autonomously, (occupational hazard) regardless if I have any attraction or not; she could be an 11 or miss-ms. moo-moo, but then I find myself usually in a pickle because she is taking all my bs serious in either case. I had one instance where I just paid a woman a compliment at a large party that I thought she deserved with no ulterior motive, and in about 20 min, she was giving me a neck-shoulder massage while sitting in my chair that I didn’t want with her husband beginning to fume-I mean, wtf. I have just thrown out some humor at a bar, the woman engages a flirt with me, and the boyfriend is pops out of nowhere on high alert pissed—where tf was he a moment ago? Why wasn’t he interested talking to her a moment ago? Anyways, the natural flirt has to learn the hard way it appears, but it still comes out even if I push it back down.
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Yes, Of course, maybe. I just talk to women, wherever I meet them, and sometimes, maybe, they might think it is flirting, when I am just liking the connection, with a PERSON, after all the COVID restrictions!
Yes, I DO, PURPOSELY flirt with all my female, married, friends, at work, because I hear all of them talking about how their husbands don't notice that they got their hair cut/colored, or lost weight!!
So many guys, are just HOPLESS, in relationships, and I have to wonder why women think marrying a guy is a GOOD THING!!! LOL!!
I flirt with them, and sometimes, some 'suggestive' things, to make them smile, and blush, and feel like SOMEONE NOTICES, and cares about them!
I would NEVER, EVER, violate the covenant of marriage, and would never do anything beyond just friendly, playful teasing, and just caring about them, an trying to make them smile, and know that someone is paying attention.
I have before. Sometimes it's nice to make someone feel good about themselves if they aren't too confident in the first place. Plus it's kinda nice when they flirt back if you have low self esteem yourself. I know it sounds weird but hey, if it manages to make both of our days better, why not lol
I'm friendly to almost everyone and form genuine connects as much as I can.
Unfortunately, many people think this is flirting.
I'm just friendly and interested in other people. Most of the time.
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No I only flirt with some one who I feel something for it's probably even deeper than attraction there's an energy that we all have and when that energy touches another energy then there's the Deep more meaningful feeling that I absolutely loved to feel and to share and what I'm flirting with somebody I want them to fill it I want them to feel me and every word that I'm saying so it's all the above yes I have to have that attraction are that something it makes me feel something for that person
Yes, well, I don't flirt with guys. But I will flirt back with like 70-year old women if they initiate it. I just want to put a smile on their face and make them feel kind of sexy (even though they aren't to me). I like to make women feel pretty, even if they aren't.
Yep. As a matter of fact, I'm more likely to flirt with an ugly woman before a hot one. Mostly because it'll brighten up their day, and hot girls hear how good-looking they are all the time. Actually, I don't date at all, anymore, but I still flirt - just to be nice.
To me flirting isn’t intimate, it’s playful banter. Plus I’m solidly in the everyone is beautiful camp.
Flirting is communicating and while there are obvious situations where flirting is potentially inappropriate. It never hurts to make someone feel good about themselves.If I am in a good mood and feel flirty I would say that it's what's best suited in my surroundings that will fit the bill. So yes flirting isn't always about attraction, it's about spreading positive vibes. Ie elevate them to your state of mind. That said, I don't lie, even if ugly people can seem less ugly in that mindset.
Besides not being the flirty type, I still haven't seen anyone flirt with someone they didn't find attractive that they didn't wanted to exploit, and usually they still go for the most attractive person they think they can exploit. (IE, by the sidelines)
I might occasionally do some light flirting with someone I'm not attracted to, but only in specific circumstances, and never aggressively or overly sexual. Just something to brighten their day a bit.
I have no problem flirting with whoever, I'm generally a pretty reserved person but I find myself having fairly cheeky conversations with strangers on a regular basis. I like to see the reactions of older ladies and the occasional tight-laced dude... (I'm straight but it's flirting not anything else) If I'm serious about pursuing an actual romantic or sexual relationship I'm much more direct, upfront and to the point.
I don’t flirt with people I don’t really find attractive but I’ve known some guys don’t find you that pretty enough and yet they’ll talk to you. That’s insane!
I have before just for fun. I’m a pretty naturally flirty girl anyway, so sometimes it just happens lol
If you're not interested in someone, don't flirt with them and dont play with their feelings ya fatherf*ckers.
I am nice to people I have no attraction to but as for flriting no that would be leading them on in my view.
I flirt with all women, married, single divorced, lesbian, black, white, red, yellow or purple. It doesn't matter to me. I always get a smile out of them. Sometimes I make their day a little brighter. That's the best part of it.
I'm quite flirty, but only when I'm attracted; my dad on the other hand flirts with women of literally all ages, for fun. When he was mid 50s I saw him flirting with old ladies and 18 year olds.
I flirt with anyone. I may not find someone physically attractive but some people just have really appealing personalities (or qualities) or are just really witty and I like that.
No. Those kind of games are mainly only done by women with emotional issues or attention. If I flirt with you im down to fuck you that night if you let me. It doesn't mean i want to date you. But on an elevator or whatever? Yeah. You are fuckable.
Yes and no. I'm friendly with everyone. I'll tease any girl whether I'm attracted to her or not. Some girls will see that as flirting even when it's not. There's clear differences between me flirting and me friendly teasing.
I flirt with people that seem approachable. I probably do not have any attraction to them. I just like to have fun.
I have no idea really. As I don't know how to flirt or even if I have ever flirted before without knowing.
I flirt with everyone regardless of if I'm actually attracted to them or not. It's good practice for the future hubby/wifey and it is part of my personality 😌
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