
Do you flirt with people you have no attraction to?


Yes, I do flirt always as it is my natural personality and it is autonomous. I always catch myself in a flirt that simple started as a compliment or sometimes started as twisted humor. It can be a good thing and it can be bad. I do it, again autonomously, (occupational hazard) regardless if I have any attraction or not; she could be an 11 or miss-ms. moo-moo, but then I find myself usually in a pickle because she is taking all my bs serious in either case. I had one instance where I just paid a woman a compliment at a large party that I thought she deserved with no ulterior motive, and in about 20 min, she was giving me a neck-shoulder massage while sitting in my chair that I didn’t want with her husband beginning to fume-I mean, wtf. I have just thrown out some humor at a bar, the woman engages a flirt with me, and the boyfriend is pops out of nowhere on high alert pissed—where tf was he a moment ago? Why wasn’t he interested talking to her a moment ago? Anyways, the natural flirt has to learn the hard way it appears, but it still comes out even if I push it back down.
Yes, Of course, maybe. I just talk to women, wherever I meet them, and sometimes, maybe, they might think it is flirting, when I am just liking the connection, with a PERSON, after all the COVID restrictions!
Yes, I DO, PURPOSELY flirt with all my female, married, friends, at work, because I hear all of them talking about how their husbands don't notice that they got their hair cut/colored, or lost weight!!
So many guys, are just HOPLESS, in relationships, and I have to wonder why women think marrying a guy is a GOOD THING!!! LOL!!
I flirt with them, and sometimes, some 'suggestive' things, to make them smile, and blush, and feel like SOMEONE NOTICES, and cares about them!
I would NEVER, EVER, violate the covenant of marriage, and would never do anything beyond just friendly, playful teasing, and just caring about them, an trying to make them smile, and know that someone is paying attention.
I have before. Sometimes it's nice to make someone feel good about themselves if they aren't too confident in the first place. Plus it's kinda nice when they flirt back if you have low self esteem yourself. I know it sounds weird but hey, if it manages to make both of our days better, why not lol
I'm friendly to almost everyone and form genuine connects as much as I can.
Unfortunately, many people think this is flirting.
I'm just friendly and interested in other people. Most of the time.
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No I only flirt with some one who I feel something for it's probably even deeper than attraction there's an energy that we all have and when that energy touches another energy then there's the Deep more meaningful feeling that I absolutely loved to feel and to share and what I'm flirting with somebody I want them to fill it I want them to feel me and every word that I'm saying so it's all the above yes I have to have that attraction are that something it makes me feel something for that person
Yes, well, I don't flirt with guys. But I will flirt back with like 70-year old women if they initiate it. I just want to put a smile on their face and make them feel kind of sexy (even though they aren't to me). I like to make women feel pretty, even if they aren't.
I like to make those ones feel kind of like they are pretty even if they aren't to me. Maybe they know I am just fooling around and being nice but I think that still brightens up their day. I wasn't very popular as a teen in high school and I felt like the ugly duckling and so I remember what it felt like when a pretty girl was flirty with me. It made me feel nice even though I was mildly disappointed when she got with another guy (although I still expected that to happen). I still liked that she flirted with me. I got more popular by my university years but since then, I've become cool with flirting with old women, very fat women, you name it. I think it brightens up their day like it did mine when I was a goofy teenager.
Yep. As a matter of fact, I'm more likely to flirt with an ugly woman before a hot one. Mostly because it'll brighten up their day, and hot girls hear how good-looking they are all the time. Actually, I don't date at all, anymore, but I still flirt - just to be nice.
To me flirting isn’t intimate, it’s playful banter. Plus I’m solidly in the everyone is beautiful camp.
Flirting is communicating and while there are obvious situations where flirting is potentially inappropriate. It never hurts to make someone feel good about themselves.
If I am in a good mood and feel flirty I would say that it's what's best suited in my surroundings that will fit the bill. So yes flirting isn't always about attraction, it's about spreading positive vibes. Ie elevate them to your state of mind. That said, I don't lie, even if ugly people can seem less ugly in that mindset.
Besides not being the flirty type, I still haven't seen anyone flirt with someone they didn't find attractive that they didn't wanted to exploit, and usually they still go for the most attractive person they think they can exploit. (IE, by the sidelines)
I might occasionally do some light flirting with someone I'm not attracted to, but only in specific circumstances, and never aggressively or overly sexual. Just something to brighten their day a bit.
I have no problem flirting with whoever, I'm generally a pretty reserved person but I find myself having fairly cheeky conversations with strangers on a regular basis. I like to see the reactions of older ladies and the occasional tight-laced dude... (I'm straight but it's flirting not anything else) If I'm serious about pursuing an actual romantic or sexual relationship I'm much more direct, upfront and to the point.
I don’t flirt with people I don’t really find attractive but I’ve known some guys don’t find you that pretty enough and yet they’ll talk to you. That’s insane!
How is that insane? Lol. It's called being friendly.
@Jamie05rhs what I meant is they act like they like you more than a friend but as soon as there is an argument they end up saying your not pretty enough to endure you.
Oh. That's fucked up.
I have before just for fun. I’m a pretty naturally flirty girl anyway, so sometimes it just happens lol
If you're not interested in someone, don't flirt with them and dont play with their feelings ya fatherf*ckers.
I am nice to people I have no attraction to but as for flriting no that would be leading them on in my view.
@Lildiq I know right? Crazy
@Lildiq because women are intimate though attention and have been forcing the feminization of men for generations. Women are ruining men and humanity.
I flirt with all women, married, single divorced, lesbian, black, white, red, yellow or purple. It doesn't matter to me. I always get a smile out of them. Sometimes I make their day a little brighter. That's the best part of it.
I'm quite flirty, but only when I'm attracted; my dad on the other hand flirts with women of literally all ages, for fun. When he was mid 50s I saw him flirting with old ladies and 18 year olds.
I flirt with anyone. I may not find someone physically attractive but some people just have really appealing personalities (or qualities) or are just really witty and I like that.
No. Those kind of games are mainly only done by women with emotional issues or attention. If I flirt with you im down to fuck you that night if you let me. It doesn't mean i want to date you. But on an elevator or whatever? Yeah. You are fuckable.
Yes and no. I'm friendly with everyone. I'll tease any girl whether I'm attracted to her or not. Some girls will see that as flirting even when it's not. There's clear differences between me flirting and me friendly teasing.
I flirt with people that seem approachable. I probably do not have any attraction to them. I just like to have fun.
I have no idea really. As I don't know how to flirt or even if I have ever flirted before without knowing.
I flirt with everyone regardless of if I'm actually attracted to them or not. It's good practice for the future hubby/wifey and it is part of my personality 😌
This is a loaded question. Because I don't even like flirting. I've literally stood there and just ridiculed many a woman before and they would just stand there and giggled like I was joking or something.
Maybe a little, but my flirting is usually more for humor than as an actual attempt at some kind of relationship. It's almost a parody of flirting. lol
Yeah, sometimes it breaks the ice well even if you are just getting by.
Nooo never ever ever. I very rarely flirt. I have a really specific type.
I don't flirt 😑 waste of time. It's faster and saves me time to just tell a girl that I like her and want to take her out
Yep then she say no and you can prepare for the next rejection
Friendzoned4life believe it or not if theirs some interest already established it could work, I've seen it happen 😀 anyways flirting is a pointless game
In a sense I flirt with everyone. It's not a sexual thing, I just love wordplay.
Flirting is an idiotic waste of time and a sure sign of desperation
I’m clinically depressed and Autistic
I don’t understand how you can flirt with someone you’re not attracted to. I don’t think this is common in reality.
I don't mean to. But I do.
It's so annoying. I don't know how not to.
Somehow that's just how it goes.
Yes, I for example flirt with my girl friends, and I never had a sexual attraction to women.
Can people explain to me what flirting mean I am still shocked that many think flirting ain't cheating. How is teasing other sex in a sexual way ain't cheating
I flirt with anyone, but Sometimes they endee up catching feelings and shit to my attention I instantly get away LoL
Yes. Sometimes, I do it unintentionally. And other times, when my friend wants to talk to a girl, he wants me to flirt with her friend, even though I'm not attracted to her.
only to the people im attracted to. Because it is kinda weird for me if you just flirt with everyone. It gives me the wrong vibes.
I don't know how to flirt. I will just sort of talk to anybody.
I did have friends with flirting. But it was a mutual fun thing.
Yes but it’s never an ongoing thing with people Im not attracted to
Yes, because boredom exists and i need me some entertainment
yes i do i’m not scared to do the first move but always respectful tho
No. Flirting with someone in whom I had no sexual interest would be pointless.
Seriously? 19 guys said they dont flirt? Where are they at? I wanna meet a guy that never flirt!!
I'm not so sure you really want to meet a guy who never flirts. Either that guy lied... (you don't want a liar) or something is wrong with him. Maybe what you really want is a guy who will be loyal. A guy who doesn't flirt is a guy with no social skills or self-esteem. Just saying...
Actually I was being sarcastic!
I mostly flirt with people to people whom I'm not really attracted to. You'll know I like you when I suddenly forget how to flirt.
It doesn't really matter. Everybody flirts, but mature adults understand what to act on.
Just have a pleasant sense of humor.
Define flirt. I talk outrageously with darkish humor to everyone. And I’m pretty open sometimes even with strangers. Downside of being a depressive introvert.
Nope I dont even start conversation with people in not attracted to
i flirt with all my friends but i can't do it seriously even if i like the person
No I don't have to. Infact I don't flirt, I just hit and smash. But she has to be someone I'm attracted to first.
I need to build my confidence a bit, that's why I am trying to be open with anybody and testing flirting on many girls, but not too sexual or serious, just casual.
A. I would never see no point in flirting with someone I am not into.
Maybe flirt non sexually I just try to make them laugh which is sometimes consider flirty
When I was single, sometimes. There's a time and place and sometimes it makes people's day.
But you must know my dirty secret before the flirting begins.
Sure, I love flirting. Talking dirty
If you ever want to give it a try, message me
That sounds like a horrible idea
Yes, I flirt with everyone.
I never flirt because I don't know how.
There has to be some level of attraction for me!
Yeah always.
it’s just how I am
I flirt with everyone. It’s more fun that way
On here yeah Because I feel bad
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