Is this girl just using me to fill the absence of her boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I met a girl a few weeks ago and ever since we’ve been spending a lot of time together. She invites me to yoga with her, we go out for drinks, etc. She also does stuff like takes lots of pictures of me. She just recently started inviting me over to her apartment and asked me to come over tonight, saying she’s “sad about her relationship.” I know she has a long distance boyfriend so I’ve never made a move or anything. Does it sound like she’s using me to fill the absence of her boyfriend or does she think something might happen between us?

[chriscdi]

seems to me like she isn't sure if her relationship with her distant boyfriend would work so she is trying not to get too attached, she seems to be living her life carefully, or you are stuck in the friendzone

[foxrider77]

I’d just stay in the friend zone. Cuddle but keep the clothes on, no kissing but hugging is okay. If she sits on your lap I would keep it professional.

[DanG530]

I agree with this. She is probably using you to fill her missing boyfriend, but if she wants to do something, tell her she's gotta break up with her boyfriend first. But if she's just hugging and stuff, maybe she just needs a friend. But definitely try to stay in the friend zone. Unless she breaks up, in that case, go for it

[outside_Toronto]

You should make a move. Call her bluff; you have nothing to lose

[Anonymous]

I think there is a chance she wants to fuck. I mean long distance boyfriend means no sex so yeah...

[foxrider77]

That’s a good point, they should try to have a late date night. I really wonder who is saving more on car insurance though.