Why do men hate women for being attracted to rich men?

[nelly83]

Lets face it, men are attracted to rich women too. I've seen men go crazy gaga over female millionaires such as lori greiner in shark tank. I have no doubt that a female millionaire would have any difficulty getting married. Everyone is attracted to money. When my guy friends hear that you know a female millionaire, their first question would be: "is she single?"

Who wouldn't be attracted to riches? who the fuck would find debt more attractive than riches? who would find no vacations to be more attractive than taking as many vacations as you want a year? who would find using coupons more sexy than buying the best food for your children?

Is it a sexist thing where men can just hate on women for finding financially stable men more attractive? Why aren't women hating on shallow men who would go for the slutty hot bimbo rather than the average girl next door? Both genders are shallow to a certain extent. I don't get why its always women that get attacked for it.

[Anonymous]

First off Lori Greiner wouldn't have trouble finding a man if she was dead broke and no, not "... Everyone is attracted to money". It's like saying you're attracted to an expensive sports car. The reason why women get shit on is because they're attracted to only the wealth and would like to "have" a portion of it indifferent to the who the man is. Let me ask you this? So you find your self a billionaire to date right? You gonna' be buying him dinner every night and maybe a new Ferrari for his bday'? You're attracted to wealth you'll never attain unless you exchange your time and body for it.

[nelly83]

Lori is not that attractive. She look like a 6 out of 10 on her best day. Without her hair and makeup, she prob look like a 4 out of 10

[Balian]

Its more of a biological phenomenon. Women have the ability to choose who they mate with, and they choose men above them or at their level in the social hierarchy. So men typically wouldn't have a chance with someone richer or further in their career than they are.

[nelly83]

That’s actually very true

[bamesjond0069]

Because women dont simply want a successful man they want his money. That is gold digger trash. Im wealthy and i like a girl who appreciates my money but knows its mine and never makes demands or acts entitled about it.

[nelly83]

Any woman would stick to you if she knows you have money. Who wouldn’t?

[bamesjond0069]

Many dont. They say its intimidating to be with a wealthy man.

[nelly83]

Hahaha you’re fucking living in your own dreams.

[s2firestar]

I am not attracted to rich people. They are usually shallow, materialistic beyond reason and generally pains in the ass. Money corrupts and not a lot are immune to this.

[Dchrls78104]

Because the women's motives become open to question. Is it really love, or golddigging?

[nelly83]

Who wouldn’t be attracted to money tho? Who would prefer to be poor?

[Dchrls78104]

"When love is sold to the highest bidder,
there can be no trust,
And where there is no trust,
there can be no love."

[nelly83]

Everyone prefers someone who is rich. Don’t say that money makes you look less attractive

[Adrian2306]

in personal experience they are with walls and acting like "queens" until they find you im rich...
then im nice and funny and other bs... 🤮

[zagor]

That's because Lori is also a fairly attractive woman. I notice you didn't say Barbara...

[nelly83]

Lori is not that attractive. Barbara is 70 years old. How can she be attractive

[nelly83]

They aren’t going Gaga over Lori for her looks, it’s her money which makes them go crazy

[nelly83]

Lori ranks about a 6 out of 10 max. Without her makeup or hair, she’s about a 4 out of 10

[zagor]

But she's rich. And I don't hear about men going crazy over Oprah, who is also very rich.

And people would go for Ariana Grande if she worked at McDonald's.

[zagor]

Lori also comes off as a very sweet person.

[nelly83]

A rich educated guy won’t go for a girl who works at McDonald’s. A poor one with a big ego would. Rich folks marry other rich folks. Poor folks marry other poor folks.

[nelly83]

I live in a city full of rich people. They would consider it marrying down if they married someone poor.

[zagor]

Rich folks tend to meet rich folks. Likewise with poor folks. And same tends to have more in common with same. But there are plenty of hot poor girls who married rich guys. And a few hunky poor guys who wound up boycandy for some rich girl.

[nelly83]

Rich folks aren’t interested in poor folks. Same way attractive people aren’t interested in ugly people. You simply do not measure up. Of course exceptions might happen but we are talking generally. Rich people do look down on poor folks. Might not say anything to u but it’s true

[zagor]

That's funny, because my decidedly middle class nephew is dating a very rich girl. I had a rich girl interested in my middle class ass in college. My poor cousin married a rich girl - nicest wedding I ever attended.

[nelly83]

Those are exceptions, not the rule.

[zagor]

No, it's more about culture and education than actual money. An educated associate professor who barely scrapes by is likely to marry a rich person, while a dishwasher with a similar income isn't.

[nelly83]

It sounds more like you don’t even know what rich people r like. Rich folks tend to be very educated and work very hard. There’s nothing an educated person has in common with a maid.

[nelly83]

professors tend to be former or current professionals who make a lot of money. when I was in college, I had professors that made over 100k a year as accountants.

[zagor]

You kind of missed my point. People who are educated are not necessarily rich, and not all rich people are educated.

[zagor]

My brother's friend grew up in a trailer on public assistance. Today? He's a half-billionaire.

[nelly83]

I don’t know why you’re talking about exceptions as if they make up the majority. Maybe you’re really hoping to marry a rich woman?

[zagor]

I don't think many English or Latin professors work as accountants on the side. Check out how much post-docs in non-STEM fields make.

[zagor]

Nah, I make six figures, I have no need to marry money. I can do pretty much what I want as is.

[nelly83]

lol I know u don’t make any money. Otherwise you wouldn’t be begging the rich to marry you. You wouldn’t try to brainwash me that the rich worship the poor

[nelly83]

If I made 6 figures , I wouldn’t marry a broke guy. Sorry but dats just the truth. Only time I might make an exception is if he’s supermodel hot

[zagor]

Yeah, I have no money, that's how I've been to 30 countries, how I just got back from a weekend in Vegas and am going skiing in Colorado for a week next week.

[zagor]

I think you got your idea of rich people from watching too much TV.

[nelly83]

You can say you been to 30 countries but it doesn’t mean you have. I live in one of the richest neighborhoods in the US. Financial district and wall st. I take commute to work with the richest people on wall st, don’t tell me I don’t know what the rich folks are like.

People like to marry their own kind.

[zagor]

You're right, I think it is 31 or 32 now, not including the USA as that's home.

[Anonymous]

You're delusional if you actually believe men are attracted to rich women the way women are attracted to rich men.

[nelly83]

its just a stereotype that men do not like rich women. Men actually do. I know tons of guy friends who would jump at dating a millionare.

[Opinion Owner]

Your personal observation aside, science has shown repeatedly that women are far more attracted to rich men than men are to rich women. So no, it's not just a stereotype; it's a fact of human nature.

"Researchers have discovered that women are far more likely to find rich men attractive. However this isn't true in reverse."

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S109051381730315X

[nelly83]

It doesn’t mean that men aren’t attracted to rich women tho.

[nelly83]

Women “ more likely” doesn’t mean that men don’t like Rich women.

[Opinion Owner]

There is nothing wrong with rich women, but it's not important to men the way it is to women. You were suggesting it is, and you were wrong.

[nelly83]

Yea but I still know a lot of guys that are willing to be gold diggers. You aren’t giving them any credit

[Opinion Owner]

I don't believe for a minute that you know a lot of guys that are willing to be gold diggers. It's just not reality.

[nelly83]

You don’t believe it cus you have something against it.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't believe it because it's not true.

[nelly83]

No you sound like you have something against it.

[nelly83]

There are other guys on here who believe it’s true. Nobody is arguing with it but u

[Opinion Owner]

I like facts, because they are real.

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S109051381730315X

[Opinion Owner]

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S109051381730315X

[nelly83]

just cuz women prefer it more, it doesn't mean men don't like it too. No other guy on here disagrees with this except for you.

[Opinion Owner]

I just read through the other responses here and they are not exactly agreeing with you. But that doesn't really matter anyway. What does matter is how real men and women behave in the real world, and as I said earlier, study after study has shown that a man's money is very important to women, and woman's money is not important to men. That has always been true and always will be.

Now, I'm done arguing such a silly point with a delusional girl on the internet. Good night.

[nelly83]

One of them “ zagor” wants to marry a rich woman cus he’s poor

[Opinion Owner]

So you're basing your opinion on one person? lol

I prefer to base mine on facts.

www.sciencedirect.com/.../S109051381730315X

[nelly83]

Nobody on here is arguing with me except for you. They all agree that men do find rich women attractive. Just cus women do it more , it doesn’t mean men don’t do it

[nelly83]

Not just one person. I’ve got every guy on here who didn’t disagree with me

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said earlier, I read though all the other responses and I don't see where they are agreeing with you like you say they are. And again, what a tiny handful of users say on GAG is obviously irrelevant compared to how people actually behave in the real world and what scientific studies repeatedly show to be the case.

[nelly83]

Scientific study doesn’t show that men won’t marry for money. It just shows they are less likely

[Opinion Owner]

Most women will marry for money. Most men will not marry for money. Feel better?

[ecfresh]

It’s just jealousy and their insecurity

[GreatnessBack]

Because those niggas are broke!!

[GreenGold1992]

jealousy and insecurity

[Gatman34]

Guys are not attracted to rich women