Why do men complain about women being gold diggers yet constantly chase after the high maintenance chicks? (Page 2)
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There are millions of different people, the only way someone can have the impression that they are all the same, is if they keep picking the same type. Its like ordering the same meal in a restaurant every time, then saying the restaurant has nothing else to offer. It goes beyond gold diggers and this example, any trait you pin onto the entire gender, guess whose fault that is
Not the same group of guys I think. There's also a big difference between being high maintenance and being a straight up gold digger. They're not the same and in my personal experience an uncommon combo.
Many men like the “dresses up” feminine look of high maintenance girls... it’s a trap we constantly fall into.
might be about the effort they put into themselves. I've seen some women roll out of bed and go to work and I've seen others that are probably still in front of a mirror. it's all about perspective.
Most people complain about the price of cigarettes while they are buying them. Having a problem with something doesn't always keep you from engaging with it.
Easy. They don’t chase high maintenance women more than other types, of anything they chase them less. But when it does happen it’s not like you have to like everything about a person. You take a shot at a person and hope they’re cool and sometimes it turns out she’s a woman like that instead. You move on and look for someone better, look for a better woman. That’s how it goes.
High maintenance is a huge turn off for me a d always has been. Some dudes think of it as a status thing I guess. But if that is that dude's thing, fuck him. He's gonna get his. Look for guys who are more practical and less likely to fuck you over for whiever walks by.
Most practical? Most dudes are looking to get laid. I don't know what rare ones you are talking about. They don't exist
I dont think expecting your partner to earn a certain amount of money is bad, specially if you already earn that much of money. Everyone has their preferences
Well why do women complain about men treating them bad then go for players?
Because people in good relationships are too busy enjoying it to complain and moan so you don't see them just the people complaining.
Women can't tell if a man is a player from his outward appearance. High maintenance women can definitely be spotted due to their appearance.
Imagine a Rich version Gaston.
@SamirahD22 Men would say the same about players, they are quite obvious in their demeanor. And no man thinks to themselves "that woman looks like a pain in the arse to date, sounds like a match made in heaven"
If it was so easy to avoid blowing yourself up in the minefield that is dating no one would break up.
Probably not the same guys though. Billions of different guys with different preferences 😊
Those men who both chase them and then complain about them are suckers.
Simply put, high maintenance chicks are targeted more because they’re more likely to take care of their own appearance. You wouldn’t want to date a pimple riddled 500 pound man, personally I’m guilty of this as well.
Because we don’t realize that they are high maintenance until they reveal it themselves or we mistakenly think we can handle it. While high maintenance and gold-diggers are related one can exist without the other in the same person.
There's a difference between high-maintenance and well-maintained. If she can maintain her own lifestyle, that's great. Whenever she "needs a little help until she gets paid", I'm out. That's the first cut on the path to bleeding you dry
But you’re fine with sleeping with her for “free”?
@Gisellebabyboo is that a real question?
@Gisellebabyboo you are forgetting men are like starved animals when it comes to sex. If they can get free sex versus paid sex obviously we would take the free sex. I understand you are implying that guys have to pay their dates a certain amount in order to get sex like buying her food or treating her to some nice things until she feels ok to give him sex as a reward. That's bullshit honestly, a girl should have sex because she wants to and shouldn't be a reward for how much money the guy spends on her.
It's not the ones who chase them that are complaining. We see plenty of rich white knights wasting a fortune just to get a chance to ejaculate into a vagina.
This is a great question. I noticed it in myself too. I'm subconsciously drawn to them because they make their bodies look more fertile. It just happens in a split second 🤷🏻.
Do guys really chase these types of women more? I guess I'm unaware of it, especially since I steer well clear of vain or narcissistic types.
If she's high maintenance already she doesn't need your money she can afford her own stuff so she wouldn't be a gold digger
Not true, she wants your money too
I see but if that's not the only reason she's with me then she still not a gold digger
I dont think you know what a gold digger is
A go dare is a woman who is with a guy for his money and no other reason
A gold digger
If she's with me because she loves me and because I have money I wouldn't consider her a gold digger because at least she cares about me
The complaint is that women aren't honest with us (or themselves) about it.
Call a man shallow and he agrees, call a woman a gold digger and she denies it.
Yes i agree , i find this crazy. If a Man doesn't want date
a golddigger than go elsewhere?