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What are you talking about? My girlfriend is the lowest maintenance girlfriend. She's slept on a mattress on the floor with me for a year. She's been with me even though I've been broke and without a cell for more than a year. She's okay paying for her own stuff and she has been for the duration of our relationship. All she cares about is our chemistry. We're still planning on moving in together. And she's beautiful on top of it. She's clearly not with me for my money. I know how to filter gold diggers. She's one in more than a million and I know what I have. I plan on marrying this girl and making up for dealing with me as I am now later in life. True love does exist beyond all the expectations of the sheep in society.
The only men that chase high maintenance chicks are dudes that don’t care and guys that actually can afford. I personally don’t know any guy who go for what your saying, it seems your just saying just to say. I don’t know a typical female life style but for me it doesn’t take much took look nice and clean. I mean do you dress to impress every single day even to go to Walmart or do you dress down with some sweat pants or some jeans. There are more average nice dressed women then high maintenance looking.
No the funny thing is , men like to provide for women. They like to make women housewives and pay for all their expenses, it makes them feel great. They also like to buy their girlfriends a shit ton of expensive gifts. But then when they say they hate gold diggers. How can a decent girl who is not selfish willingly date someone like them without guilt? Only a gold digger would date them.
It’s hypocritical. They want women who invests in her looks, that is, until it affects his own wallet.
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More and more women are becoming high maintenance without actually offering much value to the table themselves. It’s hard to find a decently successful woman who isn’t. With dating apps like tinder, social media, and the dynamic shift of dating that we’ve seen, women can monkey branch with left and right very easily without facing any social repercussions. There’s little shame in sleeping around, cheating, and breaking up families anymore. This generation of progressive American women are sort of entitled and bitchy. A huge turn off. They don’t cook, they don’t clean, they’re not nurturing, they lack commitment and loyalty, and are only interested in things that benefit them. You can say I’m bitter or recognize there’s prly some truth in what I’m saying. I’m glad I found a girl who’s none of those things as I know it’s a rarity. She’s great.
False perception of value. People chase after goals that are not necessarily good for them.
Also, gold diggers are manipulators: They manipulate men to drain them of their cash. These men usually don't realize that they are gold diggers until they run out of cash, and suddenly, they disappear.
They're similar to players, who manipulate women with a different goal in sight. Similarly, one he achieves his goal, he disappears the next morning.
People usually suck. It's an unfortunate fact of life.
The problem is those very kind of men are the ones that demand a flawless looking chick. How does he not want to be exploited while he himself is an exploitation’s master. Have you seen how trump keep bragging about the 10s and the 7s. The beautiful blondes, and simultaneously a guy like him was married twice to gold diggers.
Again i am not saying all hot women are gold diggers. But some chicks make use of their looks to advance in life. Just see most gfs of athletes and how these women look like
It's simple: a true class act is a prudent one as well. Materialism is ugly, whether she is well-groomed or not. The kindhearted survivalist chick with a heart of gold is a rarity, almost a total fantasy. But all too often, the only difference between the grumpy hag at the laundromat and the Paris Hilton clone, is money and appearance. Beneath that facade, the same ugly resides. As much as modern men would love to marry a woman that looks like she crawled out of a Far Cry game, it just isn't happening. Chasing fantasy is dangerous for a reason.
One of my co-workers once said he never met a woman he didn't have to pay for in some way or other. There was a ring of truth to it. Some men have money to offer some don't so that narrows the field a bit. Sometimes I want to spoil a woman with money and sometimes with time and attention. if you're with a man that doesn't have a lot of financial options it can put a strain on your relationship and there's no way around that if spoiling you or being spoiled is something that makes you feel good it does not make you a gold digger it makes you honest about what you enjoy
Because we are told and shown from a very young age what the ideal woman looks like and it hasn't been socially acceptable for the most part to emphasize the difference of beauty between physical beauty, natural or (most likely) not, and inner beauty. So we typically start our post pubescent journey persuing the "ideal" female with no regard to who the person actually is. And just like females are from a very young age subliminally tought that they have to buy excessively over priced acne causing make up or they aren't beautiful we are taught that if a woman doesn't do certain things or look a certain way that they aren't beautiful. It's a shame and from what I can tell a lot of men obtain enough interactions to grow out of it but some never do.
Why do men say it's wrong for a woman to want to date a man with money, but turn around and say they only want to date women with big butts, big boobs, pretty face, ect?
It's one of those "rules for the but not for me" situations. Your ways are dumb, selfish and evil but my way is smart, wholesome and have logical reasons.
Personally, the only time I dislike gold diggers is when they lead the man on and lie to his face about it. If you want men for their money then be honest about it, there are plenty of old rich men who only feel love for money who wants a side bitch to give an allowance to.
Low-maintenance chicks are all hiding in their apartments and never come out.
How the fuck are we supposed to chase after them? Crawl through their bedroom window? That's great if you look like Fabio, but what can average guys do?
If I crawled through a low-maintenance chicks bedroom window, she'd hit me over the head with a vase or something. So much for asking her out.
i would never go for a high maintenance because they never appreciate what is given to them they just expect it, some guys might like that but they would never make it in the real world where you have to earn what you have and appreciate it. high maintenance women are never appreciative unless its something they getting for nothing lol
Those girls project some intense "feminine", sometimes it's "Im needy", I need help, "rescue me" and they know how to play the feminine attraction thing. Guys who want to feel good "saving" someone will get sucked in. Guys who want to catch a "hot" prize, they get sucked in.
Guys who have learned to discern character, can often hold a boundary.
Reverse is true of women and men. It's just manipulation and it takes some effort to see past the opposite sexes manipulation.
Because they wanna blame women for his poor life choices.
Men want love.
Women want money.
High maintenance chicks make all their effort just to hunt rich guys, if it was not the reason they would have lead a normal life.
All those things they wear on themselves to attract men, how much easy do you think it is for men to ignore such girls all time?
Lmao good question cause guys like that are superficial themselves they dont want a good woman the want eye candy that find out later she's worthless and get mad but they do it to themselves
And then, you have women like this one, moaning about the men "constantly chasing after the high maintenance chicks, instead of after GOOD WOMEN like MEEE", whilst having shitty hygiene, taking next to no care of their fitness levels and general appearance, and looking like this:
Take your "low maintainence" and go do one. Hell, more than 70% of you own dildos now anyway, and you don't need us any more anyway, so what do you care? We go our own way, and you go yours, because we don't want YOU any more either. Happy now? Course not. But too bad. It's a little something called ADULT RESPONSIBILITY, FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. DEAL WITH IT.
Only the dumb ones do that. You don't want them anyway. BOOOORRRRIIIINNNGGG.
There is a difference between high maintenance and gold digger high maintenance means she has her own money and she can do whatever f*** she wants gold digger means she has your money and she can do whatever the f*** she wants with it
That's because men want a women that is gentle, kind hearted and beautiful who isn't with them for the load of money they have.
Yet men seem to chase the so called high maintenance chicks because those are the really really attractive ones. Once seen... they cannot be unseen.
I don't know guys that prefer high maintenance women. I suppose an unlikeable man with money would focus on them because women with good personalities would rather have a good man then a shitty one with money. So that's what's left on the playing board for them
guess cause they're butthurt about being broke xD also most people have little self awareness ond don't even realize that what they're going for is high maintenance which isn't what fits them.
This right here sir is a great question lol my theory is that maybe these girls seem to emit more confidence and men like that
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