What are you talking about? My girlfriend is the lowest maintenance girlfriend. She's slept on a mattress on the floor with me for a year. She's been with me even though I've been broke and without a cell for more than a year. She's okay paying for her own stuff and she has been for the duration of our relationship. All she cares about is our chemistry. We're still planning on moving in together. And she's beautiful on top of it. She's clearly not with me for my money. I know how to filter gold diggers. She's one in more than a million and I know what I have. I plan on marrying this girl and making up for dealing with me as I am now later in life. True love does exist beyond all the expectations of the sheep in society.
Yeah that's my point. Men aren't interested in gold diggers.
The only men that chase high maintenance chicks are dudes that don’t care and guys that actually can afford. I personally don’t know any guy who go for what your saying, it seems your just saying just to say. I don’t know a typical female life style but for me it doesn’t take much took look nice and clean. I mean do you dress to impress every single day even to go to Walmart or do you dress down with some sweat pants or some jeans. There are more average nice dressed women then high maintenance looking.
No the funny thing is , men like to provide for women. They like to make women housewives and pay for all their expenses, it makes them feel great. They also like to buy their girlfriends a shit ton of expensive gifts. But then when they say they hate gold diggers. How can a decent girl who is not selfish willingly date someone like them without guilt? Only a gold digger would date them.
Men like to provide so that the woman can take care of their kids... most rational men don’t like to just hand out money to women just because.
Ummmm, as a man I disagree with the idea that men like to provide for women. Lots of people like to give gifts and feel needed by their partner, but if all you do is take no one likes it. That is why guys don't like gold diggers; well that and the fact that they like what the men can give them and not the man himself.
A decent women would return the favor and buy the guy something, or do other stuff if she couldn't afford it, and if she really didn't like it tell the guy not to do it.
That price tag isn’t much to me, so it wouldn’t be bothersome. Everyone’s circumstance is different. I personally love giving towards my family and friends. I even bought my dad his dream corvette when I started coming up on money. Giving really has a feel good psychological effect that’s much more powerful than receiving in my opinion.
I think it’s a bit naive to judge someone’s character based on one action. Humans a multi-dimensional beings within our psychology. There are different motives for each individual person to make one action. Different reasoning, and different background leading up to that mental decision.
To live that black and white is to be really narrow minded. The outside world and society doesn’t work in such ways. Yes, there are people who take things for granted and have i’ll-intent, but those are pretty easy to spot. I wouldn’t default to say any girl who accepts a gift that makes her happy after 5 months of dating is just a gold digger.
@nathanp97 “ Ummmm, as a man I disagree with the idea that men like to provide for women” - You’d deviate from the norm. It’s an innate desire that’s biologically rooted in our biology. The dynamic has been executed since the beginning of time. No, we don’t just like to provide towards random women, but most want to provide for their wife and family.
biologically rooted in our endocrine system*
@TonyBologna25 if you have a lot of money, 350 dollars is a small sum. However there are guys out there who aren’t rich, that over spend on their girlfriends. Your father is a different story because he sacrificed a lot to raise you. Imagine the cost of raising a child for over 20 years. it is expected that you should pay for your father. On the other hand, your girlfriend is not your wife. A gift once in a while is reasonable but if you’re splurging on her too much, you will simply attract the wrong women. A decent nice lady who is not selfish will not accept such extravagant gifts. It will be more of a bad sign if she just accepts everything without any concern for you or your finances.
@nathanp97 That was a typo, and our endocrine system is a major factor of what separates man from women. Men produce 7x more testosterone than women. We have estradiol, but produce it different than women. Testosterone and estrogen are the primary sex hormones that drive behavior.
@TonyBologna25 when my boyfriend takes me out on dates, I make sure the restaurant is not too expensive because I know he has more dates to pay for in the upcoming future. A decent lady respects men and their wallets. I understand that he is not my husband and I am not entitled to him buying my every need
Men create estradiol by something called aromitizing. Also, our neurological layout and usage is a lot different as well.
Higher counts of testosterone equate to libido, drive, confidence, ability to lead, take control, and a multitude of other social behaviors. Men with low testosterone lack in all of these areas.
Estrogen is much more fragile rather than rugged. Women with high counts of estrogen are nurturing and emotionally driven. They’re more sensitive and have a greater depth of feelings and emotions. They understand them better.
@nathanp97 I think it’s quite a common thing that guys do like to splurge on their gfs. And these guys simply get used for money.
@nathanp97 Which is more suited to deal with the rigors of providing?
It's only up until recently in which men and women have deviated away from biological gender roles, and it explains why divorce is at a staggering rate in comparison to any other time period in history. Women are more educated than men from a general consensus, but men still make more money? Why is that? Are you just going to ignore the possibility that men are more biologically equipped to make logical financial decisions, work longer hours, and provide? Sure, there are outsiders, but I'm talking about the general masses here.
@nathanp97 "Tony, historically men hunted and women picked berries, so they both provided, and know a days most jobs aren't super physical demanding, so both can provide." - Sure, but even in modern society, men are earning more, and working more hours. Men are still dominating corporate ladders as there are much more male managers and CEOs than women.
@nathanp97 This ideology that gender roles are simply a social construct is really toxic. It's simply not true. Our genders roles are responsive to our biology in every single way.
@nathanp97 When I talk about men being more logically driven, how do you explain that 99% of every famous mathematician and physicist is a male? The two most logically driven subjects in the world.
Divorce rates have actually dropped in recent years, and I think it is so high because it isn't socially unacceptable to get a divorce now.
Women can work longer hours too, they just choose not to because they value other things in general. They also live longer. Perhaps those to things are connected. I'd rather not work long hours. If I have enough to live on and still have some fun why would I try to waste my time getting more.
What about men dominating logically driven modern career paths, like STEM? Is it that women are just oh so oppressed in modern American society, or is it maybe they just don't want to because it's not biologically appealing to them?
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"Women can work longer hours too, they just choose not to because they value other things in general." - Of course they can, and I have women in my family that can attest so that as well. Having said that, it's nonsensical to state that men don't aren't biologically advantageous to work longer hours. You also make a great point! A typical woman's concerns are elsewhere, like emotionally supporting her husband and children. Taking her daughter to dance recitals, and making sure the house it upkept.
Men value other things such as providing, and direction. They value logical thinking when it comes to finance. They don't splurge as much. They simply aren't nearly as emotionally driven as women. Who by these standards is more equipped to provide?
"hen my boyfriend takes me out on dates, I make sure the restaurant is not too expensive because I know he has more dates to pay for in the upcoming future. " - You sound like you really care about him, and that's an attractive trait you possess. I just disagree with you labeling people off such black and white assertions.
@nathanp97 " If I have enough to live on and still have some fun why would I try to waste my time getting more." - You should look into dividend investing lol
@TonyBologna25 men get paid more because men tend to be more assertive and aggressive in climbing the corporate ladder. As a result men dominate management positions. Math and science fields tend to also pay way more, boys tend to be better at math while girls tend to be better at English and communication.
And it’s not only because I care about my boyfriend which is why I don’t want him to spend too much. I think it’s more so because I know I am not entitled to his entire wallet for my own selfish reasons. Even if My best friend is taking me out for food, I really try to make it as equal as possible so that it’s not only her that’s always paying for me,. This is called respecting other people’s Wallets
@TonyBologna25 if it is cold outside and my boyfriend takes off his jacket and lends it to me, I would worry if he ends up being cold. I would feel way better about sharing it than watch him freeze for hours. I think it really shows how compassionate and caring your date is if she shows such concern for others.
You sound like you have some really good traits that are attractive. I commend you for that, as it's hard to find quality women that do have your values these days. My girl is the same way, and I appreciate that a lot. Like I said, I just disagree with how you judge people in such a black & white way.
Tony, men earn more because they work longer hours, choose higher paying jobs and are more likely to ask for a raise. The majority of scientists and mathematicians were men historically because women weren't really allowed to do it or educated in it, and women tend to prefer fields with more social interactions. Men with above average intelligence have a higher rate of being an intervert than women with above average intelligence, so more women tend to choose either professions that have more social interactions. And women are actually being hired more often than men, it is roughly a 2-1 ratio.
Men are no more biologically driven to work longer and most men would work less if they could.
Men splurge a lot, and lots of women like working. i personally think your views are the toxic ones.
It’s hypocritical. They want women who invests in her looks, that is, until it affects his own wallet.
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Exactly! Thank you! All men - regardless of how mediocre or plain - want a high maintenance woman until the maintenance falls on them. An absolutely average man wants a woman who makes her own money, uses her own money to maintain an otherwise unrealistic level of beauty/self grooming which also requires beside money a ton of time and effort. If she would also cook, clean, and raise his kids that would be just dandy. And he should only bring to the table himself - because for men just himself is enough apparently.
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@nella965 what does that have to do with what she was saying? If you look bad without make up that's on you. But I look fine with or without
@nella965 We would start to think that men only look good with makeup as well if they all started to wear makeup which would raise the standard. Women do look great without makeup as well, but makeup or no makeup you are right that beauty means investing a ton of money. There’s skincare, haircare, manicures, pedicures, gym, healthy food and various other things that don’t come cheap in order to keep yourself looking your best.
@nella965 you must live under a rock
@panther0008 I think that society brainwashes and teaches adults that a woman's looks mean more than mens looks. This is why women freak out way more about white hairs, gaining weight than men. Women makeup much more of consumer spending than men and one of the biggest reasons is the fashion and cosmetics industry. All men have to do is to invest in a gym membership and some cologne. That's it. Its a very different case for women. For me, a man's physical appearance is pretty important, unlike how the media likes to tell people that only female beauty matters.
@nella965 what does living in nyc have to do with you living under a rock? That doesn't mean you have friends there, get out on a regular, and experience life. With your perception it doesn't sound like you get out much or at all so that's living under a rock. Especially if you didn't understand my analogy.
@nella965 omg😂 if you can't understand that simple analogy honey something is wrong. You do not have friends I get it. you're a loner and saying nonsense makes you feel important
@SamirahD22, I'm not a loner. I attend bar events all over the city and I meet tons of new acquaintances on a weekly basis. But you don't need a million friends to know what women look like without makeup. Just go on Instagram or facebook. Maybe you know you look like crap without makeup which is why you're randomly name calling on here.
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More and more women are becoming high maintenance without actually offering much value to the table themselves. It’s hard to find a decently successful woman who isn’t. With dating apps like tinder, social media, and the dynamic shift of dating that we’ve seen, women can monkey branch with left and right very easily without facing any social repercussions. There’s little shame in sleeping around, cheating, and breaking up families anymore. This generation of progressive American women are sort of entitled and bitchy. A huge turn off. They don’t cook, they don’t clean, they’re not nurturing, they lack commitment and loyalty, and are only interested in things that benefit them. You can say I’m bitter or recognize there’s prly some truth in what I’m saying. I’m glad I found a girl who’s none of those things as I know it’s a rarity. She’s great.
True but women don't want to be housewives anymore. You can't have a baby boomer mentality in a modern world and expect people to have the same old mentality as you. Not every girl wants to clean up and take care of their husband like he is a incompetent baby. They want to work and help pay the bills. When there aren't kids to take care of, then both people should pay the bills by both of them working. I don't see that as a big deal, my girl having a job and help pay the bills.
False perception of value. People chase after goals that are not necessarily good for them.
Also, gold diggers are manipulators: They manipulate men to drain them of their cash. These men usually don't realize that they are gold diggers until they run out of cash, and suddenly, they disappear.
They're similar to players, who manipulate women with a different goal in sight. Similarly, one he achieves his goal, he disappears the next morning.
People usually suck. It's an unfortunate fact of life.
High maintenance chicks can be spotted from a mile away. Trust me men know these chicks are gold diggers but pursue the image
Some can't. Even those who can think that if they're flush with cash they can keep them are foolish because they're trying to buy loyalty. You can't buy loyalty for a long time.
The problem is those very kind of men are the ones that demand a flawless looking chick. How does he not want to be exploited while he himself is an exploitation’s master. Have you seen how trump keep bragging about the 10s and the 7s. The beautiful blondes, and simultaneously a guy like him was married twice to gold diggers.
Again i am not saying all hot women are gold diggers. But some chicks make use of their looks to advance in life. Just see most gfs of athletes and how these women look like
It's simple: a true class act is a prudent one as well. Materialism is ugly, whether she is well-groomed or not. The kindhearted survivalist chick with a heart of gold is a rarity, almost a total fantasy. But all too often, the only difference between the grumpy hag at the laundromat and the Paris Hilton clone, is money and appearance. Beneath that facade, the same ugly resides. As much as modern men would love to marry a woman that looks like she crawled out of a Far Cry game, it just isn't happening. Chasing fantasy is dangerous for a reason.
One of my co-workers once said he never met a woman he didn't have to pay for in some way or other. There was a ring of truth to it. Some men have money to offer some don't so that narrows the field a bit. Sometimes I want to spoil a woman with money and sometimes with time and attention. if you're with a man that doesn't have a lot of financial options it can put a strain on your relationship and there's no way around that if spoiling you or being spoiled is something that makes you feel good it does not make you a gold digger it makes you honest about what you enjoy
Because we are told and shown from a very young age what the ideal woman looks like and it hasn't been socially acceptable for the most part to emphasize the difference of beauty between physical beauty, natural or (most likely) not, and inner beauty. So we typically start our post pubescent journey persuing the "ideal" female with no regard to who the person actually is. And just like females are from a very young age subliminally tought that they have to buy excessively over priced acne causing make up or they aren't beautiful we are taught that if a woman doesn't do certain things or look a certain way that they aren't beautiful. It's a shame and from what I can tell a lot of men obtain enough interactions to grow out of it but some never do.
Why do men say it's wrong for a woman to want to date a man with money, but turn around and say they only want to date women with big butts, big boobs, pretty face, ect?
It's one of those "rules for the but not for me" situations. Your ways are dumb, selfish and evil but my way is smart, wholesome and have logical reasons.
Personally, the only time I dislike gold diggers is when they lead the man on and lie to his face about it. If you want men for their money then be honest about it, there are plenty of old rich men who only feel love for money who wants a side bitch to give an allowance to.
Low-maintenance chicks are all hiding in their apartments and never come out.
How the fuck are we supposed to chase after them? Crawl through their bedroom window? That's great if you look like Fabio, but what can average guys do?
If I crawled through a low-maintenance chicks bedroom window, she'd hit me over the head with a vase or something. So much for asking her out.
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i would never go for a high maintenance because they never appreciate what is given to them they just expect it, some guys might like that but they would never make it in the real world where you have to earn what you have and appreciate it. high maintenance women are never appreciative unless its something they getting for nothing lol
Those girls project some intense "feminine", sometimes it's "Im needy", I need help, "rescue me" and they know how to play the feminine attraction thing. Guys who want to feel good "saving" someone will get sucked in. Guys who want to catch a "hot" prize, they get sucked in.
Guys who have learned to discern character, can often hold a boundary.
Reverse is true of women and men. It's just manipulation and it takes some effort to see past the opposite sexes manipulation.
Because they wanna blame women for his poor life choices.
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Men want love.
Women want money.
High maintenance chicks make all their effort just to hunt rich guys, if it was not the reason they would have lead a normal life.
All those things they wear on themselves to attract men, how much easy do you think it is for men to ignore such girls all time?
Men want pussy.
Women want money.
Get it straight.
That's not love, that's lust.
Lmao good question cause guys like that are superficial themselves they dont want a good woman the want eye candy that find out later she's worthless and get mad but they do it to themselves
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Lol Your too much! little
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And then, you have women like this one, moaning about the men "constantly chasing after the high maintenance chicks, instead of after GOOD WOMEN like MEEE", whilst having shitty hygiene, taking next to no care of their fitness levels and general appearance, and looking like this:
Take your "low maintainence" and go do one. Hell, more than 70% of you own dildos now anyway, and you don't need us any more anyway, so what do you care? We go our own way, and you go yours, because we don't want YOU any more either. Happy now? Course not. But too bad. It's a little something called ADULT RESPONSIBILITY, FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. DEAL WITH IT.
Sounds like a sad reflection of yourself 🤷♀️
No it sounds like you have a small dick and taking your small dick frustrations on me. Go seek help
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Wow, you're actually sad, pathetic and desperate enough to double-post crap like that. What, a, LOSER
The only think sad is a small penis😂🤣
Go stalk someone else
Double-posted again- aww, I hurt the poor precious "low maintainence", "curvy" ugly fat girl's feelings. Poor wittle baby, boo hoo. LOL
If what I'm saying is so wrong why ya still here?🤷♀️cause I'm right.
Work on your penis size weirdo 🤣😂😩.. double stalker
Oh, and nice try with the penis-baiting- if I were an enfeebled white-knight mangina cuck like the kind you regularly try to shame and peer-pressure into liking you. Unfortunately, since I have no inferiority complex whatsoever (unlike your own clear inferiority complex-born frustrations related to 'high maintenance' women, who DON'T actually need money to maintain their figures, but merely need the self-discipline needed not to comfort-eat like pigs), that shit don't work on me. Is every dick small to you? And if so, then the problem's clearly with how wide and loose your worn-out trashy vag is. I would tell you to look in the mirror, but since it'd crack from how ugly you are...
Lemme guess- it'd take a tapir's dick to pleasure you, amirite? 
That's what'll happen when you pile on those pounds, when your pussy folds get so fat that you can't even feel your clit any more. So sad that all these black bitches be like this these days. That's why I take my 8" long, 7" girth black dick and use it to pound Asian girls instead- they're so much better lays than fellow black girls. So much tighter, and shallower; and sure, they may be 'high maintanance" compared to you lot, but that's only BEFORE considering how much more "high maintenance" it is when these "basic" black bitches expect you to be the baby-dadda for all these other mens' kids. You're way higher maintenance than they are, and for what? Why the fuck would YOU be worth it?
Let's put it this way- a "high maintenance" girl, like pretty much every good-looking, fit Asian girl, half of these fit, attractive white girls, and probably about 1% of the hottest black girls, is like a high-performance sports car. Sure, most of the time, they'll come with exorbitant price tags, and you'll have to spend a lot to keep them serviced and keep yourself insured; but in the end, if you want a car because you want to simply get behind the wheel and have the time of your life with the best driving experience ever, nothing else'll do. You, on the other hand? You're a gold-digger who has literally no leverage- if you were a car, you'd be a dilapidated old Ford Transit, with more former owners than a dollar bill, an inch-thick layer of dirt and grime covering every surface, and with misfiring cylinders, a malfunctioning brake pedal, and a rusty steering connection. But still demanding a price-tag of over 50 grand, for "sentimental reasons", because "I'm LOW MAINTENANCE!" Girl, get real.
Still here?🤷♀️🤣
Your penis is getting smaller and smaller by the text🤣🤣😂😩
And your inferiority complex is getting exponentially more tragic by the emoticon. See ya, loose-lipped loser; wouldn't wanna be ya
😂 someone is hypersensitive about their small penis
And their erectile dysfunction 🤣
U ok bro?
What the actuall fuck do you know how stupid you sound calling someone you never met that they have a small dick? Because he said something you thought was shallow and offended you? you obviously have no argument so you resort to the classic small dick quote you need to grow up you sound so stupid right now oh my feelings got hurt you must have a small dick you don't know a damn thing about his junk so do us all a favour and piss off we don't need your kind here
This guy sounds a bit off, but resorting to insulting a guys penis is pretty low and petty as well
@TonyBologna25 agreed
Why u keep associating low maintenance with chicks who don't take care of themselves that's exactly the opposite of low maintenance... they are low maintenance coz they DO take care of themselves not looking for a partner to come buy em their shit also do u need a hug (・∀・)👌
@TheLittleInnocent right low maintenance does not mean they don't care for themselves. Low maintenance can be a woman who doesn't have lavish or extravagant spending habits. He dude needs a hug
@Cocacolaaddict you're the same person operating under multiple accounts. blocked
What are you talking about? He's not me
Only the dumb ones do that. You don't want them anyway. BOOOORRRRIIIINNNGGG.
by the way, that's my bitch. The little white one. :)
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There is a difference between high maintenance and gold digger high maintenance means she has her own money and she can do whatever f*** she wants gold digger means she has your money and she can do whatever the f*** she wants with it
I know high maintenance women who have their own money but also wants yours
And only date men with money
That's my point
That's because men want a women that is gentle, kind hearted and beautiful who isn't with them for the load of money they have.
Yet men seem to chase the so called high maintenance chicks because those are the really really attractive ones. Once seen... they cannot be unseen.
I don't know guys that prefer high maintenance women. I suppose an unlikeable man with money would focus on them because women with good personalities would rather have a good man then a shitty one with money. So that's what's left on the playing board for them
guess cause they're butthurt about being broke xD also most people have little self awareness ond don't even realize that what they're going for is high maintenance which isn't what fits them.
This right here sir is a great question lol my theory is that maybe these girls seem to emit more confidence and men like that
There are millions of different people, the only way someone can have the impression that they are all the same, is if they keep picking the same type. Its like ordering the same meal in a restaurant every time, then saying the restaurant has nothing else to offer. It goes beyond gold diggers and this example, any trait you pin onto the entire gender, guess whose fault that is
Not the same group of guys I think. There's also a big difference between being high maintenance and being a straight up gold digger. They're not the same and in my personal experience an uncommon combo.
Many men like the “dresses up” feminine look of high maintenance girls... it’s a trap we constantly fall into.
might be about the effort they put into themselves. I've seen some women roll out of bed and go to work and I've seen others that are probably still in front of a mirror. it's all about perspective.
Most people complain about the price of cigarettes while they are buying them. Having a problem with something doesn't always keep you from engaging with it.
Easy. They don’t chase high maintenance women more than other types, of anything they chase them less. But when it does happen it’s not like you have to like everything about a person. You take a shot at a person and hope they’re cool and sometimes it turns out she’s a woman like that instead. You move on and look for someone better, look for a better woman. That’s how it goes.
High maintenance is a huge turn off for me a d always has been. Some dudes think of it as a status thing I guess. But if that is that dude's thing, fuck him. He's gonna get his. Look for guys who are more practical and less likely to fuck you over for whiever walks by.
I dont think expecting your partner to earn a certain amount of money is bad, specially if you already earn that much of money. Everyone has their preferences
Well why do women complain about men treating them bad then go for players?
Because people in good relationships are too busy enjoying it to complain and moan so you don't see them just the people complaining.
Women can't tell if a man is a player from his outward appearance. High maintenance women can definitely be spotted due to their appearance.
@SamirahD22 Men would say the same about players, they are quite obvious in their demeanor. And no man thinks to themselves "that woman looks like a pain in the arse to date, sounds like a match made in heaven"
If it was so easy to avoid blowing yourself up in the minefield that is dating no one would break up.
Probably not the same guys though. Billions of different guys with different preferences 😊
Those men who both chase them and then complain about them are suckers.
Simply put, high maintenance chicks are targeted more because they’re more likely to take care of their own appearance. You wouldn’t want to date a pimple riddled 500 pound man, personally I’m guilty of this as well.
Because we don’t realize that they are high maintenance until they reveal it themselves or we mistakenly think we can handle it. While high maintenance and gold-diggers are related one can exist without the other in the same person.
There's a difference between high-maintenance and well-maintained. If she can maintain her own lifestyle, that's great. Whenever she "needs a little help until she gets paid", I'm out. That's the first cut on the path to bleeding you dry
But you’re fine with sleeping with her for “free”?
@Gisellebabyboo is that a real question?
@Gisellebabyboo you are forgetting men are like starved animals when it comes to sex. If they can get free sex versus paid sex obviously we would take the free sex. I understand you are implying that guys have to pay their dates a certain amount in order to get sex like buying her food or treating her to some nice things until she feels ok to give him sex as a reward. That's bullshit honestly, a girl should have sex because she wants to and shouldn't be a reward for how much money the guy spends on her.
It's not the ones who chase them that are complaining. We see plenty of rich white knights wasting a fortune just to get a chance to ejaculate into a vagina.
This is a great question. I noticed it in myself too. I'm subconsciously drawn to them because they make their bodies look more fertile. It just happens in a split second 🤷🏻.
Do guys really chase these types of women more? I guess I'm unaware of it, especially since I steer well clear of vain or narcissistic types.
If she's high maintenance already she doesn't need your money she can afford her own stuff so she wouldn't be a gold digger
Not true, she wants your money too
I see but if that's not the only reason she's with me then she still not a gold digger
I dont think you know what a gold digger is
A go dare is a woman who is with a guy for his money and no other reason
A gold digger
If she's with me because she loves me and because I have money I wouldn't consider her a gold digger because at least she cares about me
The complaint is that women aren't honest with us (or themselves) about it.
Call a man shallow and he agrees, call a woman a gold digger and she denies it.
Yes i agree , i find this crazy. If a Man doesn't want date
a golddigger than go elsewhere?
Same reason why girls complain about men being players yet constantly chase the bad guys.
We dont know men are players based on appearance. That's more of an undercover trait
So as we don't know girls are gold diggers based on appearance.
You can tell a high maintenance chick from a mile away. They have the same signature look everywhere they go.
Then so as the bad guys who are potential players from miles away. Also there are also cases where innocent guys just gets accused of players by gold diggers who don't have that signature look you're talking about
You can't tell a player by his clothes. Player is a trait but you can definitely tell a high maintenance person from appearance by their car, clothes,
And in that case you can't tell a gold digger by her clothes. But after all, it's just you who judge anyone who wear something you don't like.
So what if she has a nice car she actually deserved? Like she earned it herself? It's not them but you being judgmental about the situation. And it would be lying to say that there are no such thing as girls wearing something simple and looking innocent who are gold diggers.
Car or clothes or whatever. The question still stands.
They likely don't even see it.
That said, I avoid high maintenance women like a plague.
They see it a high maintain chick can be spotted from a mile a way
One would think, but if the dope thinks he is in love...
Well, people are foolish.
You can't think you're in love after 5 minutes.
People are ridiculous, and they do ridiculous things.
That's called lust
The high maintenance chicks are hotter. Kind of like the crazy ones. They can't offer anything else but looks.
For the same reason every girl says they want a nice guy but only date men that treat them like shit
You can't tell a man is going to treat you like shit from their outward appearance. A high maintenance woman can be spotted a mile away based on appearance
Indeed as as lord jesus once said " if she breathes, she's a thot "
BMWS, Ferraris, and the like are status symbols---until the associated bills stack up.
cause they go after each other
high class society
I don’t care. There are guys out there stupid enough to be with women like that. I can’t stand them.
I don't know who you are watching by every male I know of agrees that high maintenance females are garbage.
I think you answered your own question you're absolutely right
I didn't know to be polite 😂 i just wanna be crazy this
Because they suck and are the one who made gold diggers
I don't chase these type of woman. In fact I find them pathetic and a waste of time. And money lol
Dogs always chase cars, but they can't drive one can they?
Don’t agree with the premise, but that’s a pretty clever analogy lol
Interesting...
They suit each other just fine 😂 😂 😂
Well I guess it's part of the Chase. Victory with a high maintenance bitch. Means you won. For the moment no matter if you have a small sick or not.
Well it is kind of hard to find a low maintenance girl that looks like a high maintenance girl. Low maintenance women usually do not take care of themselves.
Low maintenance doesn't mean that
Maybe the ones you associate with are that way but not the ones I assocuate with. The ones I associate with have good hygiene. The ones you described are not low maintenance but are no maintenance wince they do not take care of themselves.
@MysteriousDarkness yeah they dont get it
Too poor to paint... To proud to whitewash...
It's not the same guys tho.
Love cannot last for inspiration
Maybe he feels like he can change her mind.
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