What type of person is the most datable between a extroverted person and an introverted person?

[Anonymous]

Extrovert

outgoing
willing to travel/has travelled
can hold a decent conversation
plenty of life experience

introvert

oddly quiet
Rarely wants to try or experience new things
Rarely travels or has never left the city/state they were born and raised in.
Not the best conversationist.

[LEETSBEREAL]

These are all badly thought out stereotypes. You need to do your friggin homework because your so far of the mark its laughable. My favorite -'Not the best conversationalist' Yes because when we open our mouths its actually with some thing useful to say rather then just talking for the sake of it. 💤 But that means we can't hold a conversation. Right. I could say when a friend asks an extrovert how do I look in this outfit an extrovert likes to be liked by people so they will lie and say 'you look amazing' but an introvert doesn't give a fuck weather you like them or not and will be brutally honest saying 'it makes you look like tacky' now who's better? You see I can twist this the other way. Because I am tired of people treating us like second class citizens. We are just as good in quality as people. We are not beneath Extroverts because they have the biggest mouth and make the most noise. But what would you learn? It would frustrate you well it's what your doing here for people like us. And our personality type as introverts is then linked with depression and anxiety as if it's the same thing. It's not the same thing but we are more prone to feel these things, we are more likely to be theses things because we are described as the fucking odd ones out so we don't feel like we belong. We have to get our own confidence because it won't be handed to us. We aren't worthy. We're damn worthy. Each has thier strengths and there weaknesses one is not better then the other. And if you could see that then you could ask a balanced question rather then one that puts what you feel is of value on top and what you feel is of less value below.

[anniisa]

Ok this isn't entirely true.

Extroverted people are just people who get their energy from being around other people.

Introverts on the other hand feel drained when spending too much time with others for too long and like to get their energy back by having some alone time.

Being introverted doesn't mean you're anymore quiet than an extrovert. That comes with your personality, not whether you are introverted or extroverted. You can be extroverted and still be reasonably quiet. Most people in this world are actually extroverted. Extroverts can also suffer from social anxiety, and be shy. So saying that introverts dont like to travel, or good at holding conversations makes no sense.

Ok to answer your question, I dont know. It depends on the person because you can't actually generalise extroverted or introverted people like a lot of people tend to do.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Extraverts have more options but tend to be more easily influenced and generally less intelligent and genuine.

Introverts have less options, are more specifics about those they allow themselves to be interested in, less externally influenced, and generally more sincere in their personality and actions.

Take your pick, get with the popular guy that all your friends will pat you on the back for snagging then sleep with the first moment you're looking away; or get with the guy that actually gives a shit and will make you a better person in the process by holding you accountable

[peachyknees]

Finally someone who can spell "extraverts". Not all hope is lost

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

@peachyknees I mean the base origins are intro and and extra, should be pretty easy to understand how to spell them based on definitions alone. But the unfortunate reality is that most people are stupid.

[Doody22]

It depends on the type of the other person. If you enjoy staying in and watching movies etc then introverts are fine, obviously, if you prefer big crowds and traveling, etc then extroverts are the way to go. Introverts will go to quiet places and restaurants but will feel uneasy if it is a spontaneous plan or has too many people attending especially if they do not know them.

[Orangeandturquoise]

Firstly:
Introversion can't be boiled down to those descriptions.

Secondly:
Personality is socially constructed, whicu means, among other things, that personality is only described in a certain way because it is compared to what "isn't that personality". In other words, an introvert will probably most likely prefer to date an extrovert, and vice versa. However, you find exceptions.

[wisefool]

i don't agree with this. you are painting extroverts in a good light and introverts in a bad light. there are good and bad sides to each. i take it you're an extrovert?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

The phrasing of this sounds biased against introverts. Why post at all if it's obvious you've already decided the "correct" answer?

[peachyknees]

Where did you get those descriptions from? They are flawed and actually tell nothing about the difference between introverts and extraverts.

[sensogal]

Your description of introvert and extrovert seem quite biased there 😂😂

[Chadibel]

Those are just labels, each person is unique on her own and if feeling at ease would surprise you..

[crazy8000]

It's more complex then that and aren't fixed like that.
An other thing is.
You are mentioning two rare extremes on a spectrum scale there majority of people falls in to ambivert area.

[Goiiae]

Those are not description of introverts nor extroverts, loool. Thats almost offensive hahah.

[neonX]

Introverts are much more interesting and they do things in their own way. And I would love to date an introvert.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wtf. So introverts can't travel now? How would we ever have any fun?

[rose86466]

I am an introvert, so i need an extrovert partner to be with me.

[Aaron_Stone]

Things you mentioned in introvert category aren't quite convincing.
Many introverts can hold pretty good conversation 💭💬🗯

[nikhilesh412]

In my opinion introverts enjoy and give a good company on date as every experience is new for them and they rejoice every moment of it.

[Mindwipe]

Extroverts aren't the listening type, they're the occasionally-wait-to-talk type.

[Handysandy69]

Aslong as they can handle 9 cheeky Guinness on a Friday and a few whishkeys... Be grand

[Hotboy_booblover]

I m in introvert.. but I m good at dating and sexting..

[hsshannah96]

Extrovert in my opinion

[MannMitAntworten]

Extrovert who actually wishes you around.

[Ratmuffin]

Probably an extrovert

[Nickel_Slam]

I think both types are okay to date.