Would you let your girlfriend wear heels if it made her taller than you?

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CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

This reminds me of a conversation I had with a potential date. I'm 5'2.5", he's just an inch taller. We were planning to watch a movie together (as we have before with other friends but never alone), and we were talking about what we could wear for the date. The moment I mentioned high heels he was like "You know my height is the only thing that I'm insecure about, right? I'll die of embarrassment if you wear heels!" And that actually disappointed me because I personally have nothing against dating short guys but have huge troubles with someone controlling what shoes to wear. But I guess I thought it would be too much to stubbornly show up with high heels anyway so I could miss them at first. But I was clearly seeing a bad future if he had an issue with me wearing heels at all.

The date didn't happen. Coming to my actual boyfriend now, I would have to wear six inch stilletos to be taller than him. I was thinking of practicing walking in higher heels to get there overtime, just for fun.

Petra150 · Accepted Answer

Well that's about the most old-fashioned thing asked lately , I must assume NO ONE ever would be so stupid to say NO. I'd been dating a hell of a lot guys and not a single guy told me it bothers him. Well I dated one single guy who might have been one cm taller than me... now I'm very ekstremly tall 204 cm tall and he were the only guy I'd ever were fooled to date , who were my height and mabee he were 205 cm tall, and he had a problem with me wearing heels, but then again he had problems with hardly everything, and I'd guess the reason he were a jerk was because he were tall. Not a single guy avarage or short height had any problems I'd wear heels. Heels are often used by us girls to make men feel bad about there height. We women are so fixed on height, we will do everything to let a guy feel bad about there height it make me sick.

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

let her? dude if she wanted to wear whatever she felt comfortable wearing none of us should have a say or control in whether they do or not

personally I believe that no one has the right to dictate what others wear or do...
while i prefer partners to be shorter than me, i dont believe that they should avoid wearing something they want to

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

The women I date are not subservient females and they would never ask me for permission. . . but they might ask my opinion. This notion that the guy should be taller than the girl is quite antiquated and I am surprised that young people are perpetuating this silly rule.

NurseStacy · Answer

I could only see a guy with insecurity issues having a problem with this.
Heels are heels.
Even if he is a short man, he may make up in any areas of our relationship.
This would be the least of my concern.

theronaldmcdonald · Answer

Let me wear heels? Haha, if it’s a problem to the extent he tries to tell me what I can and can’t wear, I’ll just break up with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Haha “let”!!! I know what you mean though. And sure I’m not bothered by trivial stuff like that. What my girl does that makes her feel good despite what appearance it might give me to others doesn’t bother me... but that’s just me lol.
some years of jealousy, costed me big an I learned to really let things that you can’t control just be mate. So yeah let her be some freak amazonian 8ft giantess haha.

Bman4907 · Answer

Every girl I have ever dated, wears the heels, then regrets it about 20 minutes into the date, claiming "my feet are killing me," so usually I sneak a pair of her flats into my jacket, and boom, foot problem solved.

I don't know what you mean by this word "let."

Side note, to illustrate how little my opinion mattered to the most recent one, I told her I liked the dress she wore, I never saw it again after that.

katjmj · Answer

I'm already taller than my partner in flats and he'd rather I don't wear heels. He wouldn't stop me though as I've worn them with him at some event. However, I'd choose flats over heels anytime. Those things aren't comfortable.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I don't really like heels and much more perfer her to be comfty in her shoe wear rather than ache from it. But i cannot really complain if she's taller than me cause i know were i will be putting my head when i hug here. Lmao

jaybee281 · Answer

It's not really about letting her honestly but like i think after the social gathering or whatever thing we had for her to wear heels it would make a great roleplay as in her being dominant.. Quarantine really expands your sexual mind

Ciarle · Answer

You don't "LET" your girlfriend do it, she is a human being and she can decide for herself.

weasley8 · Answer

I don't need a guy to Let me do anything. I don't need his permission.

stephaniewoods · Answer

Lmao if I buy a pair of heels, I’m wearing them. No questions asked

Dyskrasia · Answer

I'm 6'4 my girlfriend is 5'1, if she found heels that make her taller than me, I wouldn't allow it, it has nothing to do with being shorter, just that heels a foot and a half long sounds dangerous lol.

Cam_Siessel · Answer

The reality is that im short. Now I can either let that define me or i can turn into something positive. If i find someone who appreciates me for me then who am i to say what she can and cannot wear. In a relationship if she's happy then I'm happy whatever the height difference is lol

lailosest · Answer

I’m a girl and I don’t like my guy to appear smaller than me. I’m 162 cm tall while my guy is 176 cm tall. I would avoid wearing heels around him to keep it that range.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Yes, I prefer tall girls and I'd be impressed if a girl was even tall enough to be taller than me with heels on because very rarely do I ever see a girl close to my height.

Loredey · Answer

If my boyfriend, who's not existing, would be only some inches taller than me I'd purposely decide not to wear high heels, just not to let him appear shorter.

collegestudent96 · Answer

It's not up to the boyfriend, she can wear whatever she wants

EmmaMary · Answer

Since when have I needed my husband's permission to wear anything, let alone heels?

nodnol32 · Answer

I am no one to stop her. She wants to wear it, I'll encourage her. I have no problem if she is taller than me with or without heels. More power to her.

Adam1978 · Answer

I prefer if they think about their feets and skip it, but it's their choice and I won't make a fuzz about it.

MrTuxedo · Answer

If that would be even possible, she would have to be either 6'0 and wear 8 inch heels, or below that and wear heels that make her taller than 6'7 lol.

bluehen46 · Answer

I would not let her do anything. it would be up to her. I would not mind if a girl was taller than me.

Stonernights · Answer

I think it's more of an issue with girls not guys. We usually WANT the guy taller than us

cryokeep · Answer

Pretty much, she can where what she wants, and if she is nomaly shorter than I am it would give me a chance to pester and joke at her about being taller than me 😂 plus, what's it matter who is taller?

Anonymous · Answer

what do you mean “let”? A man does not dictate what a woman wears. Either you feel comfortable beside her or you suck it up and get comfortable.

najekim · Answer

Waaaay back when I did have a tall girlfriend who when wore high heels was slightly taller than me. I'm 6-0. I responded by getting a pair of 4" inch platform shoes (yes, guys wore platform shoes) and wore those when she wore her heels.

MeatPuppet · Answer

If she enjoyed wearing heels, HELL YES. The more she'd tower over me, the better. I mean, if her tits we at about the same height as my face, that would be perfect. Isn't that objectively the perfect height ratio? 🤣

JKingOff · Answer

I'm 5 6 and my wife is 5 11. She's taller than me to begin with and I really don't care if she wears heels.

Buffboy2000 · Answer

Tall girls and short girls, I love them all. I can truly care less if the girl is taller than me.

Interstate · Answer

That would be reaching a whole new level of absurdity.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Sure why not. As long she walk in them she can be as tall as Taco Fall if she wants too.

Ianto · Answer

I would be unlikely to stay in a relationship with a woman who required my permission to dress as she wished. A partner needs some spine.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

If she's the kind of sad pathetic human waste that lets others, anyone, dictate what she can or cannot wear, she has no chance of getting any sort of treatment from me, let alone be my girlfriend.

Miristheiss · Answer

I like tall girls. I am 6'2" and I have never dated anyone that tall. Wife is 5'3"-5'4"

AngelLily · Answer

I would if I was a dude because I wouldn't be insecure.

Avicenna · Answer

I don't mind if she's taller than me without heels either and still wears heels.

hpereira · Answer

You shouldn’t make your partner stop being herself because you’re self-conscious because your height

lokeshdh00 · Answer

You the boyfriend can simply wear high foot shoes and even he won't , relationship is not about competition, its about with whom you love to be with

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

My wife isn't taller than me even with heels. I like t be the tall one. Girls taller than me are a big turn off.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Not anything to do with height though I can't stop her would just explain demerits of heels back pains, ankle strain, posture degeneration etc etc..

sluttyboy2000 · Answer

Uh, yeah. Tall girls turn me on and I'm currently crushing on a tall girl (who doesn't even know that I exist ;_; ).

AynonOMouse · Answer

I don't like heels on girls. Even though I am 6' and if she was 5' I'd still prefer her not to wear them. I just don't care for that look.

HerLucidNightt · Answer

"Let" LMAOOOOOOOOOOO

andreasderjuengere · Answer

She would then need 10'' plateau heels. She'd break her legs.

ColoradoKid · Answer

If those are the shoes she wants to wear then why should I stop her.

RegularJoe1973 · Answer

Its not up to me to 'let' her. She dresses how she wants. I was with a woman for several years who was 6'. Im 5'10". She would wear heels when we went out but I always just thought 'look at how beautiful she is'

Prof_Don · Answer

Of course, her being taller wearing heels doesn’t bother me

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Because she should never have to worry about her own height to the point that she feels insecure about something that should be her greatest asset.

funnyman_murph · Answer

No. If she wore heels to be taller than me, the heels would be approximately 8.5" tall. Tripping is fatal.

TantraSerge · Answer

Yes... I like taller women. I like the way other man look at us and wonder...

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Who cares? I've dated girls who are taller than I am, and I'm 6'2

realperson02 · Answer

Shouldn't matter to me and anyways most Indian wouldn't be taller than me even with 6 inch heels

apple24 · Answer

I don't wear heels but It would be nice if he didn't freak out in case I wanted to wear something

jamesgoldman · Answer

That isn't much of a challenge without heels but still yes

MountAverage · Answer

What do you mean "let her"? How's that even my decision?

JimboGB · Answer

Yes, I guess some men are feeling sensitive about their height lol.

Iron_Man · Answer

No most would wear 6 inch pumps making themselves as tall as an NBA girl

Kezzz · Answer

I'd let her wear whatever she wants as long as it's not showing too much skin

ikEVERYTHING · Answer

I'd feel inferior. I mean yeah she can but I'd just prefer she wouldn't

andrermm · Answer

My gp used to say. Laying down we're all the same hight.

SarahsSummer · Answer

"let your girlfriend" lol

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