Would you let your girlfriend wear heels if it made her taller than you?

[wingspan83]

Yes

No

[CubsterShura]

This reminds me of a conversation I had with a potential date. I'm 5'2.5", he's just an inch taller. We were planning to watch a movie together (as we have before with other friends but never alone), and we were talking about what we could wear for the date. The moment I mentioned high heels he was like "You know my height is the only thing that I'm insecure about, right? I'll die of embarrassment if you wear heels!" And that actually disappointed me because I personally have nothing against dating short guys but have huge troubles with someone controlling what shoes to wear. But I guess I thought it would be too much to stubbornly show up with high heels anyway so I could miss them at first. But I was clearly seeing a bad future if he had an issue with me wearing heels at all.

The date didn't happen. Coming to my actual boyfriend now, I would have to wear six inch stilletos to be taller than him. I was thinking of practicing walking in higher heels to get there overtime, just for fun.

[Petra150]

Well that's about the most old-fashioned thing asked lately , I must assume NO ONE ever would be so stupid to say NO. I'd been dating a hell of a lot guys and not a single guy told me it bothers him. Well I dated one single guy who might have been one cm taller than me... now I'm very ekstremly tall 204 cm tall and he were the only guy I'd ever were fooled to date , who were my height and mabee he were 205 cm tall, and he had a problem with me wearing heels, but then again he had problems with hardly everything, and I'd guess the reason he were a jerk was because he were tall. Not a single guy avarage or short height had any problems I'd wear heels. Heels are often used by us girls to make men feel bad about there height. We women are so fixed on height, we will do everything to let a guy feel bad about there height it make me sick.

[SjE78]

let her? dude if she wanted to wear whatever she felt comfortable wearing none of us should have a say or control in whether they do or not

personally I believe that no one has the right to dictate what others wear or do...
while i prefer partners to be shorter than me, i dont believe that they should avoid wearing something they want to

[OlderAndWiser]

The women I date are not subservient females and they would never ask me for permission. . . but they might ask my opinion. This notion that the guy should be taller than the girl is quite antiquated and I am surprised that young people are perpetuating this silly rule.

[NurseStacy]

I could only see a guy with insecurity issues having a problem with this.
Heels are heels.
Even if he is a short man, he may make up in any areas of our relationship.
This would be the least of my concern.

[theronaldmcdonald]

Let me wear heels? Haha, if it’s a problem to the extent he tries to tell me what I can and can’t wear, I’ll just break up with him.

[Anonymous]

Haha “let”!!! I know what you mean though. And sure I’m not bothered by trivial stuff like that. What my girl does that makes her feel good despite what appearance it might give me to others doesn’t bother me... but that’s just me lol.
some years of jealousy, costed me big an I learned to really let things that you can’t control just be mate. So yeah let her be some freak amazonian 8ft giantess haha.

[Bman4907]

Every girl I have ever dated, wears the heels, then regrets it about 20 minutes into the date, claiming "my feet are killing me," so usually I sneak a pair of her flats into my jacket, and boom, foot problem solved.

I don't know what you mean by this word "let."

Side note, to illustrate how little my opinion mattered to the most recent one, I told her I liked the dress she wore, I never saw it again after that.

[katjmj]

I'm already taller than my partner in flats and he'd rather I don't wear heels. He wouldn't stop me though as I've worn them with him at some event. However, I'd choose flats over heels anytime. Those things aren't comfortable.

[Kaneki05]

I don't really like heels and much more perfer her to be comfty in her shoe wear rather than ache from it. But i cannot really complain if she's taller than me cause i know were i will be putting my head when i hug here. Lmao

[jaybee281]

It's not really about letting her honestly but like i think after the social gathering or whatever thing we had for her to wear heels it would make a great roleplay as in her being dominant.. Quarantine really expands your sexual mind

[nessybluedawn]

Yeah agreed...

[Ciarle]

You don't "LET" your girlfriend do it, she is a human being and she can decide for herself.

[weasley8]

I don't need a guy to Let me do anything. I don't need his permission.

[stephaniewoods]

Lmao if I buy a pair of heels, I’m wearing them. No questions asked

[Dyskrasia]

I'm 6'4 my girlfriend is 5'1, if she found heels that make her taller than me, I wouldn't allow it, it has nothing to do with being shorter, just that heels a foot and a half long sounds dangerous lol.

[Cam_Siessel]

The reality is that im short. Now I can either let that define me or i can turn into something positive. If i find someone who appreciates me for me then who am i to say what she can and cannot wear. In a relationship if she's happy then I'm happy whatever the height difference is lol

[lailosest]

I’m a girl and I don’t like my guy to appear smaller than me. I’m 162 cm tall while my guy is 176 cm tall. I would avoid wearing heels around him to keep it that range.

[sagau]

You are such nice girl
That guy is so lucky

[lailosest]

Thank you

[AaronKrieger]

Yes, I prefer tall girls and I'd be impressed if a girl was even tall enough to be taller than me with heels on because very rarely do I ever see a girl close to my height.

[Loredey]

If my boyfriend, who's not existing, would be only some inches taller than me I'd purposely decide not to wear high heels, just not to let him appear shorter.

[Petra150]

What's wrong in you boyfriend get to look shorter, why is looking shorter or literally be shorter a problem. A real guy wouldn't give a fuckinge shit about if her were s head shorter than you, my experience is men would love a taller looking or literally taller girlfriend. We tall girls get boyfriend's too, and s hell lot of us get them shorter than us too.

[Loredey]

Excuse me if my comment offended you, but I didn't mean to blame couples in which the woman is taller than the man or to insult men who're short or women who're tall, but I think it's absolutely important for everybody to have their own criterias when choosing their partners and one of mine is that my boyfriend has to be taller than me, just because it gives me this feeling of protection, which I want to experience.
I don't doubt that there a lot of men who prefer taller women, 'cause like I used to say, everybody have their own preferences and I think especially nowadays it's absolutely normal for everybody to live their lifes the way they want and to have the partners they're happy with.

[Petra150]

I dont get many comments as I'm the tall one very tall indeed , and generally people ( read men ) are very polite towards bus women, and it seems that tall people always get a far more fair treat by everyone. But my hobbit who is way shorter than me ( only 181 cm tall) get the looks and comments , him being a shorter, even he get told he ruin the look of a nice tall woman ( me) by walking beside me , and he should find a shorter girlfriend. Now first I don't think a guy my hobbits height 181 cm should be called a shortie , I do cause he love ME telling him an well from my prospective he is short, well shorter than me ofcause , as I'm 204 fucking cm tall, most seems relatively short, I don't usually call no one short at all, only my love, he love me telling him , it rather turn him on. But to have mainly women maybe 170 + cm telling him he's a shorter and I should date a guy taller , just pisses us of. A wtf should a guy not tall but not short either do when they are attracted to tall and very tall girls do. And what should I do, I'm kind of neutral about the height of a guy, as most seems short anyway, if I wear my 4-5 inch high heels as I rather often do, a guy 2 meter tall still seems short compared to me. But my preference if infact for guys avarage height for two reasons , mainly statistical you have a much bigger change to find a fantastic guy in the height from 175-185 cm tall and a guy shorter know he need to be very fantastic to keep a taller girlfriend , as we women a known to be some horrible heightist ( hope no one ever think that about me) so they will do everything make us happy, last tall guys seems to think themselves entitled to s tall woman's love, and hell no, I'm not attracted to those guys

[collegestudent96]

It's not up to the boyfriend, she can wear whatever she wants

[EmmaMary]

Since when have I needed my husband's permission to wear anything, let alone heels?

[nodnol32]

I am no one to stop her. She wants to wear it, I'll encourage her. I have no problem if she is taller than me with or without heels. More power to her.

[Adam1978]

I prefer if they think about their feets and skip it, but it's their choice and I won't make a fuzz about it.

[MrTuxedo]

If that would be even possible, she would have to be either 6'0 and wear 8 inch heels, or below that and wear heels that make her taller than 6'7 lol.