Do you mind if your girlfriend is taller than you when she wears heels?

Question

BlueWalker · Accepted Answer

I voted A, but for me, it's not even a question of heels. I don't even like heels. I think it's a silly aesthetic that only ruins a woman's feet and Achilles tendon. All for looks? Doesn't make sense to me.

But as far as a woman's height, it doesn't matter to me. She could be 7 feet tall or 3'6". As long as there is love there, that's all that matters.

But as far as a woman who is taller than me (I'm 6'0"), I wouldn't have an "issue" with it at all. If this implies that I'd be insecure or not, I wouldn't feel "emasculated" or "less of a man", or any other nonsense whatsoever. Tall women are awesome too and our height difference wouldn't make a difference to me one bit.

zagor · Accepted Answer

You didn't leave enough choices. I don't care if a girl is taller than me with or without heels, though I am about 6 ft so not many are. But I think heels are stupid, don't make a girl look better, and are inconvenient and unhealthy for the feet. So I am a guy, and I simply don't like heels, though height has nothing to do with it.

emmily2396 · Accepted Answer

It would have been nice if looking good wasn't put in the same sentence with heels... like you can't look good in flats...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I do not like heels, but even if I wore the highest ever, I would still be a little short arse!

Logorithim · Answer

It's fine if she is taller with or without heels.

Greenfield25 · Answer

I'm a girl but I'll never never never never ever be taller than any man. I'm 4'11 (150cm) and up to possibly 5'4 (162.5cm) with large heels. I can also like never find shoes in my size (3-3.5 in US women's) (which I think is about size 34 in EU women's)

bubbatxman · Answer

I’m not a big fan of heels to begin with. My SO rarely wears them because of a nerve issue in her foot. I hear to makes the calves look really defined, but I want my woman to have healthy feet and comfort over showing off her well defined calves. If you’re under 5’ 5”, I understand why you would want to wear them, but don’t injure yourself, ok?

Burgerboy21 · Answer

First off, I'll say I have a preference for my girlfriend to be shorter than me even in heels.
However, if she's someone I truly like, height isn't a deciding factor and I wouldn't even turn down a girl who's taller than me (even out of heels), as long as I like her and we get along great.

Femdomina · Answer

F, I don't like heels and I don't need them, I'm tall enough, and sneakers are much more comfortable than heels.

Dionigi · Answer

My problem with heels is not how tall they make a girl, but how painful I imagine them to be.
If my girlfriend is comfortable wearing heels and likes it, I won't mind even if she gets 1 foot taller than me... every hug would cuddle my face between her boobs, nice

Rangers · Answer

She's not my girlfriend, but she's about the exact same height as me without heels. Granted, I am in the 47th percentile in height for men, so situations where I'll be shorter when they have heels on will present themselves very often, as such, I'll deal with it. In my experience, as soon as they hit the dance floor, the heels come off, anyways.

CubsterShura · Answer

What is the problem if I'm taller than him with heels on? Smh. Like why? Will he lose his job if I look taller than him? Will his friends make fun of him? He doesn't need that kind of friend in his life then. Like tell me what the problem is.

MrKinktastic · Answer

Only one girl I dated was taller in heals as Im about 6' and most my partners were around 5'5. For her I didn't mind as she was overall a tall bombshell femme fatale type so the look worked people would just joke that I looked like her bodyguard

MemeSupreme · Answer

i'm fine with wearing heels if going to school dance or something with my boyfriend because i like to be almost as tall as him but other than that i won't wear them

denis94 · Answer

it depends on man's economy budget, personaly when i had a good budget i realy liked having a woman taller than me on my side, on the other side i would never be with a woman taller than me ( in a serious relationship)

AlexKingVice · Answer

Personally I believe I don't have any bearing on what my girlfriend wants to or does not want to wear all I can simply do is suggest things to her, unlike other guys I'm personally not self-conscious of my height and don't worry if someone is taller than me or shorter than me it's just a side note

princessfromjupiter · Answer

I voted that I'll wear heels even if I'll be taller, unless he's over 190cm he'll just have to deal with that.

MementoMori_ · Answer

Fortunately I'm tall enough that most girls won't be taller than me even in heels. Yes, I like a girl in heels. But no, I would not like it if she was taller than me.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's more a question of if she would be bothered. I would have no problem with dating someone a little taller than me even if she weren't wearing heals, but girls have this weird thing with height.

Anonymous · Answer

I actually prefer dating the taller ones (5'8"+) and although I'm not short looking, I'm not tall either (I'm 5'9"), and I'd prefer she wear platform boots or something instead of heels only because they're better for your feet. The height difference doesn't even matter to me

DoctorSex · Answer

Where's the option for guys who don't like girls who wear heels?

ForteExe · Answer

The average height for American women is 5'5". I'm 6'6". The average woman would need heels that are over a foot high to make her taller than me. Those aren't heels; those are stilts.

loveslongnails · Answer

I've never dated a girl who was taller than me in heels. She'd have to be something really special to make me want to since it's usually not my mindset to find that desirable. Just being honest.

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

I don't really mind cause I'm quite tall already and most of my shoes are big and make me at least a few inches taller so it depends on what she wants to wear...

EmmaMary · Answer

I'm already 5' 10" and can just about get away with wearing 4" heels to remain very slightly shorter than my fiancé.

Princerahul123 · Answer

I have nothing to do with her heels , what i want is if she is of my same height then it would be a great sex afterall.

pumaOH24 · Answer

I've never had one that was taller than me with or without heels. If she's slightly taller than me in heels then it's no big deal to me.

BigRob420 · Answer

Even when they wear 5 inch heels some 99% of women are shorter than me. I've never had this happen to me. When they wear heels they are closer to my height which I like.

JackJPershing · Answer

Height is one of those things that cannot really be controlled so for me it is not an issue even if she is taller without heels than my 6'1.

bi-mike-95 · Answer

I'd want my girlfriend to be comfortable and wear thing's that doesn't hurt her, I wouldn't date a girl that wears makeup I'd want her to know she is beautiful as she is and she doesn't gave to put a mask on for people

XTropicalchickX · Answer

My boyfriend would have to be really short or those would have to be some damn tall heels for me to be taller than him. 😂

Johnnie1000 · Answer

Unless it is some occasion with dressy clothes demanding heels to look good then I really don't want a taller women

Browneye57 · Answer

I don't do polls... They care, but there are more important things. The #1 is YOUR level of attraction and desire for HIM. Your height is virtually irrelevant is the desire is there.

Toad-1 · Answer

i don't mind as long as she doesn't mind being taller than me wearing heels. seriously there are girls who won't date a guy just because they feel like they can't wear heels

ElvenMr · Answer

I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend would wear heels and she'd be taller then me.
I'm not really into heels tho, but whatever she fancies wearing it's ok with me.

Btw: Heels only in the bedroom? Kink alert? Hehe

ChocoLada · Answer

I don't like heels and I never wear them, they are unstable, I like sneakers and flat boots.

lori_18789 · Answer

i used to wear heels all the time and my boyfriend didn't seem to mind

WillyD · Answer

I don't mind but i'm 6'6" so either you tall to begin with or those are some crazy long heels.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Eh, where's the "I do mind if she's taller than me" option?

Blackbrowny · Answer

Iam a girl. I dont like heels. I am still taller than everybody. I still like it.

coolbreeze · Answer

I wouldn't care just as long the girl felt good and comfortable wearing heels.

Kriswizzl3 · Answer

I don't mind but I know exes that would not wear heels out as it made them taller than me

ColoradoKid · Answer

If those are the kind of shoes she wants to wear then by all means rock them. I know that I like to wear heels from time to time.

Kurαȷ · Answer

It wouldn't bother me, I would just wear heels when she does.

Prof_Don · Answer

My girlfriend and I are the same height , & her wearing heels isn’t an issue for me tho she is taller than me 😛

SjE78 · Answer

I honestly do not mind, if she finds them comfortable and wants to wear them I say go for it...

malealpha00 · Answer

i've never experienced that situation as i'm 6"3. All chicks have to look up at me even while wearing their highest pair of heels

Northern_star · Answer

im relatively tall so thats not an issue in most cases. it only happened once i had a girl with the same height and i hated it when she high heeled herself 😑

Piteka5 · Answer

No problem with me, what I can't get is how girls use heels so much, those things seems very uncomfortable, I prefer them using something comfortable for that reason only,

alice55 · Answer

I'm a girl and I don't wanna wear heels if it will make me taller than him

Sjeggy · Answer

@hellosweetie49525 my girlfriend needs a ladder to be taller but i don't mind at all <3

thenorboy · Answer

Id love it if she was the same hight or taller then me :D but it really doesn't matter :)

unkqty · Answer

i dated - for the most part - tall. married tall, as well. never regretted it.

ATuairiscean · Answer

Not an issue - At 5'9" a fair proportion of girls would be taller in heels

Shygirl666 · Answer

I'm a tall woman and I prefer to only date men that are over 6 feet tall so that IF I decide to wear high heels, I wouldn't be taller than him.

Massageman · Answer

She could certainly wear heels in some situations and a lower pump in others and sneakers in still another. Depends on the situation.

Titanic1912 · Answer

If she wants to wear heels, I’ll let her. I like her wearing high heels. If she’s not able to walk far because of them, I can carry her.

Philyouup · Answer

hell she was taller than me when we were barefoot...

AynonOMouse · Answer

I wouldn't want an SO to wear heels even if she was only 5' tall and I'm 6' I'd rather her wear sporty shoes or knee high boots.

RaceAgainstMachine · Answer

She can be taller without heels, and she can still wear heels

MountainDewMan · Answer

I’ve only gone on one date with a chick close to my height. I figure more legs. It wouldn’t bother me. I’m over 6 foot. So it isn’t really problem I run into often.

humptydumpty01 · Answer

I don't care what she wears as long as it's decent  She'll always look sexy to me

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't mind dating a girl whose heels make her taller than me.

Aenetoo · Answer

I'm old fashioned. The guy should always be taller.

Do you mind if your girlfriend is taller than you when she wears heels?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you mind if your girlfriend is taller than you when she wears heels?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.