Not that I think the following are wrong but they aren't compatible with me. My deal breakers are: no conservatives, no religious people of any kind, no kids or desire to have them.
I am impressed that almost everyone on here are so shallow. Wow! Mostly for me is smoking because she the smoke makes me feel bad. Other than that, just need to shower at least once a day and share same views as me.
so you don't like a man who has pets which are basically a precursor to kids as it teaches people how to take care of other living things/responsibility etc but he has to want kids? makes 0 sense.
@Silver158 You don't have to have pets to learn how to take care of people. There are classes; not to mention real world experience like baby sitting or taking care of you siblings.
If i'm going through a dating site, one of the first things that will stick out is an obvious, terrible filter. I don't understand how anyone thinks it's a good look. That aside, their attitude. Someone with an obvious "I'm great on my own" or "not here to play" attitude is no fun to be around.
Any girl who uses Snapchat filters with stupid ears on them. Single Mums. Religious nuts trying to convert me. Passionless. Too Easy. You ask them what music they are into and they reply 'pop' Vegan.
I have no problem with anyone who chooses themselves what to believe in, the nut is specifically for those who repeatedly try and convert me, yet lack the arguments to do it.
controlling, badgering, nagging, and to add to the list.. smelling like cat litter (I dont mind cats, Im a fan of cats) but when you smell like the cat litter..
Smoking, grammar and asking too much for a date (I know you have a very defined image of your perfect partner, but a checklist of more than 4 qualities for a mere first date is an exaggeration)
For example. I've noticed that not all Muslims have those views. But no Muslim should pretend like they have any right to be here (unless they're from Bosnia).
Turkey is a historically multi-ethnic country. Greeks, Turks (Turkic people from central Asia), Arabs and Caucasians (people from the Caucasus mountains).
So it's a bridge to Asia. Both culturally and genetically
@Smiley_face101 Its a good question, and requires a bit of a thought out explanation. You are quite correct that society pushes women to loose weight, but I think we can agree societies treatment of women in this respect is wrong and very damaging. Most of the girls I have dated have eating disorders of one sort or another, and very poor body image as well. So, for me, a girl that is always trying to loose wight is just very irritating in the relationship. She is always worried about food, always complaining about her body, and, most of all, ends up communicating the message that although I find her attractive (I am with her) she does not take that affection as real or affirming enough. On top of that, I find that girls trying to loose wight or that have lost weight always lack self confidence, which is unattractive. The rare example of a chubby girl that embraces her body however is the best example of self confidence. Chubby girl in a bikini? Tour de force of self confidence. My kind of girl. Finally, and this is really not the key issue since I am attracted to a broad variety of girls, but I really like girls on the chubby side. They are cute, more feminine, much more fun to cuddle, and have more to hold on to between the sheets ;)
As a chubby girl that embreces her body, works out to get strong (I even manage to pull a full set of guy pushups o toes) and loving life I am happy to see guys like you on this site' which full of guys constantly making stupid streotypes of weight and fitness which make me angry and scared when I think of all of those inscure girls that read their comments of how being skinny is "ideal" or "healthy" and it pushes them to crash diets and eating disorders.
@Smiley_face101 I get it. Its a constant battle with idiocy these days. And you are quite right, every chubby girl I have dated was an emotional train wreck thanks to the media and its toxic messages. The crap that is written here is rarely any better. "Health" has become a onion skin pretext for degrading women who are not a size 2.
@Smiley_face101 Exactly. Just keep calling the BS. It is not about convincing them, as most will not be. Its about defeating them in the debate for the purposes of the bystanders. Changing the minds of others.
Exactly, I know I won't be able to change their minds nor I want to. I do it for all of those inscure 13-15 year old girls that see these things and... I workout, I stay in shape, I eat healthy and I am not skinny and I love every inch of me
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Not that I think the following are wrong but they aren't compatible with me. My deal breakers are: no conservatives, no religious people of any kind, no kids or desire to have them.
Entitledness
Generic bitchiness
Tunnel piercings
Feminine clothing
I am impressed that almost everyone on here are so shallow. Wow! Mostly for me is smoking because she the smoke makes me feel bad. Other than that, just need to shower at least once a day and share same views as me.
Large tattoos, having breasts out on campus, slutty look.
Smoker, sexually active, has pets, and doesn't want kids.
@Jackist41 You could just ask it here.
so you don't like a man who has pets which are basically a precursor to kids as it teaches people how to take care of other living things/responsibility etc but he has to want kids? makes 0 sense.
@Silver158 You don't have to have pets to learn how to take care of people. There are classes; not to mention real world experience like baby sitting or taking care of you siblings.
1. Coming Off As crazy
2. A Drunk
3. Smoker
4. Bad Character
5. Lack of Self-Awareness
6. Too Many Tattoos
If i'm going through a dating site, one of the first things that will stick out is an obvious, terrible filter. I don't understand how anyone thinks it's a good look. That aside, their attitude. Someone with an obvious "I'm great on my own" or "not here to play" attitude is no fun to be around.
Any girl who uses Snapchat filters with stupid ears on them.
Single Mums.
Religious nuts trying to convert me.
Passionless.
Too Easy.
You ask them what music they are into and they reply 'pop'
Vegan.
@Hepy82
OK, you'd probably consider me a "religious nut", but we can both agree that "missionary dating" is all wrong.
I have no problem with anyone who chooses themselves what to believe in, the nut is specifically for those who repeatedly try and convert me, yet lack the arguments to do it.
any kind of drugs... unattractiveness... unrealistic expectations... hoes... not having any kind of relationship with God...
controlling, badgering, nagging, and to add to the list.. smelling like cat litter (I dont mind cats, Im a fan of cats) but when you smell like the cat litter..
Smoking, grammar and asking too much for a date (I know you have a very defined image of your perfect partner, but a checklist of more than 4 qualities for a mere first date is an exaggeration)
Being anti 2nd and being a liberal/dem or socialist
I hate cheap men
As well as men who don't listen when they ask a question
Tattoos, smoking, anti European views, shallow and immodesty.
Anti European views like Muslims?
For example. I've noticed that not all Muslims have those views. But no Muslim should pretend like they have any right to be here (unless they're from Bosnia).
Isn’t Turkey kinda euro?
Turkey is a historically multi-ethnic country. Greeks, Turks (Turkic people from central Asia), Arabs and Caucasians (people from the Caucasus mountains).
So it's a bridge to Asia. Both culturally and genetically
Oh I thought it was in the Middle East on the boarder of like Southern Europe. Definitely very different than Western Europe lol.
It's right next to Greece, correct
The biggest single turn off is always the same --------- stupidity.
If the girl turns out to be a dolt, it's over.
Feminazism and religion. That would really turn the date into a murder scene, which would actually be quite fun for me.
How fat is she... and does she look like a man
Wrong text line...
Filters
Low quality pics
Mirrored text
Only face pics
Tattoos
text spk Or LiKe DiS
Overtly sexual pics
Emojis
And that's before I start chatting to them. Not that I actually have anything to say once the chatting starts :)
Girls that are always trying to loose weight or have lost weight, massive and total deal killer.
I kinda want to know why? Society practically makes women want to lose weight
@Smiley_face101 Its a good question, and requires a bit of a thought out explanation. You are quite correct that society pushes women to loose weight, but I think we can agree societies treatment of women in this respect is wrong and very damaging. Most of the girls I have dated have eating disorders of one sort or another, and very poor body image as well.
So, for me, a girl that is always trying to loose wight is just very irritating in the relationship. She is always worried about food, always complaining about her body, and, most of all, ends up communicating the message that although I find her attractive (I am with her) she does not take that affection as real or affirming enough.
On top of that, I find that girls trying to loose wight or that have lost weight always lack self confidence, which is unattractive. The rare example of a chubby girl that embraces her body however is the best example of self confidence. Chubby girl in a bikini? Tour de force of self confidence. My kind of girl.
Finally, and this is really not the key issue since I am attracted to a broad variety of girls, but I really like girls on the chubby side. They are cute, more feminine, much more fun to cuddle, and have more to hold on to between the sheets ;)
As a chubby girl that embreces her body, works out to get strong (I even manage to pull a full set of guy pushups o toes) and loving life I am happy to see guys like you on this site' which full of guys constantly making stupid streotypes of weight and fitness which make me angry and scared when I think of all of those inscure girls that read their comments of how being skinny is "ideal" or "healthy" and it pushes them to crash diets and eating disorders.
@Smiley_face101 I get it. Its a constant battle with idiocy these days. And you are quite right, every chubby girl I have dated was an emotional train wreck thanks to the media and its toxic messages. The crap that is written here is rarely any better. "Health" has become a onion skin pretext for degrading women who are not a size 2.
Yeah, I kinda like "fighting" with those assholes, it was never about health for them, just looks
@Smiley_face101 Exactly. Just keep calling the BS. It is not about convincing them, as most will not be. Its about defeating them in the debate for the purposes of the bystanders. Changing the minds of others.
Exactly, I know I won't be able to change their minds nor I want to. I do it for all of those inscure 13-15 year old girls that see these things and...
I workout, I stay in shape, I eat healthy and I am not skinny and I love every inch of me
If I read "not here to play games" is usually a sign I won't like the person. Just makes them sound aggressive and combative.
Stupidity
Bullshit talk
Slow reactions ( slow mind processor)