Here are some of the main things I look for:
18 to 30 (over 30 equals no interest), hasn't done any hook ups or ONS, doesn't do any drugs (no weed either), doesn't drink alcohol or drinks very rarely and is willing to quit, doesn't smoke, no kids from past relationships, but does want some with the right person, no contact with any ex, once in a relationship won't be posting revealing and flirty pictures online for attention, doesn't try to make NEW opposite gender friends, will be very affectionate with me and she initiates the affection sometimes too, doesn't have an immoral job or one that requires her to spend multiple days away from home (traveling), no tattoos or very few (each tattoo makes her less attractive to me), will exercise every week just like I will to stay healthy and in shape for long term, is not hypocritical, is not greedy (values money and jewelry over handmade thoughtful gifts and is always concerned about something's price to determine how much she likes it), sees special occasions as being for BOTH people in the relationship.
The things that most commonly prevent me from being interested in someone are she used drugs and/or was promiscuous (bad past).
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1. Smoking, drinking, or the use of drugs.
2. Any abusive, disrespectful, or violent behaviour or the use of profanity.
3. Not being a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female.
4. Racism, feminism, or the support of abortion.
5. Tattoos and body piercings.
6. Thongs or the like.
7. Not being transparent.
8. An SO or an ex she's not over (including grieving widows, recently dumped individuals, and single mothers).
9. Anal, oral, or period sex.
10. Overweight/morbidly emaciated or shorter than, say, 5'0".
1. Boring
2. Not funny and can’t take a joke
3. Just likes talking about themselves
4. Isn’t kind to other people
5. Is a hunter 🤮🤮🤮
6. Is cocky and arrogant
7. Not a good listener
8. Uptight or snobby
9. A big cheapskate
Lying, stinginess, slander, rebelliousness, hatred, verbal humiliation, disrespect, inconsiderate behaviour, a refusal to apologize when wrong, racism, outdated political views such as endorsement for racist politicians etc…
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The deal breakers I get from women is
I don’t drive or have sport cars. I ’m white and I’m not black, Mexican, Asian or Middle Eastern and they don’t date white guys like myself and I don’t have a big package and it’s now a requirement to have big packages now for the dating scene nowadays and girls don’t like kinky guys.Extremely messy, unsanitary, close-minded, extremely judgmental people who feel the need to put others down for no good reason. Just to name a few.
If she is racist, closed minded, super rude, cruel, too much tattoos, big smoker, yellow teeth, hate people, not communicate, show less interest in me, too much piercings, no sense of humour.
If she has a dick. I hope it is at least smaller than mine
any extra weight at all
snowflakes
liberals
feministsBeing easily offended or uptight is a deal breaker.
farting in my face while I eat a turkey sandwich
Smoking drug use, excessive alcohol use.
Her being dom
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