What are some first date turn-offs and dealbreakers?

[Anonymous]

Particularly interested in what girls say on this one, since that relates specifically to my circumstance.

What should you absolutely not do or say or talk about on the first date?

[Guy13]

Nots: split tab, anything sexual whether jokes or whatever, not able to fill quiet time, no vision or plan in work, life, and personal made clear so that they have a sense of the Man.-That's like my first question post 2nd martini. I do not have time to play around...

Animal jokes in quiet times is good... that's a difficult spot and leading through it is enough for some women by itself.

Mystery not stupidity trying to be secret or not coming clean when everyone knows it or is going to guess negatively.

Never talk to girlfriends directly. Answer their questions half way to Date and then look at girlfriend to finish.-"good man" thing.

[jennifer_bloom]

If he talks about sex on the first date, break up. Also if he shows up late with no excuse. I will wait until he arrives but no second date.

[ArrowheadSW]

If they talk like everything is a conspiracy.