What is more of deal breaker when it comes to dating?

[Dsg1193]

This is a tough one 😳

Physical appearance

Having a child

Height difference

Level of education/income

Personality

Other

[fashionguy17]

When I was younger, I didn't even care about deal breakers. I just saw a cute smile and a big booty and I was hooked. As I got older and started really dating, all of that changed. So, what's a deal breaker for me now at age 29?

-Not good with money. This is HUGE. I'm big on money. I save money, I invest it and I plan out events ahead of time so I can ensure that I have enough money put away for future use. If a woman is not good with money and just spends everything she makes, it's not going to work.

-Doesn't like to workout. I'm bit on fitness. Not so much for the look, but because it's good for health! I don't like a woman who just sits around all day, eats fast food and doesn't want to ever go to the gym. That's a massive turn off.

-Not ambitious enough. I'm super ambitious. I run a few different companies of my own. I like a girl who has ambition. It's okay if she wants to work for someone else, but I think it's sexy when a girl has a passion and she pursues it!

[Torari]

Everything matters, but the biggest deal breakers one your list are
1. Physical appearance
2. Has a kid
3. Personality
4. Height differences too small

However, one you didn't list that is also important to me. She's not interested in a polygynous relationship. I'm attracted to more than one woman. I want to date more than one woman.

But you'd be surprised how common polygynous women are. I think they're even more common than polygamous women. I have 4 long term sexual partners atm and rotate a bunch of short term ones.

[Tia_Maria]

Personality.

His personality determines if I want a relationship with him or not

He may have kids, poor education, and not very attractive , but if he has the personality I look for in a potential partner , he'll become more physically attractive right before my very eyes.

He may be very attractive, have no kids, a fantastically paid salary, highly intelligent; but how on earth could I fall in love with him if he doesn't have the right personality. I would be so miserable and unhappy with him

[Anonymous]

Addiction. Done that rodeo before and never again.
None of the things on the list would be a deal breaker. I'm not sure if I'd want to help at the end of raising a child. You'd be surprised how many people in their 50s are still raising kids or even grandkids.

[Usereman]

Definitely the child for me. I don't give a flying fuck what the woman says at first. They'll swear up and down that the kid isn't your responsibility. In fact, they'll get offended you even asked, claiming you tried to undermine their parenting, but then sooner or later they slowly start trying to make it your responsibility. They want you to watch their kid, drop them off and pick them up from school, want you to bond with them, etc. Happens every time and they'll call you a douche bag when you call off the relationship cuz you see how they're trying to swindle you

[RickPen]

The results are potentially telling. Apparently the vast majority are concerned with personality, but of those who consider looks to be a deal breaker, women are over twice as likely as men to care. What does that say about the "men are visual" stereotype?

[Torari]

Its says men are fucking liers. Men "not caring" is down to insecurity, men lowering their own standards because they don't think they have a chance with attractive women.

[opnbuk59]

Deal breaker? If you both are to go on a date you say determined that she's worth it unless it's a slow week all your number 1, s are it if true and you must call up the reserves then u can see you compromising umm nah way to short hmm maybe if she wears a long coat never takes it off, or can I tolerate a few hours of non stop chatter, just saying yeah we all have had to at some point in our lives sad but true

[Anonymous]

Please note than (so far ) ZERO women have said "education or income". Zero. Any guy who dates knows that the first thing women are concerned with is how much money he makes. They are bio-programed to seek "providers". But women ALWAYS give the socially acceptable response no matter how they truly feel so none will chose that response. But probably north of 90% of women find lack of money to be their number one dealbreaker.

[Torari]

Women are hypergamous. But they are not bioprogramed to seek wealth. They are bioprogramed to seek traits that often co-relate with wealth however.

Confidence, dominance, charisma.
Caveman pussy can't see a wallet, but it can see a man with high self worth, and that usually indicates high social standing.

[DiscomfortZone]

All the listed options are important at times, especially looks. But I couldn't be with a feminazi filth or religious dirt even she looked like all fantasies combined. I'd keep wanting to beat the shit out of her and that might have come in the way of a relationship 😄

[Finchie40]

Not really having much in common , if you don’t have much to talk about pretty much be a waste of time considering you won’t have much to talk about other then yourself lol

[Guest25]

For me a deal breaker would be if you have or had a penis. I feel like I had to say that because it has become so freaking difficult to tell the difference between men and biological women.

[Regmorus]

The personality. With a right personality according to a part of what I mean by it educational level can rise, if it is needed.

[Duckysback]

Every single one of those is a deal breaker but C… depending on how much of a difference we are talking about.

[Avicenna]

That's easy- personality. And I'd append the presence of mental illness to that since it will affect interpersonal relationships so much.

[hsshannah96]

The arguments ugh the arguments

every goddamn day

[Mollynotgemma]

If there is no personality I will be unable to stay!

[SpeedVoid]

Personality. If you don't get along and have fun... you don't get along or have fun. Simple as that.

[Hazelstar]

Not looking for married, egocentric, liar, poor in communication, manipulator and one who does not respect people.

[updog45]

Looks, it may seem shallow. But I could stand being with a broke dumb idiot thats pretty

[Dchrls78104]

A rotten personality is the most off-putting for me.

[Guardian45]

Personality: Lack of compromise. Lack of trust. Poor communication. Mental illness.

[koolkal]

Her personality would have to be compatible with mine in order to even consider the other choices.

[Plitty-Tank]

If she had a terrible personality, I'd not be interested.

[LarryLawrence]

If she lies about having current other partners. I leave. PERIOD

[Moondrop]

Smoking is a big one for me.

[Reamer]

Did anyone find this tough?

[StarGayle]

Personality. If we don't get along it won't work.

[bklynbadboy1]

For me its definitely personality

[Lunatic1]

Definitely a bad personality

[Nikki1989]

Personality

[COMMODOREII]

Not for me lol

[rvarela]

Personality

[Methis]

Drug use

[Romeocuck]

bad personality

[Anonymous]

All of them