What is your biggest deal breaker when on a date?

[Anonymous]

[TacosRAwesome]

Fan boys of politicians.

Too braggy

Has weird rules.

[KAT247]

When someone is on their phone the whole time

[DaveJord]

Any sign of insecurities, shyness or evasive answers to questions. When they tell you about how their previous relationship was devastating. I mean we all have history and I am more than willing to accept that... but when they go on telling me how devastating it was "RED FLAG". I didn't used to put that much on it, but experience has taught me that these types are damaged goods and they get cold feet easy.

Had one women tell me how she used to live with her boy friend, then he cheated on her and she kicked him out. Then called her one day and jumped in her car and drove to his new girls friend house and throw fit in her front yard... because this guy hurt her so badly. I was like why would you do that? I mean if he hurt so bad, why you talking phone calls from him, and why would drive to his girlfriends house if you don't care about him anymore? She ended up going back to ex-boyfriend. Had another women tell me that day before she was going to move in with her ex-boyfriend with all her stuff in the moving truck he broke up with her, and ghost out on her and she was devastated. I asked her, if she was really over him, she swore she was... after the date we texted once or twice and she ghosted on me. Had another one tell me about how her ex-husband abused her, and that she had been in therapy for years... that didn't work out either.

When they put any conditions on relationship before you even have a relationship, when they want commitment too early, when they talk about how much they love their animals. I had one women buy a $50 dollar steak, picked at it, then at the end say she wanted a to go box so she could take it home to her son, I spent $50 and that steak and all she ate was the salad and potatoes. Constantly checking their phone, can't hold eye contact... I think I hit the main ones.

[jennifer_bloom]

Making fun of me or saying things that are mean and hurtful. I had one guy make fun of me for my lack of financial knowledge so I rejected him.

[Asker]

Right? I swear it’s like do you like me or do you not like me?

[ch15hann]

I haven’t been on many dates but here are my three biggest ones-
1. Being pretentious: there’s a fine line between nervous rambling and being pretentious. The second I spot you going on and on about your achievements and how great you are, you’re out.
2. Respect: this is the biggest for me. if you can’t even respect waiters, respect my differences/cultures/beliefs/political views/etc when sharing my life with you, or respect my decisions, you’re out.
3. Not being able to apologize: I don’t care how big your ego is, if you can’t admit even just a tiny mistake like spilling a drink, bye.

[Adam1978]

Lack of respect and not value my time and personal integrity Ie be on time, during the date I should be your top priority, not your phone or anyone you know that happens to cross our path. If you can't handle that don't date or end the date right there when something more serious happens.

[SEL195]

Was on a date with a guy from tinder who kept on talking abiut his weed business so I would say if he uses any form off drugs it is a deal breaker for me. Weed is ok if you use it once a year but i don't like it either way.

[Asker]

Oh no girl it’s 2022, you need to start looking elsewhere and not look into the direction that leads you towards men like that

[God_of_Thunder]

Rudeness

I'm certainly no saint, but if she's rude to people (waiters, etc), makes a nuisance of herself, or just generally goes out of her way to treat people like crap, then I'm gonna nope right out of there.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Rudeness.

@god_of_thunder summed it up well.

[serious]

Not only on date, even otherwise in life. I have plenty of deal breakers and that is why it is almost impossible for me to have contacts with people.

It is all limited to acquaintances.

[Gloree]

When he won't let me say a word by dominating the conversation. It tells me I'm not important. It is a huge sign.

[Asker]

Yes!! It just means he’s looking for validation and not actually there to get to know you.

[Gloree]

Exactly

[BJP21]

Not being yourself.

Going to an expensive bar (this is more for the established couple) on my tab on the first date. (I had this happen to me)

[ChattyGuy43]

Income & playing with her cellphone because she is obviously planning her escape from me and I'm boring her to death.

[FilmGuy93]

If I get anger or general resentment vibes, I will nope right on out of there

[Sparkie460]

If she does any type of drugs. She chews like a cow with her mouth open. She's checking out other guys while we're having dinner together.

[Iron_Man]

Constantly using your cell phone especially when you’re new to dating Like at the restaurant and movie theater

[AuroraBorealis20]

Why? Are you looking to date?

[Iron_Man]

@AuroraBorealis20 hell no

[Rockstarrrrr]

Either acting like a total stranger or like we're already an established couple...

[Anonymous]

When she starts asking questions to try to ascertain what my income is.

[Tina19]

If he is serious type and doesn't laugh much

[Asker]

Come on , even serious people can laugh once in a while. That guy must have thought he was of high status or something 💀

[Tina19]

I have never been with one personally but heard my friend sharing her experience with such guy she went on date with him i am into funny extrovert guys we vibe very quick

[exitseven]

spends the whole time looking at her phone.

[Shy_Steve]

Over Confidence.

[Anonymous]

Wanting me to pay.