Am I just not good enough?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I meet someone new it goes the exact same. Meet, talk for about a week, try to meet up with them, we make plans, and they never show up. Well what the fuck ever. I'm done with it all. I'm no john Stamos or whatever but I'm worth more than being ditched at the last minute.

[JackSmy]

I wish you had posted as you, and we could chat, privately! Probably some simple things that you don't know, and women just don't connect with you! I've been trying to figure them out for 35 years, and have learned a lot of things, over the years!!
Send me a PM, and let's chat! Don't be down, and think you are defective! Some on here, are just assbags, and post crap, when someone is really wanting help.

[xjtbx]

You probably aren't good enough.
People are more superficial in this age of technology, they are spoilt for choice.
Why choose you when there is 100 other dudes in their inbox.

[JackSmy]

@xjtbx Nice talk, and supportive for another guy!! Why bother posting that crap to make him feel worse?
Maybe try to post something helpful, rather than crap!!

[xjtbx]

Because its the harsh truth, why sugarcoat it?
Im speaking from personal experiences

[JackSmy]

@xjtbx It isn't a life sentence!! Maybe dude just hasn't had a good Big Brother to teach him, or a good Father/Uncle Role model! Some just don't know, because nobody has taught them, and showed them!
Dumping on him isn't going to help!!
Are you having some of your own issues, and is that why you post like this? It's an easy fix, and no need to be mad, or upset, or just be a downer for another.

[xjtbx]

Im sorry, I wasn't saying it to be nasty or criticize the asker.
I was commenting on society today.

[JackSmy]

@xjtbx text and posts are so hard to read, sometimes, because you can't see the poster's expressions and their 'smirk' for sarcasm!! No harm, no foul! I'm still learning, myself, and many often misunderstand my posts, meaning well, but sometimes are read as being mean!

[curiousme33]

Maybe do some more reflecting on why dating isn't going so well for you? What you said was very vague. I couldn't tell you whether the issue lies with you or the people you chose to date.