Why am I not good enough?

[Anonymous]

met a guy on whisper, we got along great. then things turned sexual.
found out he grew up with my sister (doesn't talk to her anymore) and knows my family.
I really grew feelings for him, he subbed to my OF (which is now deleted) I sent him nudes. he kept them. I got upset, because of this and blocked him. I re-download whisper and tried reaching out but he isn't responding but responds to my posts. I really miss him. found out he was gonna ask me out to dinner, and my heart broke more. And I think he took someone else. we've been talking for like 5 months at the least. I never. I never get approached, this would've been my first date in over 2 years. I'll never find anyone. I've legit been crying all day over it. I went to therapy and came back and hit a low mood.

[Anonymous]

Because you’re letting men define your worth. If you keep telling yourself that you’re not good enough whenever shit doesn’t work out with a guy, then how will you ever get out of your depression? I think you’d do well to make some healthy changes in your life, like speaking positive affirmations to yourself rather than beating yourself down like this. Sorry that situation w/ the guy didn’t work out, but hearing how you talk just shows that you were NOT ready for a relationship. Why? Because if you can’t love yourself then how the hell are you gonna love anyone else? The last thing you need is to get into a relationship, loving him more than yourself and becoming codependent. Like look at how crushed you are and there wasn’t even a relationship between you two. It’s not healthy whatsoever. Focus on bettering yourself and let a relationship find you when the time is RIGHT.

[Ironic_Method]

To be fair... Whisper is kind of a cesspool. Remember that most people just are compatible and itll take a few tries to find the person that really meshes with you.