Why aren't I good enough?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy that told me he was marriage minded and that he saw me as a potential wife or serious relationship.

It was all lies. I ended up letting myself get used for sex for 3 years. I kept thinking things would change. Eventually, he started a new relationship with a younger more attractive and successful woman. On social media they appear so happy and in love.

Why did he only see me as a ugly whore but puts her on a pedal stool?

I feel like being average or below average looking with no real family or friends is going to cause me to die alone. Or, accept that I am only whore material.

I don't have overly high standards, I think my standards are reasonable. Yet, even a guy I went on a date with only saw me as a whore because he asked me back to his place on the 1st date. I feel so ugly and useless.

What can I do to be more likable?

[Sixgunsound]

The quicker you give it up the quicker your chance at a serious relationship is gone. Tens of thousands of years of evolutionary biology have programmed men to hit it and quit it. He overcame the quit it instinct because you kept letting him hit it, but the instant the incentive was out of the involvement he was out the door. Feminists have been lying to women that they can have sex like men for decades now, which really only benefits men who walk out the door with no commitment. Thanks feminism.

[Iron_Man]

Never give it up no matter what they tell you until you’re married