

I have no idea actually, but it has to be said anyways that so many people confuse the terms “gender” and “sex” to be the exact same thing and don’t know enough about these things to know what is technically real (as in the “real” person exists, along with using their current gender).
It’s usually pretty understandable why some of them will say no to this, but those who say no in the most transphobic (and don’t forget, immature and uneducated) way are clearly not letting themselves see from the other side of things and aren’t looking up things about it either from valid sources.
lol No, I'm straight: My interests are in a natural-born, vaginated female.
At this point in time I don't think so. I really like the fact of the male body part and with a trans man I would assume that would be different. I like the masculine vibe of a man even if he's not an overly masculine man. Maybe I'm to set in my ways to wrap my head around it. God bless the people who have the flexibility to be a good partner to a trans man or woman.
I would consider it but not usually
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes. I am talking to a Trans Woman online. I'd consider it. BUt she would have to be drop dead beautiful and very feminine.
ok, i dunno how u can look past those eyes tho and still that "she" is a man at heart lol
@BigPhatHairycrap "At heart"? Umm most of the difference between male and female hearts is related to what hormones they have so after hormone replacement therapy a M2F transexual would have more of a "female heart". If you mean in her thoughts, well no the root cause of gender dysphoria is that the neurological development of the individual is opposite of the sex that their chromosomes indicate.
@BlckGrl And just because you adopt a child doesn't mean that they're actually your child ;)
@BlckGrl What, you think adoption is crazy because the adopted child isn't their "parents" real (genetic) child?
@BlckGrl And I have some basic knowledge, sexual attraction is determined by physical appearance; people don't jerk off to karyotypes.
@Apope16 Don't let ignorant comments influence you; if that trans-woman is worth your time, ignore the ignorance of other people.
@ComradeCarabao I want a child. And I want a wife. I probably wouldn't marry a trans woman. I like pussy not dick. But the question is would I date one or go on a date? Sure. Maybe like friends with benefits or for fun.
@Apope16 You're still fairly young, so I understand that a woman who can't have children may be a problem for you. As far as the genitalia issue goes, a lot of trans-women have had "bottom surgery."
@ComradeCarabao Yes. that would be preferred for me. I would rather have the bottom surgery. But I still wouldn't marry one that has had the surgery. just not my thing.
Now to the chic who said its men playing dress up. I guess what I would say is I wouldn't date a flat chested transsexual woman. I am a boob guy. So I would only date one that is like 10 out of 10. So it would be a trans woman who has amazing boobs and a gorgeous face and great style. But there's no way I am sticking my butt out and having anything go inside me. None
@Giselleglow No, they aren't men at all; trans-women are women! When they get on hormones, they often have several times more estrogen in their bodies than the average cis-woman does. They're not only women, they're the most feminine women.
@ComradeCarabao hahhaha just because you inject yourself you’re a woman now? Guess what? Women who are born women don’t need to do that injecting shit. And do you know why? Because we are BORN with it ;)
And what makes a woman a woman are the other aspects as well such as menstruation and pregnancy. Can’t no bloody trans woman fake that natural shit.
@Giselleglow You're just a typical jealous/insecure cis-woman. There's a reason why more and more heterosexual men are choosing trans-women; you might as well get used to it. 😂
@ComradeCarabao ew you’re really so disgusting being attracted to men who pretend to be woman. Get some psych help you fucking moron.
You’re probably one of those dudes who had their first trans experience in Thailand or something
@Giselleglow I think women dont like trans women because they are insecure and intimidated by competition. I think women dont like bisexual men because they are... wait for it... insecure and intimidated by competition.
As for whether I am attracted to men. No i am not. I am attracted to women. I am attracted to feminine nature. I would never have sex with a man. I am not attracted to masculiinity. It would have to be a woman that is so feminine that she passes as a woman and you wouldn't even know she has a dick.
But let me be clear. I am open to dating a trans woman. But I date women. I love women and I want sex with wonderful pussy. I am not into men at all. But the question is asking a hypotheticla of "would I" do this. The answer is yet. It isn't a question of "do you prefer" or do you like trans women over regular women. The answer to that is no. I like WOMEN. and anything as close to FEMININE as possible.
@Apope16 Yes, a lot of cis-women see trans-women as competition; not all of them do, though. There are some cis-women who are really accepting of trans-women being women.
@Giselleglow I've never been to Thailand, but those (Thai) trans-women are very beautiful/feminine.
They aren't faking anything; trans-women are a different type of women, and if anything, cis-women should be learning from them. Just look at how much influence trans-women have in the beauty/makeup community online.
@ComradeCarabao Do you realise they’re men? Who were born with a penis.. who have the male chromosomes.. who have testosterone? They’re men
@Giselleglow You're making no valid points, but you are showing yourself to be very insecure. 😂
@BlckGrl It's almost exclusively heterosexual men who date trans-women. What identity (of mine) am I trying to lift up by calling you a cis-woman? You make no sense.
@BlckGrl You definitely see trans-women as competition, and that's the primary reason you're so upset about transgender issues.
@BlckGrl To claim that chromosomes are the most important factor in biology (above hormones and everything else) is bad biological science. On top of that, this is an issue where we should (mostly) be applying social science.
@BlckGrl Bottom surgery/SRS is not just tied to one method; there are even post-op trans-women who self-lubricate, thanks to new technology. About the only thing a post-op trans-woman's vagina doesn't do is bleed around "that time of the month." It's funny that you say their bottom surgery is just for show, since a trans-woman's vagina is much tighter (and stays that way) than a cis-woman's. In fact, they (trans-women) have to dilate it everyday, unless they've had a certain amount of intercourse that day.
@BlckGrl I'm not gay at all. I can assure you that the men you date would (if they haven't already) sleep with a trans-woman; they just won't date a trans-woman because they don't feel like being called "gay" by ignorant people.
@BlckGrl I'm not sure what point you're trying to make about your "wide" vagina. 😂
@BlckGrl None that you know of.. Trust me, if they thought they could sleep with (in secret) a trans-woman like Nikita Dragun or Sidney Starr, they'd do it.
@BlckGrl It IS a fact that a trans-woman's vagina is tighter, and some of them do self-lubricate; it depends on which SRS procedure they had done. Look it up...
@BlckGrl Maybe she (I think I know who you're talking about) said that, but I can tell you I've never said such a thing.
@BlckGrl You haven't debunked anything; you're so mad that you can't even BS your way through this debate. 😂
@BlckGrl I doubt you and I will ever agree on this topic, so we should just "agree to disagree." I don't feel like arguing for hours.
@BlckGrl This whole thing started with someone else calling trans-women "men," and I of course, countered them with facts. Have a nice evening.
@BlckGrl Send whatever links you wish, but I can validate everything I say with recent and reputable sources. Anything from a right-wing think tank, I won't even look at.
@BlckGrl
"My natural born identity is a woman xx chromosomes that what's makes me female."
So if a guy dated a F2M transexual would he still be straight?
@BlckGrl Yeah, it is the equivalent. If a guy dating a M2F transexual makes them gay because they're "biologically male" then a guy would still be straight if he dated a F2M transexual because they're "biologically female".
@BlckGrl
Well, no biology is actually quite complicated:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kT0HJkr1jj4&t=45s
But if trans men are really women then a guy would be straight even if he dated a trans man.
@Giselleglow Aww someone's jealous that they have better fashion sense than your insecure ass.
@Ad_Quid_Orator Transphobic cis-women like her are jealous, insecure, and hard to deal with. They definitely hate all the attention that trans-women are starting to get from heterosexual men.
@ComradeCarabao There’s NOTHING heterosexual about you lot. You’re GAY! The fact that you keep throwing the word “heterosexual” around proves how insecure YOU ARE in your sexuality. Why does it take me, a stranger from the internet, to point out to you that YOU’RE GAY! 😂
@Giselleglow Just because most guys would prefer a M2F transexual over you doesn't make them gay; quit making excuses XD
@Ad_Quid_Orator Have you seen me? 😂
Also, all the other responses are something along the lines of “No I wouldn’t, because I’m not gay!”. That’s the response of a HETEROSEXUAL male when asked if they would take a transgender. Your response tells me that you’re homosexual and that’s okay.
@Ad_Quid_Orator I’m too pretty to be seen by confused homosexual dummies like you.
@Giselleglow What, you got hit on by gay guys because they confused you for a dude? Well now we can see you're projecting your insecurities on transexuals.
Ad_Quid_Orator Could you imagine having to (in a relationship) put up with someone like her? She's jealous, insecure, and just looking for reasons to justify being this upset. One of the funniest things about this whole situation is that @JackSmy (who tried to white knight/simp for her) was actually in my messages about a month ago, talking about how much he enjoys transgender porn. 😂 That's a perfect example of someone getting on here and lying; most of the dudes saying they wouldn't date a trans-woman are just scared to admit their (perfectly normal) attraction.
Not a chance.
I dated a transgender girl when she identified as a guy. Huge mistake, she was super toxic and always told me how jealous she was of me and kept saying how she was gonna be hotter than me and how she'd get more guys and it made me feel uncomfortable. She also can't stop talking about me behind my back and was always super rude, saying I looked like an 8 year old. It made me so uncomfortable. Though I realize not all trans people are like this, I'd much rather date someone not trans.
I'm a bisexual female by the way, so I'm definitely into girls. Just wasn't my thing tbh.
It's tough... I'd say no but they are becoming much more passable these days. I'd say for experience, I might do one date. Now we are talking, first of all I know they are trans and second it's only a date and nothing more but most importantly they pass very well, I don't want to be able to tell the difference. It would be at least interesting...
No. It's just not my thing personally. I may consider a fling for the experience at best but that's honestly it. And even then, they'd have to be transitioning to a woman and not the other direction.
Think what you will of me but it's still my own opinion and preference. I won't date humans that are masculine looking.
No chance in hell.
I can deal with women who have physical disabilities or unusual medical needs, but this is going extremely far down the rabbit hole of the psychologically disturbed, and having an extremely unstable roommate in the past has left me adamantly against dating anyone in that category. Not to mention in this specific case, it grosses me out.
like, i would definitely go out to dinner and go home for a night of bingeing on anime and heavy dissociatives with trans youtuber, contrapoints. that's a date, right? lol. that's my idea of a date.
https://www.youtube.com/user/ContraPoints
When asked a question like this, typical answer is no. In reality though, my thoughts on this topic are definitely different. On social media people see only apperance and if I never encountered anyone that is transgender beforehand I probably would be quick to judge based on the sole factor of the term "transgender". Now if I were to encounter someone and if I feel like a real connection with this person was made and come to find out that this person is trans, although I have not met anyone that is transgender beforehand i now base my decision on the sole factor of " real human contact" based on it how strong the connection between us is. I really would be open to the question but in reality though. ( Human contact based )
@Kishao I agree with everything you said, and the human contact, and knowing the person, as a person thing, but how would it work? Isn't that what you almost asked?
People can be so shallow, and hateful, about any little thing! How often do you really find a True Companion, and someone you trust, and think you could love! But then, what if?
Is that a measure of us, and the relationship, and our own fears and anxieties with social norms?
If you really have feelings, love, before knowing, does it really change anything about how you feel about them, when you finally know that they are?
depending on how well they transition... I'd think about it. Some do it well jus like the ones in those pictures whilst others...
I don't know, i think it freak me out at first but if that person acted and looked 100% like man may be attracted to them but at the same time i imagine someone whose trans must have a lot of emotional baggage and insecurities that don't just go away after transition and i don't think im the right person to take that on in my life.
No, I wouldn’t. I’m of the belief that your sex is fixed at birth and therefore would feel like I was dating another woman. Since I’m completely straight that doesn’t appeal to me.
I'll pass, thank you :)
for some reason, i thought your answer would be different. are you speaking specifically of MtF, FtM, or either?
@jemismyname
I am not saying that I would not like them as a friend, the question was about dating and I have a particular taste in who I date is all.
oh, yeah i guess i just meant, "trans" can mean quite a few things transvestite, transsexual, drag queen (who dresses up as performance art)... etc... i was just curious also if you meant male to female or female to male trans, specifically. (or both)
Imagine having sex with a girl who was once a man. Like I won’t be able to get over the fact that I’m actually banging my own sex b/c that person was once a man. I don’t have anything against these people, You should always do what makes you happy and be your self.
No. I like men for what makes them men. It’s not me being insensitive or discriminatory- I’m just not attracted to people who aren’t fully man
Maybe i have been going threw a thing recently trying to figure out if am pan since i find passable trans girls hot
I have no idea if I would or not. I not sure if I ever meet one. See I live in a very remote area. My nearest neighbors are 8 miles away. So I rarely see other humans
Absolutely not.. If im dating i want the person im with to be a biological, genetically, female. Not someone that chose to take drugs and mutilate their bodies. Two reasons.. Im not gay.. and i want children. you cannot do that with a trans person.
No I wouldn't. Nothing against trans people they are free to do what they want, I'm just not interested.
No, I wouldn't. It would make me uncomfortable and it would be strange.
No, I prefer real men.
Dont @ me there is a big difference and you can't change my mind.
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