I have no idea actually, but it has to be said anyways that so many people confuse the terms “gender” and “sex” to be the exact same thing and don’t know enough about these things to know what is technically real (as in the “real” person exists, along with using their current gender).
It’s usually pretty understandable why some of them will say no to this, but those who say no in the most transphobic (and don’t forget, immature and uneducated) way are clearly not letting themselves see from the other side of things and aren’t looking up things about it either from valid sources.
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lol No, I'm straight: My interests are in a natural-born, vaginated female.
At this point in time I don't think so. I really like the fact of the male body part and with a trans man I would assume that would be different. I like the masculine vibe of a man even if he's not an overly masculine man. Maybe I'm to set in my ways to wrap my head around it. God bless the people who have the flexibility to be a good partner to a trans man or woman.
I would consider it but not usually
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Yes. I am talking to a Trans Woman online. I'd consider it. BUt she would have to be drop dead beautiful and very feminine.
It's tough... I'd say no but they are becoming much more passable these days. I'd say for experience, I might do one date. Now we are talking, first of all I know they are trans and second it's only a date and nothing more but most importantly they pass very well, I don't want to be able to tell the difference. It would be at least interesting...
I dated a transgender girl when she identified as a guy. Huge mistake, she was super toxic and always told me how jealous she was of me and kept saying how she was gonna be hotter than me and how she'd get more guys and it made me feel uncomfortable. She also can't stop talking about me behind my back and was always super rude, saying I looked like an 8 year old. It made me so uncomfortable. Though I realize not all trans people are like this, I'd much rather date someone not trans.
I'm a bisexual female by the way, so I'm definitely into girls. Just wasn't my thing tbh.When asked a question like this, typical answer is no. In reality though, my thoughts on this topic are definitely different. On social media people see only apperance and if I never encountered anyone that is transgender beforehand I probably would be quick to judge based on the sole factor of the term "transgender". Now if I were to encounter someone and if I feel like a real connection with this person was made and come to find out that this person is trans, although I have not met anyone that is transgender beforehand i now base my decision on the sole factor of " real human contact" based on it how strong the connection between us is. I really would be open to the question but in reality though. ( Human contact based )
I don't know, i think it freak me out at first but if that person acted and looked 100% like man may be attracted to them but at the same time i imagine someone whose trans must have a lot of emotional baggage and insecurities that don't just go away after transition and i don't think im the right person to take that on in my life.
No. It's just not my thing personally. I may consider a fling for the experience at best but that's honestly it. And even then, they'd have to be transitioning to a woman and not the other direction.
Think what you will of me but it's still my own opinion and preference. I won't date humans that are masculine looking.No chance in hell.
I can deal with women who have physical disabilities or unusual medical needs, but this is going extremely far down the rabbit hole of the psychologically disturbed, and having an extremely unstable roommate in the past has left me adamantly against dating anyone in that category. Not to mention in this specific case, it grosses me out.like, i would definitely go out to dinner and go home for a night of bingeing on anime and heavy dissociatives with trans youtuber, contrapoints. that's a date, right? lol. that's my idea of a date.
https://www.youtube.com/user/ContraPointsNo, I wouldn’t. I’m of the belief that your sex is fixed at birth and therefore would feel like I was dating another woman. Since I’m completely straight that doesn’t appeal to me.
Absolutely not.. If im dating i want the person im with to be a biological, genetically, female. Not someone that chose to take drugs and mutilate their bodies. Two reasons.. Im not gay.. and i want children. you cannot do that with a trans person.
I'll pass, thank you :)
No, they are not a man or a woman. They are manufactured facsimile of what nature made in our species. I think people should be able to live their lives as they please. That said when it invloves me and my choices I dont find transwomen \ men attractive or desirable as a potential spouse.
befriend one sure.
however at this point in my life. considering my luck with girls over the years. also the fact that I don't really care if I have future kids or not. then I might date one.
really depends on there personality. also when did they started to trans and how far along they are. hopefully there post op or plan to go post op in the future.- s
No, I wouldn't. It would make me uncomfortable and it would be strange.
No, I prefer real men.
Dont @ me there is a big difference and you can't change my mind.Bah hahah No.
As a straight male, my interest is PUSSY... actual pussy, not a penis pushed inside the body or a cock.
Just like I am not interest in dating someone with down syndrome or dating someone with cerebral palsy, or a dude, or a animal, or child...
I have no issues with these things as individuals but have zero sexual interest in them.No, thank you. If you look like a man, you better have a real working penis. If you look like a woman, you better have a real working vagina. Or else, no thank you, I'll pass on that.
Sure, I would. I'm attracted to women, & she's a woman, so as long as I find her attractive (which is true of any woman), I'd date her. Attraction, for me, is frequently more cerebral - so, if she's smart, that's a definite bonus.
No way. I like men who were born male and identity as male.
Would I date a mentally ill man who thinks he is a she? No, but I'd try to get him the help he needs.
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