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It’s usually pretty understandable why some of them will say no to this, but those who say no in the most transphobic (and don’t forget, immature and uneducated) way are clearly not letting themselves see from the other side of things and aren’t looking up things about it either from valid sources.
lol No, I'm straight: My interests are in a natural-born, vaginated female.
At this point in time I don't think so. I really like the fact of the male body part and with a trans man I would assume that would be different. I like the masculine vibe of a man even if he's not an overly masculine man. Maybe I'm to set in my ways to wrap my head around it. God bless the people who have the flexibility to be a good partner to a trans man or woman.
I would consider it but not usually
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Yes. I am talking to a Trans Woman online. I'd consider it. BUt she would have to be drop dead beautiful and very feminine.
he would have to be u mean
ok, i dunno how u can look past those eyes tho and still that "she" is a man at heart lol
those masculine eyes of hers lol
@BigPhatHairycrap "At heart"? Umm most of the difference between male and female hearts is related to what hormones they have so after hormone replacement therapy a M2F transexual would have more of a "female heart". If you mean in her thoughts, well no the root cause of gender dysphoria is that the neurological development of the individual is opposite of the sex that their chromosomes indicate.
@ComradeCarabao THEY’RE MEN THAT ARE PLAYING DRESS UP!!!
@ComradeCarabao Yes. that would be preferred for me. I would rather have the bottom surgery. But I still wouldn't marry one that has had the surgery. just not my thing.
Now to the chic who said its men playing dress up. I guess what I would say is I wouldn't date a flat chested transsexual woman. I am a boob guy. So I would only date one that is like 10 out of 10. So it would be a trans woman who has amazing boobs and a gorgeous face and great style. But there's no way I am sticking my butt out and having anything go inside me. None
@Giselleglow No, they aren't men at all; trans-women are women! When they get on hormones, they often have several times more estrogen in their bodies than the average cis-woman does. They're not only women, they're the most feminine women.
@ComradeCarabao hahhaha just because you inject yourself you’re a woman now? Guess what? Women who are born women don’t need to do that injecting shit. And do you know why? Because we are BORN with it ;)
And what makes a woman a woman are the other aspects as well such as menstruation and pregnancy. Can’t no bloody trans woman fake that natural shit.
@Giselleglow You're just a typical jealous/insecure cis-woman. There's a reason why more and more heterosexual men are choosing trans-women; you might as well get used to it. 😂
@ComradeCarabao ew you’re really so disgusting being attracted to men who pretend to be woman. Get some psych help you fucking moron.
@Giselleglow Attracted to men? I'm attracted to the WOMEN outshining you.
@ComradeCarabao You’re closeted.
@Giselleglow If I wanted a man, I could get one; I am NOT into men.
@ComradeCarabao that’s the irony 😂 you’re homosexual
You’re probably one of those dudes who had their first trans experience in Thailand or something
@Giselleglow I think women dont like trans women because they are insecure and intimidated by competition. I think women dont like bisexual men because they are... wait for it... insecure and intimidated by competition.
As for whether I am attracted to men. No i am not. I am attracted to women. I am attracted to feminine nature. I would never have sex with a man. I am not attracted to masculiinity. It would have to be a woman that is so feminine that she passes as a woman and you wouldn't even know she has a dick.
But let me be clear. I am open to dating a trans woman. But I date women. I love women and I want sex with wonderful pussy. I am not into men at all. But the question is asking a hypotheticla of "would I" do this. The answer is yet. It isn't a question of "do you prefer" or do you like trans women over regular women. The answer to that is no. I like WOMEN. and anything as close to FEMININE as possible.
@Giselleglow I've never been to Thailand, but those (Thai) trans-women are very beautiful/feminine.
@ComradeCarabao Can’t fake nature.
They aren't faking anything; trans-women are a different type of women, and if anything, cis-women should be learning from them. Just look at how much influence trans-women have in the beauty/makeup community online.
@ComradeCarabao Do you realise they’re men? Who were born with a penis.. who have the male chromosomes.. who have testosterone? They’re men
@Giselleglow You're making no valid points, but you are showing yourself to be very insecure. 😂
@BlckGrl Bottom surgery/SRS is not just tied to one method; there are even post-op trans-women who self-lubricate, thanks to new technology. About the only thing a post-op trans-woman's vagina doesn't do is bleed around "that time of the month." It's funny that you say their bottom surgery is just for show, since a trans-woman's vagina is much tighter (and stays that way) than a cis-woman's. In fact, they (trans-women) have to dilate it everyday, unless they've had a certain amount of intercourse that day.
@Ad_Quid_Orator Transphobes always hate that question. haha
@BlckGrl
Well, no biology is actually quite complicated:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kT0HJkr1jj4&t=45s
But if trans men are really women then a guy would be straight even if he dated a trans man.
@Ad_Quid_Orator another moron who is into men playing dress up 😂
@Giselleglow Aww someone's jealous that they have better fashion sense than your insecure ass.
@Ad_Quid_Orator Transphobic cis-women like her are jealous, insecure, and hard to deal with. They definitely hate all the attention that trans-women are starting to get from heterosexual men.
@ComradeCarabao There’s NOTHING heterosexual about you lot. You’re GAY! The fact that you keep throwing the word “heterosexual” around proves how insecure YOU ARE in your sexuality. Why does it take me, a stranger from the internet, to point out to you that YOU’RE GAY! 😂
@Giselleglow Because karyotypes are what people are attracted to LMAO
@Ad_Quid_Orator Who the fuck are you? Gay boy!
@Ad_Quid_Orator And mentally you’re not quite there.
@Giselleglow Just because most guys would prefer a M2F transexual over you doesn't make them gay; quit making excuses XD
@Ad_Quid_Orator Have you seen me? 😂
Also, all the other responses are something along the lines of “No I wouldn’t, because I’m not gay!”. That’s the response of a HETEROSEXUAL male when asked if they would take a transgender. Your response tells me that you’re homosexual and that’s okay.
@Giselleglow Nope, you're too insecure to show your face.
@Ad_Quid_Orator I’m too pretty to be seen by confused homosexual dummies like you.
@Giselleglow What, you got hit on by gay guys because they confused you for a dude? Well now we can see you're projecting your insecurities on transexuals.
Ad_Quid_Orator Could you imagine having to (in a relationship) put up with someone like her? She's jealous, insecure, and just looking for reasons to justify being this upset. One of the funniest things about this whole situation is that @JackSmy (who tried to white knight/simp for her) was actually in my messages about a month ago, talking about how much he enjoys transgender porn. 😂 That's a perfect example of someone getting on here and lying; most of the dudes saying they wouldn't date a trans-woman are just scared to admit their (perfectly normal) attraction.
@ComradeCarabao You disgust me 🤮
@Giselleglow You're all about the drama and being annoying.
Bruh, this thread long. Like really long.
It's tough... I'd say no but they are becoming much more passable these days. I'd say for experience, I might do one date. Now we are talking, first of all I know they are trans and second it's only a date and nothing more but most importantly they pass very well, I don't want to be able to tell the difference. It would be at least interesting...

That blonde is really good looking.
I dated a transgender girl when she identified as a guy. Huge mistake, she was super toxic and always told me how jealous she was of me and kept saying how she was gonna be hotter than me and how she'd get more guys and it made me feel uncomfortable. She also can't stop talking about me behind my back and was always super rude, saying I looked like an 8 year old. It made me so uncomfortable. Though I realize not all trans people are like this, I'd much rather date someone not trans.
I'm a bisexual female by the way, so I'm definitely into girls. Just wasn't my thing tbh.
When asked a question like this, typical answer is no. In reality though, my thoughts on this topic are definitely different. On social media people see only apperance and if I never encountered anyone that is transgender beforehand I probably would be quick to judge based on the sole factor of the term "transgender". Now if I were to encounter someone and if I feel like a real connection with this person was made and come to find out that this person is trans, although I have not met anyone that is transgender beforehand i now base my decision on the sole factor of " real human contact" based on it how strong the connection between us is. I really would be open to the question but in reality though. ( Human contact based )
@Kishao I agree with everything you said, and the human contact, and knowing the person, as a person thing, but how would it work? Isn't that what you almost asked?
People can be so shallow, and hateful, about any little thing! How often do you really find a True Companion, and someone you trust, and think you could love! But then, what if?
Is that a measure of us, and the relationship, and our own fears and anxieties with social norms?
If you really have feelings, love, before knowing, does it really change anything about how you feel about them, when you finally know that they are?
I don't know, i think it freak me out at first but if that person acted and looked 100% like man may be attracted to them but at the same time i imagine someone whose trans must have a lot of emotional baggage and insecurities that don't just go away after transition and i don't think im the right person to take that on in my life.
No. It's just not my thing personally. I may consider a fling for the experience at best but that's honestly it. And even then, they'd have to be transitioning to a woman and not the other direction.
Think what you will of me but it's still my own opinion and preference. I won't date humans that are masculine looking.
No chance in hell.
I can deal with women who have physical disabilities or unusual medical needs, but this is going extremely far down the rabbit hole of the psychologically disturbed, and having an extremely unstable roommate in the past has left me adamantly against dating anyone in that category. Not to mention in this specific case, it grosses me out.
like, i would definitely go out to dinner and go home for a night of bingeing on anime and heavy dissociatives with trans youtuber, contrapoints. that's a date, right? lol. that's my idea of a date.
https://www.youtube.com/user/ContraPoints
No, I wouldn’t. I’m of the belief that your sex is fixed at birth and therefore would feel like I was dating another woman. Since I’m completely straight that doesn’t appeal to me.
Absolutely not.. If im dating i want the person im with to be a biological, genetically, female. Not someone that chose to take drugs and mutilate their bodies. Two reasons.. Im not gay.. and i want children. you cannot do that with a trans person.
I'll pass, thank you :)
for some reason, i thought your answer would be different. are you speaking specifically of MtF, FtM, or either?
@jemismyname
I am not saying that I would not like them as a friend, the question was about dating and I have a particular taste in who I date is all.
oh, yeah i guess i just meant, "trans" can mean quite a few things transvestite, transsexual, drag queen (who dresses up as performance art)... etc... i was just curious also if you meant male to female or female to male trans, specifically. (or both)
No, they are not a man or a woman. They are manufactured facsimile of what nature made in our species. I think people should be able to live their lives as they please. That said when it invloves me and my choices I dont find transwomen \ men attractive or desirable as a potential spouse.
befriend one sure.
however at this point in my life. considering my luck with girls over the years. also the fact that I don't really care if I have future kids or not. then I might date one.
really depends on there personality. also when did they started to trans and how far along they are. hopefully there post op or plan to go post op in the future.
No, I wouldn't. It would make me uncomfortable and it would be strange.
No, I prefer real men.
Dont @ me there is a big difference and you can't change my mind.
So would you date this guy?
www.boredpanda.com/.../
That's trans and or drag. Clearly said I wouldn't so...💁🏼♀️
😂i love how you said "aht aht aht, i said what i said"😂😂
Well isn't "he" still a "real man" (I mean if he's not a "real woman").
Considering real men dont pretend to be women, he needs psychological help
Would I date a mentally ill man who thinks he is a she? No, but I'd try to get him the help he needs.
Bah hahah No.
As a straight male, my interest is PUSSY... actual pussy, not a penis pushed inside the body or a cock.
Just like I am not interest in dating someone with down syndrome or dating someone with cerebral palsy, or a dude, or a animal, or child...
I have no issues with these things as individuals but have zero sexual interest in them.
It will snow storm in hell 1 millions over before I ever get involved with a homosexual or tranny.
No, thank you. If you look like a man, you better have a real working penis. If you look like a woman, you better have a real working vagina. Or else, no thank you, I'll pass on that.
Sure, I would. I'm attracted to women, & she's a woman, so as long as I find her attractive (which is true of any woman), I'd date her. Attraction, for me, is frequently more cerebral - so, if she's smart, that's a definite bonus.
No way. I like men who were born male and identity as male.
I wouldn’t have an issue with it but I‘m not sure how well it would work out in the long run considering I want to have kids with my future spouse.
No real women only, I don’t care how good you make yourself look. Sorry i only want women that have the tools to have kids
depending on how well they transition... I'd think about it. Some do it well jus like the ones in those pictures whilst others...
eh u know what fuck it nvm
I only date women, so no. 'Trans' women are really men and 'Trans' men are not real women. either they are born as so.
So would you date a F2M transexual?
Yes I would especially when you had fell in love with that person prior to their change. Because you are suppose to love them for who they are not who they look like. You have to remember why you fell in love with them to start with... That's my opinion anyways 😉
While I respect the other person choice. I don't think I can date a trans person. For me it just feels wrong in the same way I won't date someone I'm not attracted to
Maybe.
I wouldn't date the guy in the first pic that girl... damn
*but that girl
Theyre not the same as natural men and women so unless you like that difference or are gay you won't be interested in them
No. Why date a transgender when I can just date a real woman?
damn u got a point lmao
So would you date this lovely lady?
www.boredpanda.com/.../
@Ad_Quid_Orator Assuming that I knew she was going to switch her lifestyle to that of a 'man', absolutely not.
Well if M2F transexuals are fake women, then F2M transexuals would be real women ;)
@Ad_Quid_Orator Well, obviously? A F2M will always have female biology, whether you accept that or not.
Yep, I guess I should also accept that my adopted cousins aren't my cousins because biologically, they aren't the children of my aunt and uncle.
@Ad_Quid_Orator Biologically, no. Legally, yes.
And in terms of my relationship with them: yes.
to me we are becoming insects and a plague on the world. the men will breed out and all will be left is women. but we don't have dimorphism
@VIVANT asexual reproduction
https://www.nature.com/articles/news991223-1
I don't think so. I know it's bad, but transmen always have the surgery lines to remove breast tissue and for me it's kind of an unattractive look :/
No, I like women, not men who say they're women. Sorry, not sorry.
Not a chance.
That's disgusting. Never in my life will I touch a thing like that.
Since I'm not attracted to men, I wouldn't date a trans-man, but I LOVE trans-women. In this day and age, trans-women are usually hyperfeminine and sexy; unfortunately, cis-women seem to have lost a lot of their femininity.
They’re “hyper feminine” because they’re overcompensating, dumbass.
And don’t you dare call us “cis women”, we’re the ONLY real women.
@Giselleglow Overcompensating for what? While there are exceptions, most cis-women aren't very feminine at all anymore. Generally speaking, cis-women have become quite masculinized.
You sound quite bitter about it
@Giselleglow About what?
About “women these day are quite masculine actually” lol as though women owe anybody “femininity” to begin with.
@Giselleglow I never said they owe anything; if they aren't interested in being feminine and (at least) taking care of themselves, that's their decision. However, most men DO NOT like it, and the average cis-hetero relationship today is suffering for it.
@JackSmy 1) Cis just means you're not trans, nothing more. 2) The word came into being for practical reasons, but only certain situations call for its use. https://www.dictionary.com/e/gender-sexuality/cis/
@comradecarabao I KNOW what it means, and where it comes from! I find it PERSONALLY OFFENSIVE, like "N-Word" for some!! Don't call me that, and put some BULLSHIT label on me because someone else needs to clarify their orientation! Mine has not changed, and I don't need a FUCKED UP label!!
@JackSmy I know! It’s the most offensive thing to be called a “cis”, when you KNOW there’s only MAN and WOMAN. No fucking transgender shit now coming up with terms that justify their delusions.
@JackSmy If you think a scientific term to differentiate cis and trans people is equivalent to the "N-word," you need help. 🙄
Hahahha he’s the one that needs help? Delusion piece of garbage you are!
GiselleGlow I'm not the one pretending like ignorant beliefs from the 1950s matter.
@comradecarabao It is NOT a 'scientific' word, and I have a Biology degree, so I kind of know it is a sociological hijacking of a "science' term, to make the 'term' have more credibility!
I stated a personal opinion, and personal preference, and you somehow seem to need to ATTACK ME, PERSONALLY, because I disagree with your ideas? You, sir, are the one that needs 'help' and learn how to discuss, and talk with others, and disagree in an agreeable way!
Why is it that when people disagree, here, so many just make PERSONAL attacks against the other, for simply disagreeing!
@comradecarabao You sound ignorant as hell and clearly lack a lot of maturity.
@JackSmy You have no biology degree; you just told me the word cisgender isn't scientific, and someone with any real knowledge of science (biology included) would know there are various forms of science -- not just "biology." If you feel "personally attacked," that's your problem.
@Giselleglow You need a hobby or something. 😂
@comradecarabao OK, I have tried to be nice. Read what I actually wrote, d-bag, and see that what you are saying isn't at all what I posted! It is idiots, like you, that don't read what people write, and just assume, and then interpret, with your feeble little 'mind' and pretend you know something! Laughing at your ignorance, you moron! You need more than a hobby: YOU need SCHOOL, and EDUCATION!!
@JackSmy He needs psych help that moron! His mind is filled up with all sorts of delusions.
@JackSmy You're "triggered" over nothing; imagine that, a right-wing "snowflake." Seriously, you started insulting me as (I guess) a way to white knight/simp for the attention of @Giselleglow 👎🏻
@comradecarabao We’re calling you out on your delusions. You can’t possibly be of sane mind when you’re the one throwing around terms like “cis woman” 😂
Absolutely not. I'm straight, I wouldn't date anyone of the same sex, or a girl barely looking like a dude.
Imagine having sex with a girl who was once a man. Like I won’t be able to get over the fact that I’m actually banging my own sex b/c that person was once a man. I don’t have anything against these people, You should always do what makes you happy and be your self.
And degrade myself to a level worse than that of the cesspit? Most certainly not!!
hey. dude, nobody said you have to have the same the same opinion as transgender people when it comes to identity and what that means, but that does not warrant you to lash out. You can disagree, but there’s no need to try to tear down other people in the process. I personally don’t agree with some vegan ideologies and ideas, but i’m not going out and calling them terrible people or trying to insult them. You can believe whatever you want, that is your right and nobody should be mad at you for that, but hurting other people for no reason isn’t something i would ever call ok.
@oogaboogahoobala7 vegans don't disgrace themselves or mutilate their bodies to support a vice; they just don't eat meat. Try again.
No. I like men for what makes them men. It’s not me being insensitive or discriminatory- I’m just not attracted to people who aren’t fully man
Maybe i have been going threw a thing recently trying to figure out if am pan since i find passable trans girls hot
No because I'm straight and wouldn't date a trans-man. Also, I wouldn't date a trans-woman because we wouldn't be able to have kids. Also, I'm not really into that whole thing
No I wouldn't. Nothing against trans people they are free to do what they want, I'm just not interested.
Umm yea! If I'm attracted to someone and i like them why wouldn't i date them. It just wouldn't make any sense
I have no idea if I would or not. I not sure if I ever meet one. See I live in a very remote area. My nearest neighbors are 8 miles away. So I rarely see other humans
I'm happily married now, but I am pansexual so I would have back when I was still in the dating pool.
Hell no!
I would want a real woman, not a mentally ill man in a dress.
Same here; and deviancy and fraud should be exposed in their real character and condemned, not normalised.
trans people aren't mentally ill. your wants and opinions of what is real don't define someone else's mental health. just sayin.
I won't even associate with them.
"Go be crazy someplace else, fag."
Excellent response
@Dchrls78104 Well I'll tell you what, all these idiot kids saying "Oh, don't be a transphobe, oh, we gotta be inclusive, we need to be accepting, blah blah blah," They say that shit because they don't have to be around trannies in real life, because anybody whose ever been around them knows they're not okay and they're not normal, they're fucking creeps and they're perverts, and they are horrible people to have to be around, and these dipshit kids would change their tune real quick if they had to spend any time around any trannies. They're sick, and they're nasty, and they need to be kept the Hell away from kids, and if they can't take a hint, then somebody needs to beat their bloody brains out and then give 'em an extra stomp or ten to make the fucking point stick.
@Bananaman177 oh I agree with you, 100%.
I would date a woman that identified as a man as long she looked like a woman. I would not date a man that identified as a woman as I am not gay.
No. I have a G@G reflex and I really don't like vomiting.
Good luck to them as they... do their own show. They are human beings.
Maybe. I’m attracted to women, so there’d need to be more emphasis on “woman-like” :)
But if I find a chick who believes (or wants to be known) as another gender but I find attractive, net your ass I’d hit it. Labels mean nothing.
Yes it wouldn’t bother me, we could make it work :)
Really? 😑
Yeah
I would date a Trans woman for sure. If I was in love I'd even marry one
Not for me. I wouldn’t date a trans man because he’d still have a uterus even if he considers himself a man.
Sure, I wouldn't act any differently towards a trans person than anybody else of the gender they identify as.
I have dated a trans man and I would again. Id also date a trans woman 😊
@Smashingdoozy
Which would you prefer a MtF or FtM
I would prefer ftm because I absolutely suck at talking go girls, they make me so nervous...
I have. It was a fine date, all things considered. We just decided we weren't right for each other, mutual. Would I do it again? Sure, I will.
No, because I’m a man who is attracted to females and I want children
I think I'm too straight for that kinda adventure. I'll stick to dating straight women that I have a chance with ( :
I definitely wouldn't date them, but I would be friends with them if they had good personalities
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