So I’ve been dating a guy from okcupid for about a few months, We’ve known each other for about 4/5 months and we are on date number 12/13 because of the whole corona virus situation.
We were talking about turn offs a few days ago when he said he doesn’t have a lot of turn offs he only has two, pixie short hair or balled women. I asked him if he has hairstyles he doesn’t like he said he only likes straight long hair or wavy hair those are the only two types he likes. I wear wavy hair extensions and my hair is curly and short (shoulder length) he doesn’t know I wear hair extensions. I asked him if someone he was dating had her hair up in a bun or had a haircut or changed her hairstyle what would he do? He said he’d tell her he wouldn’t like it and tell her to grow her hair out and if she wouldn’t listen to him then he’d break up with her and his excuse was attraction is important it my girlfriend would ask me to do something or change something I’d do it with no problem because I want to look good for her. I found this shocking because attraction is not only based on hair it’s a number of things and this kind of threw me off since I like to not have my hair extensions 24/7.
What do you think about this and what should I do? Help!
We were talking about turn offs a few days ago when he said he doesn’t have a lot of turn offs he only has two, pixie short hair or balled women. I asked him if he has hairstyles he doesn’t like he said he only likes straight long hair or wavy hair those are the only two types he likes. I wear wavy hair extensions and my hair is curly and short (shoulder length) he doesn’t know I wear hair extensions. I asked him if someone he was dating had her hair up in a bun or had a haircut or changed her hairstyle what would he do? He said he’d tell her he wouldn’t like it and tell her to grow her hair out and if she wouldn’t listen to him then he’d break up with her and his excuse was attraction is important it my girlfriend would ask me to do something or change something I’d do it with no problem because I want to look good for her. I found this shocking because attraction is not only based on hair it’s a number of things and this kind of threw me off since I like to not have my hair extensions 24/7.
What do you think about this and what should I do? Help!
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