Visual (beautiful women)
Sexy women and sex with women (one woman will do)
Being cared about, cared for and loved.
Or being "nursed" and healed 😍
At first they are shocked and pretend, that whatever hit them didn't even scratch them (think of it like Guy Fawkes being shot from a group of mercs and guy fawkes is standing there still and says "My turn").
https://www.youtube.com/embed/a7KgMV3DXw0Then they return to base to fix all the damages from the breakup.
And then when they are alone and barricaded inside their base, they'll let go of a river of tears. They may also get drunk to numb the feelings. This phase can last months or even years.
If you see a man suffering like that from a breakup (it's why we do it alone), you will NOT recognize him. You will think (let's assume X is his name) "X is that you? I don't recognize you anymore! What happened to you?"
Receiving compliments (they love with their ears, remember?)
Being asked about, asked out, being pursued (no, you as a woman are not the prey and we are not the hunters. You are our interested VIP and we care and would like the same in return)
Also tendencies have shown, that women get sexually turned on when men spend money on her on dates or whatever - especially food and meals.
And of course FEELINGS and EMOTIONS!!! There is generally little space for logic here.
No comment.
Other than women getting over the breakup generally in like a month or so but just like men women can be susceptible to suffer from breakups for years but since women are more in demand in the dating market than men are, this is less often the case.
Some women however can change boyfriends like they change clothes.
I think men more hold it in and don't make a big deal of it (externally) to others as much. They may mention a comment or two to a close friend at the bar and the other dude may so "oh that sucks dude. Sorry to hear that." Then they'll talk about sports or girls for a bit and move on to other stuff. And if the man is feeling anything inside mostly they'll just tend to bottle it up until the forget about it in a couple weeks or months when it's not really a big deal to them anymore. Sometimes often more alcohol is involved along the way too or zoning out at work without really looking obvious. Just kind of drifting off thinking about the dynamic for a bit then moving on. Mostly a lot of men internalize their problems and aim to tackle them on their own and find closure gradually on their own.
Woman on the other hand tend to I'd say talk endlessly to their girls for many weeks or even months about it and analyze ever aspect of the relationship and nit pick all the shitty things the man has ever done while completely overlooking all the great things he's done too and why they were attracted to him in the first place. Repeat until all her friends pretend to agree with every thing she says she hates about him and talk about what a giant jerk he actually was all along anyway and point out how much better off she is now without him anyway (even though both the girl and her friends all know the guy actually likely wasn't that bad in the first place - or maybe he was, I really don't know). But they are a lot more social with their problems and externalize them.
I think there's always exceptions and always folks who will experience it more like the opposite sex than others, but generally they're different from what I've seen and experienced myself.
I haven't seen a pattern in terms of who takes longer to fall in love or who hurts more from break ups. That seems to be more about individual personality and the nature of the break up than being about sex.
But what I have noticed is that women have a tendency to "externalize" the emotional turmoil of a break up. We tend to (and tend to be encouraged to) view the break up as something that happened to us versus something we may have contributed to. We tend to act out on our anger and hurt, but we tend to express it outwardly. We'll band together with friends to pick apart our exes in an attempt to just feel better about ourselves. Hopefully (and in the case of me and the female friends I've supported through break ups), we do turn our focus inward to analyze what went wrong and how we can improve or avoid in the future.
Men have a tendency to "internalize" their emotions. If they don't immediately attempt to avoid dealing with it, they tend to get angry at themselves and blame themselves. Younger men tend to blame the other partner, older men tend to blame themselves for trying. Where women tend to try to find fault in the other, I've found men tend to find fault in themselves.
Of course as I said before, there's exceptions. But those are patterns I've seen through my life.
I think both have problematic bits, but what break up isn't problematic in some way?
Women I find tend to be less visual then men. The need for women to get to know a man on a much deeper level is needed before she can admit attraction, let alone say she's falling in love. I know men however who admit to falling for a girl already without even fully knowing her or even physically meeting her (I personally don't find online dating appealing, but I've observed friends that use apps).
I find men will say, I "love you" first, but will say it less often then women do. Men will go to creative and thoughtful lengths to express and show their love and admiration if they are head over heels for a lady. Whereas, I feel women often express it in words wanting to express and confirm their commitment.
When it comes to heartbreak, I feel women will suffer and go through more pain then men as they're usually more emotionally invested. They're often better and faster at fully recovering as they have a better support system as they're able to turn to girlfriends for support. Whereas men, they'll power through to simply "move on" but not fully heal and recover as most don't have the support group of having someone to discuss in depth what they're going through.
Women are more emotionally "invested" because they get far more out of the relationship emotionally, because they are treated like feeling human beings who have vulnerability inside of them.
The part of them that can hurt and experience beauty is seen, acknowledged and protected "in" their man, while the same is not true the other way around.
The pain they feel during a breakup is caused by those things being ripped away from their own soul.
People like to conflate the feeling of love with the act of loving someone.
The reason you feel love is always that you receive love from what you see in the other person, whether it is real or a projection - it does NOT make you a loving person, and it does not mean you're giving the other person love.
Things like cuddling and wanting to spend time with the other person, or craving acknowledgement and affirmation from them, are an expression of those feelings, NOT the giving of love.
Most of the time it is not even acknowledged that the man has any vulnerability and deep feelings inside of him (which is true, after a lifetime of being treated like that starting at boyhood.
Maybe very, very deep inside, but with a decade or two, or more, of living like that, building your identity, your self image, your world view like that, there is no going back without completely breaking down into mostly unsalvageable pieces.)
And people who think that the things women are attracted by in men are less superficial, just because they're not literally on the surface, have a superficial understanding of the word "superficial".
The things women look for in men are those that result in status, protection and financial gain (NOT stability; GAIN - you don't need much to be financially stable. Women typically look for as much "as possible", not "stability") for HER, and their idea of masculinity is really just all about themselves being able to feel "feminine", no matter how artificial that femininity is. We tend to cut things out of the souls of boys and men, then point to the intact girls and women and call it "femininity", as though it was an organ or limb that only they naturally have.
We could cut off the pinky fingers of newborn boys, and after a while HAVING pinky fingers would be considered "feminine", and MANY girls and women would LIKE it like that way and claim it their own, and protest and shame men who spoke out against.
They would be turned off and offended by men who have their pinky fingers.
Generally, masculinity is mostly just the emotional culling of boys and men, so it can be ALL about girls and women and THEIR feelings, and pretending like it's genetical. (Which it is, in part. Women decide what male genes are allowed to propagate, after all, and naturally they would select the ones that make them feel special and that make it so their own feelings come first.)
@Ghurmur Jeezus, Ghurmur, calm down. You're bombing of these girls' comments and picking apart every concept they mention, yet not writing your own standalone comment. They are entitled to their opinions and ineedatan's in particular is very reasonable. She's mentioning valid points on both sides and speaking quite impartially.
Replies like yours are one of the reasons for the huge uptick in pinks anonymizing their comments and questions. If you have something to say about the question you are free to say it, but it's not necessary to tag on top of.
You haven't said one positive or even moderate thing about females in relationships. You are clearly very angry and resentful. There's probably nothing a pink can say to you to appease your frustrations. Going on the offensive with strangers online who have not wronged you personally will achieve nothing. In fact I'm quite sure it is only exacerbating the current divide.
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-----------------I don't think it has anything to do with Gender and everything to do with your emotional maturity and experience in the matter.
Good question!
I share the same sentiment. a heart is a heart. If your loved one dies you may self harm, commit suicide, stop eating... this is true for either gender. A heart is a heart. Even the most blackened heart feels grief at death, deception and sadness.
I see a lot of men saying women get over breakups faster, but I'm not sure that's true. At least not for all of us. Talking about it helps, yes, but only about as much as burn cream cools the burn. If it's bad enough, there's still a scar underneath. That's why women stereotypically often come with baggage. Men do too, I just think men and women may handle their scars and baggage differently. Even if the burn heals faster for a woman, the scar seems to have more of a lasting effect on her. It serves as a contract reminder and warning against pain. She tries to hide her scars, but they're always there, and she knows it. It leads to fear and resentment for anything that could cause another scar. So she builds up a wall of protection to prevent another burn. Layers upon layers of protective clothing hiding the scars and allowing her to get close to the flame but not let it touch her. I feel like a man scars and the scar serves as a reminder to remain cautious. However, once the burn heals he may approach the flame differently to avoid another scar but doesn't keep the heat completely out, leaving him actually more vulnerable than a lot of women, but also more open to a real relationship. Whereas some women are so scared and protected that it can take much longer to get through all of the layers.
I think women are more likely to seek support from friends and family. I think women also allow ourselves to feel sad, which eventually helps us move on. For me personally, I feel things deeply and take it very hard when things don't work out. Depending on how much I liked the guy will determine how long I'm upset over it. I'll be super depressed for x amount of time, until I one day decide I'm over it.
In a lot of ways, I am jealous of male friendships, the way they interact, the way they tease each other, the way they usually have very little drama, but when it comes to needing a shoulder to cry on, I think female friendships have it better.
Iām not writing an answer because this one perfectly describes how I see it.
Men experience a slower and more muted onset, but it lasts much longer. And this is the cases for their general emotional experience, so a man's emotional experience has more overlapping of emotional experiences compared to women because more events are being resolved concurrently.
Then there's also the context in which it all happens. The reality of women's efficacy in the sexual/social/romantic realms translates to a breakup on average being a lower risk proposition for them. By contrast, for men, the consequence of lengthier resolution processes and the comparatively more difficult challenge (and timescale) of replacing the fulfillment of those needs presents a greater risk from the outset of the entire endeavour of courtship.
Speaking on the difficultly of the challenge: Women's proclivity for having preferences favoring emotional fortitude in men further steepens that slippery slope -- being negatively afflicted longer and/or more intensely results in aversion by females.
Hi 🙂 I'd say it's less gender specific and more revolved around the level of love by each person involved. I love the quote "because when a heart, it doesn't break even." It boils down to who cares more sometimes and how that relationship impacted you. For myself, there have been men I easily got over but then there was one that felt as if it destroyed me when he left. He's married with children now but when I reflect on that relationship and his departure, it still pains me to relive.
Well, not saying this applies to you, but often, the person who "cares" more, who is more "invested", is the one who receives more love in the relationship, who gets more out of it emotionally (hence why their heart is more attached to the relationship and why losing it hurts more).
Men tend to get less out of everything emotionally, because we're not granted nearly the same level of vulnerability as people, as men, in society, in interpersonal relationships, etc.
I believe that men try to forget the women by indulging in as many mind occupying activities such as sleeping with other women drinking alcohol (inherently becoming an alcoholic) or even a positive occupier such as a very busy job or making more out of themselves and then later in life hits them harder and everything comes back to them
Where as with women they go through the pain immediately and slowly recover over time then being able to forget bc she already went through the heart break
If you dont agree please just explain why I'm not a woman so I wouldn't know completely hence why my thoughts on the females side is shorter
Nope, no disagreement here. And there are many others here who have essentially said the same thing and clearly agree with you.
The only thing I don't understand - and this is a question, not a disagreement - is why immersing oneself in activity and putting the focus elsewhere, isn't a fine and effective way to deal with it. I myself learned much later in life that when dealing with, and trying to reconcile, complex emotional issues, that distraction is quite often the best strategy for me. Sometimes you can become so embroiled, entangled in the intensity of your feelings about something, yet with some time passing - or even better yet, an even better replacement to what was lost, or what is troubling you - that both of these... shall we call them coping mechanisms/strategies, tends to lessen the initial awful malaise we're going through. (I'm not necessarily talking about sleeping around, having some flings, because it's likely those substitutes can't measure up to the love you had for the partner who is now gone; but I know more men tend to go that route than women do; though that gap is also narrowing.) At least work, and projects around the home, let's say, both are productive and invest something into one's life and future. But I guess you believe that the distractions only delay the processing. Hmmmm.
All I can say from experience and from what I've heard from others is you never stop loving you aren't capable but you can love someone more than the previous
It is seen as far more acceptable for a woman to emotionally get it off her chest & she will often call upon her friends for support , men tend not to do either & focus externally , on work , hobbies or both. One factor in a woman's favour is she will always have male options available if she so chooses , in addition to her much closer own gender friendships , there are far more men " on the market " than women. Seems most people think men are more adversely affected than women... depends on the individual in my opinion , I am quite detached & moved on with my life very quickly after breakups , what is the use of moping around? Have been single by own choice for nearly 6 years & will never change that , prefer own company , not bitter , simply not bothered about pairing up now.
My heartbreaks are caused by:
-being ghosted
-being sexually mislead
-feeling ignored
-triggered by ānot being enoughā every time a guy just wants sexual intercourse.
Itās my fault, I should have not put my in position to be sexually mislead. This has to do with watching porn in the past, so I manifested meaningless sex very often.
So I simply disappear, the guy doesnāt care anyways. I am not going to humiliate myself further.
After I acknowledge this I start healing, focusing on myself 💯(loving the wrong person is so draining, depressing ) , thinking about āthereās better out thereā and being patient, believing that I can too find someone who is willing to ride or die for me, just like I would for them. Inspiring myself through those young couples who decided to be together and really are together.
I been sucked in too many situationāships smh 🤦🏾āāļø
I think I experience love differently than almost anyone. Most people, both men and women, seem to see love as the "feeling" or "emotions" or "connection." I see it as the commitment I make to someone with whom I share sufficient compatibility.
Because of the aforementioned I have not yet experienced romantic heartbreak. I think the only way I could would be if someone with whom I was committed and compatible died. Otherwise, if the compatibility falls short for me or her, I am fine with a breakup. But as to the question, women in general seem to handle heartbreak by reaching out to their circle of friends. Men seem to turn to their interests or hobbies.
both sexes experience heart break the same way ! men have feelings and emotions too but some men were raised to believe that men do not cry because your not a man if you cry ! total meanness , when a man is told not to cry when their feelings are hurt ! I want to see my man cry ( not because of me though ) for that lets me know that he is willing to cry when he is hurt , watching a sad movie , at a birth or death too ! men are just as human as us women are so they should be allowed to cry and not be put down by any one for doing so ! thanks
From what I've heard, is that men and women do feel heartbreak about the same it's just healing times are is a bit different. Apparently, women get over heartbreak/breakups faster cause we are more intune with our emotions so we express our sadness, anger, and disappointment a lot easier thus helping the healing time be more faster. Where as for guys, it may take longer cause men deal with heartache in their own ways that aren't exactly freely emotional. It really just depends on the person, some men and women get over it quickly while some take longer..
I think feelings of love are for the most part pretry similar but I think break ups are VERY different.
When a guy gets dumped he feels extremely lonely, because male upbringing usually teaches him not to voice his emotions and just hold them in. He won't get his emotions off his chest and it will take him much longer to move on. And feeling like there is no one to talk to about it makes him feel that much lonlier.
Where women usually have friends they immediately turn to after a break up to discuss every detail. So in the span of maybe one weekend a girl can get it all off her chest and move on. Unless a man is very in touch with his emotions, its gonna take him much much longer to move on, and he's gonna dwell on those emotions a lot longer.
Well I believe we do but I also believe within our own gender we have sub genres like almost anything in life.
I believe the basis are at heart for the core group but just doesnāt get as deep. Like Iām a sub genre where Iām heavily planted in the middle of being āthe emotionalā and āthe physicalā so Iād say Iām āthe understandingā well I believe men forcefully put themselves out there to try to forget. Simply because to the majority itās not as easy to get a woman as it is for her to get a man.
I think women simply face the pain immediately leaving them to embrace new love when it comes. Simply because itās truly easy to get a man.
Woman cry and talk about it with others. They try and process the reason why.
Men tend to keep everything in and try and get on with it. They might well throw themselves into another relationship to stop them thinking about things.
On the outside this looks cold, like he never cared, but we know he is emotional, hurt and upset and just trying to heal as quick as possible. ) It isnāt a quick process...)
I don't know about love but I've heard that the initial heartbreak is harder on a women but they get over it faster. The simple fact that men don't talk about their problems and feelings (I'm not saying all men don't) and it's characteristic that needs to change. There's nothing wrong with talking if you have something on your mind. It's more healthy that way.
Absolutely. As well, talking is not just for sympathy or help. For some seemingly inexplicable reason which must be physiological, saying words out loud about complex subjects (even in a work or writing context) helps to process them. It seems to corral them into a more manageable cohesion, sometimes.
Yeah men tend to develop feelins of love more easily than women.. Simply because men in general heavily gravitate towards how a woman looks more than anything.. Which is why women generally can be all types of difficult and the man won't mind it for a while simply because he likes how she looks.. When women love they they subconsciously think about the man for most of the time their mind is workin.. For men companionship is more important when dealin with love.. When dealin with heartbreak.. For a guy it's usually much more lonely than for a woman.. As the woman he was with was usually his best friend, and guys usually don't share that info easily with people.. Whereas women can have a whole support group..
"When women love they they subconsciously think about the man for most of the time their mind is workin.. For men companionship is more important when dealin with love.. When dealin with heartbreak.. For a guy it's usually much more lonely than for a woman.. As the woman he was with was usually his best friend, and guys usually don't share that info easily with people.. Whereas women can have a whole support group."
Agreed.
"Yeah men tend to develop feelins of love more easily than women.. Simply because men in general heavily gravitate towards how a woman looks more than anything.. Which is why women generally can be all types of difficult and the man won't mind it for a while simply because he likes how she looks." Uh... what?
Men compartmentalize many things more than women do (the brain's set up this way, with fewer connections spanning both hemisphere, and in MRI/MRA brain scans they found emotion and memory does not light up with the amygdala, hypothalamus, etc., with the same intensity that it does in women.
Men don't tolerate negative traits in women indefinitely (you said "a while", I know), just because they think she's good looking. But the guys looking for short term flings barely have to care about those other traits. They'll be done with her before they even get uncovered. And for more meaningful relationships men definitely need more than just something to look at. So I strongly disagree that "men tend to develop feelins of love more easily than women." That's not love, it's lust, little more.
Trust me, if a guy is smitten by a woman he will put up with all types of ish he throws at her.. Same can be said for women, but guys are the ones who do most of the pursuin.. Not that guys will put up with it forever.. But they will excuse for a bit until they get tired.. Simply because they desire companionship with a women they find attractive.. I've personally experienced it.. "That's not love, it's lust, little more.".. Not really.. I can be.. But, I've been very attracted to girls, and wanted to get to know them, and spend around them, and didn't really care for sex with them much, even though I really liked how they looked.. Now that wasn't love.. But, it was more of a Euphoria from thinkin a woman you find attractive might be interested in you.. That makes for a snappy pursuit..
One piece of evidence which supports the idea that men fall in love more easily than women was a study conducted in 1970, in which about a quarter of men (27%) but only 15% of women said that they experienced feelings of love within the first four dates. Clearly women are more cautious about falling in love. Also men report a higher number of experiences of ālove at first sightā than women do, and they also report having had more experiences of unreciprocated love than women do ā which means men are more willing to fall in love during what we used to call ācourtshipā than women are. (Courtship is all about getting to know and like a partner, not necessarily about falling in love or making a man fall in love.).. Yeah those are from a few studies.. Which is why guys get put in the friendzone much more than women.. But no problem.. šš..
Women want to star in their very own romantic story. Ever since they were a little girl they have read about princesses and being rescued one day. The stories expanded but the theme is the same. So women fall in love and have that narrative going and it influences their decisions.
Guys are more action oriented and focused on solving problems. I feel horny, getting with a girl can solve that. I want to have fun this weekend, taking a girl out Is fun. I want a relationship to have a reliable partner, let me date someone and become exclusive. Yes of course guys are romantic, but love for guys is much more of a logical project broken into tasks and leveling up.
Obviously everyone is an individual and many women and men donāt relate to those at all, but you asked for some gender differences so there you go.
I think individual differences are probably greater than collective differences on this one, but that being said, I've heard that women have more social support from friends and family.
Both will rationalize, and try to make themselves feel better by changing perspectives, though I think that may be a more male thing to do, while women are more likely to "cry it out".
I think they are opposite. Men when they get heartbroken the first is to said that doesn't matter i am happy one but after few weeks they get in a depression mood they remember how was they are happy with their partner then they begin to cry very hard and they took more time to get over it. Girls or womens are totally opposite they begin to cry then few weeks in depression and finally they begin to stand up aand start a new whole life. They are more powerful than men.
I think people experience the same feelings, but tend to compartmentalize them differently. For instance, when a loved on dies, I get very withdrawn and do not show much emotion to those around me, even though I'm devastated. Others who are equally devastated will cry and be inconsolable. We all grieve differently. Same goes for (the loss of) love.
Men donāt care at first and brush it off but later get hit. Women feel it first but get better in time.
Men are like water and women are like sand
Water slowly heats up getting hotter and hotter but when you want it to cool off it'll take longer to cool off
Sand gets hot really quick but cools down quickly too
The ease, depth and length of time of love and heartbreak/betrayal. Some girls tell me they still remember their crushes for years after the fact, whereas I'm not sure I'd recognize half the girls from high school and college, even ones I thought were cute back in the day.
Yeah this was actually researched:
Women get incredibly emotionally after heartbreak, and over time slowly gain confidence in themselves while men get incredibly confidentstraight away and then get increasingly sad and lonely. Going back to an ex however for girls will put them back, becoming emotional again and for guys, the egotistical confidence which is not balanced.
(Obviously this is a generalisation so don't attack me haha)
Where the hell did you get that from?
Men don't get "egotistical confidence"; they throw themselves into self destructive behavior, alcohol consume and trying to mend the wound with sex, because our feelings are pretty much worthless in this world, we can't share them, we can't be vulnerable, we have no real connection to others, so we drown everything out in ways that are destructive for ourselves and others, often times physical aggression, and never really heal, instead our feelings die off bit by bit starting in early childhood.
It's not "egotistical", it's sad and tragic, and the only way we have to deal with things.
The person who sounds egotistical and lacking in compassion is you.
"men get incredibly confident straight away..."
Yes, I have to admit, I find this very odd.
"Going back to an ex however for girls will put them back, becoming emotional again and for guys, the egotistical confidence which is not balanced."
And I don't know exactly what you're trying to say here. Both sexes can feel better, going back, even temporarily, to something familiar. That's got to be applied pretty universally.
Simple
What matters is what you learn from it.
I am not sure about love, but multiple studies suggest that men have a much rougher time with heartbreak than women do, although that is a generalization and certainly apply to everyone.
Yeah we tend to keep things hidden bc as a society men are supposedly strong physically and mentally which in a lot of cases men tend to off themselves bc they can't deal with the pain of knowing someone they truly loved left them
i can't tell you its the same for every man.. But in my personal experience i have spent weeks and months hurting while the ex has moved on to multiple different men as if she never cared in the first place. I would explain this as hypergamy and being a parasite. Not all women are like this, but the ones i chose, before my wife, were very bit like i describe..
im not sure..
Much easier for men to move on and their turn around time on moving to the next is much shorter.
I'd say what you don't want to hear. Some men act like women and some women act like men. By that, i mean act as in the way stereotyping people defined how men and women supposedly act during breakups. Some people process it long. Some never get over it. Some get over very quickly. Doesn't matter, if they're freaking guys or gals. Everyone has their own way of getting through a breakup. It's not freaking gender based.
Let's look at the dicissin maker who decided to end the relationship for it is them who are clear
1 A woman feels more empathy guilt and can easily just stay quiet and tick along Gives chance after chance Not asking much for themselves
2 A man feels hurt and often shows anger Their pride is often in the way of how he is feeling Often able to walk with no relative feeling can't show a weaknes
Well, it is very much socially acceptable for women to break down, cry, complain, open up. Us guys aren't allowed that. We can get angry, we can self-destruct with sunstances (both legal and illegal), but if we dare to show vulnerability we're very harshly judged, mostly by ourselves. The vicious cycle of gender conditioning.
Also, out of curiosity, are you "I live on GaG because that's all I have in life" people required to post the same generic repetitive questions every month, or is this lack of original thinking actually authentic? 😊
Alright Discomfort, that's it for you. I've had enough. Blocking you now. And in case you're planning on calling me a snowflake Liberal female, or any other such bullshit rhetoric, passing-the-buck cliche garbage, here's some other examples of why:
āIs chivalry stupid?ā āYes, it's stupid. Treat them like the filth they are today.ā
'What's something you feel everyone should experience? "Hitting a woman back. I'm not saying go look for a fight like a stupid 12 year old, but many of us have had women try to slap us, or spill a drink on us, or kicking us in the crotch, or any other pathetic reenactment of a soap opera or melodramatic chick-flick. Most guys' reaction is a non-reaction, as we've all been taught that hitting women is a crime. Well, that's wrong. If a woman assaults you (that's the legal definition of the above mentioned instances in most countries) you need to send a loud and clear message. She slapped you? Slap her back, knock her face off. She spilled her drink on you? Grab her hair and wipe your shirt. She kicked your groin? Kick her pussy until she pisses blood. That's the only way to teach such people in this society. We should not negotiate with terrorism, we should not attempt to reason with the bully. We should fight back, hard, and teach them a painful lesson they won't soon forget. Sad that their parents failed with their education, but not our fault."
Go fuck yourself, you toxic piece of shit.
It is said that women feel separation quickly and acutely. Men feel it longer term. Which can mean a woman gets over it quicker.
Right now I remember quite some heartbreak songs by both men and women, in which men mainly sing about the pain whilst women mainly sing about what men did wrong to them.
honestly more true than I wanna admit
I feel it's very much the same we both cry and feel emotional pain. I honestly can't think of how genders differ on this...
Studies show women are able to get over a breakup easier than men. Assuming in both cases that that other partner initiates the breakup.
Its the same... depends on the person not gender everyone is different
I think girls try to get back with their Ex's a lot and guys seem to be able to move on easier this is a tough question to give a complete answer?
Yes it is. I had literally nothing to say on it š
@AmandaYVR Thanks for the post :) :)
I think women take it much more emotionally. Men get mad, but women tend to cry.
I feel heartbroken and betrayed. I used to blame it mostly on myself but I have learned it is because we were just not meant to be together
Yep. Men use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love
Quinnnnnn
I'm glad she is one of the glee people who hasn't passed away yet. Two committed suicide, and the other, drowned, trying to save their child
Speaking for me personally I just get distant and go on crazy long jogs
Well right away women are allowed to cry and move past the stage to heal. Men are usually not and by that often have problems healing and moving passed to acceptance.
They donāt experience it differently they REACT to love and heartbreak different
People experience heartache and beakups differently. Too simple to draw gender lines
It's individual.
It could be all from "Nothing, next one" all to death (not counting suicide)
I mean I am not fully sure but I know the results are the same in which that it hurts.
Either they've been hurt badly or they get tired of each other
Love is blind. Love is an emotion. Love is shared. Women feel more inside than men.
Women get over heartbreak much, much faster.
It's basically the same.
I don't know. I've never been heartbroken.
Who's taht girl in the 8th pic?
Actress Dianna Agron.
Great photo, eh?
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Everyone is different.
Girls talk it out, guys hold it inside
In some ways
Yes, I do.
Nope
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