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Yeah it's a good thing that you got rid of him. Nobody needs such drama in their lives. Relationships should be an enhancement in our lives, not a burden.
So they were always the one to leave you?
After seven seven years Over something silly
It's always good to want to work on something instead of throwing it in the bin and replacing it as soon as things get rough, but what's even better is to recognize when to walk away from a relationship or situation that simply is toxic to your life.
Not in my case many people would have walked away saying just like what you would say Oh it’s toxic but I fought hard and we ended up traveling the world together and been together for 7 1/2 years
It really depends on the situation. After more than 7 years, something significant must have happened in your relationship that caused it to end. Some relationships are funamentally toxic, but often people don't see that because they want it to work out so badly. I was with my ex for 1.5 years. I was fixing things during the relationship that I shouldn't be there, in the first place (like racism from her family). But I wanted it to work out between us so badly, that I was damaging my own peace and development in the process. I ended the relationship with a broken heart.
Not really it ended over something really silly Her alcoholic bipolar stepfather and Not wanting my brother to come over to the house because he’s jealous of his girlfriend and my brother. Has basically banned him from his house when he did nothing wrong ever and I can’t allow that
You deserve someone who invests in you as much as you invest in them. I'm sorry that after all these years it ended because of something like that. It sounds to me that this relationship isn't bringing peace to your life as it should. But that's just my assumption. I wish things will work out for your love life.
What choices did you make?
Nothin, she left after I got into a car wreck.
I meant because you said that the choices you made still haunt you. And wow, that sucks, so she left you because you got into an accident? Why? Don't tell me it was some physical damage or something, because that'd be just way low on her
Oh, a choice after we broke up. Yep because " I I'm not the same" since I got a tbi (traumatic brain injury)
So she said you were behaving differently?
Yeah, I got into a wreck, you should look up what a traumatic brain injury is.
I just googled it. I'm sorry to hear that happened to you
Yeah it does