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Why do men think that women have it easier in dating? (Page 3)
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I agree. Dating as a woman definitely isn't as easy as men think it is! They have very high standards for womens' appearance, and sometimes their age also.
We only care about age because of cultural peer pressure. We've been trained to think that way.
@Jamie05rhs It's still hard for us. Age isn't something we can control.
@Jamie05rhs uuuuh no we are biologically driven by a woman's age
@007kingifrit What I'm saying is that we've been taught to date people in our age range only. Which is why 10 years ago I wouldn't date someone who was 2 years older than me (or 3 years younger). But now I would, because I'm more open-minded.
@Jamie05rhs actually studies show all men regardless of age date 22 year old women preferably
@Flower7. I understand that. And I agree lol. It's a fact. It's not something we men can control, either (try as we might). Age catches up to us, too!
@007kingifrit Maybe they do. Though that would be a stretch for me, as 22 is still a bit young, in my opinion.
"Age isn't something we can control" <-- yeah same goes with our height, dick size, balding and even our age.
To say Men have it easy in dating Is bullseye.
for 1 reason I can walk out my door and ask 10 random women on a date. Likely 8 of 10 will say no.
A woman walks out her door and ask 10 guys for a date I'm willing to bet up to 8 of 10 are a yes. Not saying you'll get quality guys tho.
The one who is approached and asked out always has it easier.
The one who does the asking, decides where to go and pays for the fucking thing has it harder.
But of course, you're a woman. The obvious wouldn't occur to you.
Exactly. I'm so sick of these obviously stupid takes. Wish I could filter them.
@frostwalrus
Yup.
I think I disagree. Girls have a lot of specifications like he should be this tall, he should have a great body, he should... blah blah. Guys on the other hand usually just look whether she's a girl and she's single. We don't have any specifications mostly. Plus if girls want it they can get it by just asking for it cuz many men will be standing in a queue for her but we men just want some. I think men and women both face problems in dating.
Not in the grand scheme of it I don't think that.. I do think that it's easier to get a date being a woman. Only because men are just men. Put tits on a telephone pole and there will be at least one man asking for it's number.
You see what I did there? 😉
Women don't have it easier, but neither do men. Both men and women have it easier in certain aspects of dating and harder in certain other aspects of dating. Trying to measure who has it overall harder is not only impossible but also pointless and childish.
It sounds like you’re just going after the wrong type of men. Yes, CERTAIN types of men go after all those attributes, but not the men you actually WANT to spend the rest of your life with once you are stuck with them.. fake people seek fake people. Real people see past the facade.
that's just a lie. The Avg looking Guys have to ask them out which is risky on your self-esteem, keep the conversations going, interesting and lastly compete with other men that are much older and experienced them during the early years of dating.
All women have to do is look nice, and show up.
* more experienced during the early years of dating.
Men get rejected far more then women. We move on to the next person and the next then the next. When it comes to finding a relationship men are usually the ones doing all the work starting it. Thats why we get hot girls, if we are going to find an s. o we find one we want. You just sit and hope someone will approach. That blonde hair line is bullshit
And women will have the most stupid standards ranging from must be +6ft to have a lifted truck or a matching zodiac sign
*some women*
Girls do have it easier. We have makeup. We can do way more with our hair than they can. They're not as picky. You have to admit, us girls are picky and stubborn, and I hope a guy won't wear makeup to try and impress a girl😂
lol. not all men are the same, as neither are women. i'm a green-eyed brunette and men get their panties in a bunch whenever they're around me. stop feeling so insecure. not every man likes the same things.
Most of those men live in areas where they aren't allowed to mingle with ladies. They have no idea what a woman is because their society doesn't want any interaction between them until they get married.
Her article about what men value (written by a woman by the way) is pretty funny. How accurate does this sound, guys?
her #1 trait: a graduate degree
her #2 trait: blonde hair
her #3 trait: a slender body
her #4 trait: blue eyes
her #5 trait: non smoker
her #6 trait: social drinker
I would posit that the guy already has his finances straight, and doesn't care about a graduate degree (except for the potential for a huge student loan debt that comes with it). Blonde hair can come from a $5 bottle off the shelf at CVS for all we care (besides brunettes are cuter anyway). Guys don't give a liquid poop about eye color. And what exactly is a 'social drinker' ? A girl who doesn't get completely shit faced alone, only with a group of other girls getting shit faced? All a guy cares about wrt drinking is whether she either abstains or drinks moderately enough not to turn into an embarrassment or a child who needs us to be her babysitter for the rest of the night. Ok some guys are going to care a lot about whether she smokes. But that and a slender figure are the only things that we really care about. The rest is all either icing on the cake or negotiable.
Lol so you think this is too picky? er #1 trait: a graduate degree
her #2 trait: blonde hair
her #3 trait: a slender body
her #4 trait: blue eyes
her #5 trait: non smoker
her #6 trait: social drinker
@Kit_Kat88 My point was that the article the OP kept linking up had a pretty inaccurate assessment of what guys look for.
yea someone please explain to women i actually value them less if they have a graduate degree. more college makes people stupider nowadays and more aggressive, it teaches you what to think not how to think
Because most men will date a girl for just being attractive. All women really have to do so is look somewhat good and smile at guys on the street in the city they live as they walk by... one of them will have the balls to pursue and boom! She has a boyfriend
Men have to worry about the size of their dick - unlike breast size penis size actually affects pleasure and If the guy has an average size he won’t be able to satisfy the girl and give her as good of an orgasm... relationships are more reliant on good sex than we admit
A decent looking man will have a tougher time getting dates than a decent looking woman. In dating women have all the power and in my experience with all the rejections I've faced just being cross eyed and legally blind, they are way pickier than me. I live a normal life and am pretty much independent, but still couldn't buy a date lo. Women have it way easier.
Because women are the ones that do the choosing, men have to do the approach work, while most women will just smile and let that be it. It's always been the guys role to impress with house job car, looks, which to be fair I find girls that are interested in those things before personality materialistic and wouldn't date anyway. But that's how it goes, girls that look for those things end up with pricks that are themselves only after one thing and then say there are no decent guys about...
Well you see men do get judged rough. You are talking about men that are dateable. Some men have a tiny 3 inch penis. And can never get a girl. Even if they have a six pack. See an ugly man could have a huge penis. Yea. So with men it's like if you got it you got it. But if your screwed your screwed. You can't lose weight and become attractive. Your screwed.
Umm, I have a short friend who focused on building his body to compensate for his height. He's getting girls as far as I know.
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In most situations women don’t have to deal with being the pursuer. Men have to face the possibility of rejection and work up the nerve/ courage to talk to a girl. And maybe it’s just be but we are also concerned about saying or doing one little thing wrong (sometimes not knowing what we did wrong in the first place) that might cause the girl to never talk to us again. In dating the girl gets to decide if she wants to give a guy a chance and go on a date, or reject him.
Men have an easier time getting commitment, but women have an easier time getting attention. It's just another example of the miscommunication between men and women.
Isn’t commitment better than receiving a dick pick when it comes to long term fulfillment?
Of course commitment is better, but you might have a slightly different view of things when I tell you this: the reason that a lot of men (not all men, but most) don't commit has nothing to do with his standards of physical beauty. The real reason that so many men aren't willing to commit is that the woman's personality isn't there. She's not intriguing and enticing him mentally/emotionally, the way he needs her to, to be attractive.
Nope. Many of them commit to crazy bitches as long as she’s their ideal type of woman.
Hindsight is 20-20 though, and women are great at hiding things from men. Speaking as a guy who fell into that trap once; I had no idea that she was crazy. I made excuses for some red flags that I shouldn’t have.