Are men easier to date than women?

[Anonymous]

I am bi and I started dating men recently because I have a terrible history with women unless I buy a prostitute.

Particularly young effeminate men.

And I try to be nice and accomodating but one of them was just a taker. He just wanted me to buy stuff for him all the time for no reason.
I really did not want to sleep with him so I didn't.

The other was a tease who wanted a never ending flirtation and courtship to drag on for months. And it's sexy at first but after months it's just fucking annoying.

The other was really nice and easy but a little superficial and light hearted. And I don't want to fuck up and waste time.

So there is a seduction thing that I am missing?
I am after a fairly quick cosumation with sex.

It shouldn't be hard because i am good looking and a lot of people come on to me. But people get turned off or distracted, or want me to buy them too much stuff.


I have this with men and women

[TessCasie]

Men are easier I believe compared to us women. We need to “listen” when the man speaks. Not allow our imaginary expectations clash with what he is in reality. We tend to make an ordinary man look extraordinary in our minds. We need to stop that. Only then can we save ourselves.

[likelyOK]

I doubt it but you being a gay man you will have a different perception because gay men are different

[Asker]

Oooooh