I basically got really Anxious and thought she was ignoring me, after I asked her out. We where talking great before I know she liked me. But have not asked someone out in a long time. Due to past trauma. Just felt ready and I really liked her. After I later explained I had mental health issues and she later told fellow work colleagues. I still really like her but feel if more problems arise in the future she will tell them instead of coming to me. Should I no longer trust her.
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This is a situation where it depends WHAT you said.
Sometimes anxiousness can cause us to say inappropriate things by accident. If that happened, I get why she'd include her work pals, as she needed advice / support, or maybe just some consolidating if you make her feel unsafe, uncomfortable, etc. She probably asking them how to handle the situation you have presented.
She may have thought it was totally inappropriate, maybe she is questioning whether it be an HR thing or not, we don't know.
Now,
If you did NOT say anything inappropriate, and everything was respectful... well... I don't know.
That is so disrespectful toward you. That is a violation of your trust, and your private information you have shared strictly with her.
She absolutely does not respect you if she acted like that. Respect is required, even in a friendship.
Leave her stick with her work colleagues, and you focus your efforts on finding someone who will respect the private information you share with them.