Short women aren't interested in me. I really don't understand why a woman shorter than a man says he's too short?

[aq121]

I'm 5'4 and all the short women I tried my luck with said i'm too short and that I would be more attractive if I was taller. Not only that, but most short women 5'2 and under are with tall guys so these are the women that are mostly shorter than me. The ones that are my height and taller aren't interested in me either. No woman really is. I wish women didn't have to make the judgement on a guys height, but I really don't understand why a woman shorter than a man says he's too short. This also happens to average guys.

[TruthBringer]

Reality is, there isn't much to do about this. Women want taller guys. Period. You have to understand that the girls who are shorter than you are, not only are they shallow at to their core for wanting an even taller dude, but they do this in order to compete against their female friends/counterparts. So basically, ditch them as soon as you find out they are that type. There ARE girls shorter than you, who do want to be with you. So don't convince yourself that they aren't out there. You just have to look for them. I see you're from the US. I've noticed that in the US, they are much more shallow there. I don't buy into the "I feel protected" nonesense. It's all about showing status. My hot girlfriend is 2 inches shorter than me, yet feels protected whenever we are in public at night (I'm quite muscular and do martial arts for almost a decade).

I myself am under 5''9, yet I have no problems getting dates (even with taller girls) or getting in relationships. I guess it's mainly because people tell me I'm handsome, confident, charismatic and interesting (their words, not mine). I'm also very aesthetic because I work out for more than 5 years, so that helps in attracting women. Yet, I had to weed out many shallow girls both irl as on dating apps.

All I can say is work on yourself, not for the sake of women, but for your own sake. Everything I have accomplished and achieved so far physically, mentally or career wise is for my own sake, NOT for women. Women being attracted to me happens to be an extra that comes with the results of hard work.

I highly recommend you research the red pill on how to deal with women. It helped me tremendously

Watch this video aswel.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Br19O_GUH3M

[Kaazsz]

Women don’t like short men. You’re asking in here but it’s pointless. You’re an inferior genetic specimen that’s all there is to it.


You have zero choice but to love yourself and be confident in yourself. You’ll never get a girl if you’re full of anxiety and self loathing and self doubt and believing 100% that you can never get any woman. That makes it 100% true.


It’s possible for short guys to get a woman. You see it sometimes. But those guys only got a woman because they chose to focus their mind on becoming comfortable in their own skin and developing self esteem and confidence. That’s your ONLY choice.


Fuck asking questions to these mindless fucks on here. They’ll just tell you a bunch of bullshit. The girls will lie and spin you a tale.


You have ZERO choice. There is only one path. Develop love and confidence in yourself, accept yourself, so that someone else can as well. If you don’t do that you are doomed forever.


It’s like a poor person living in poverty. You have no choice but to get up and do something. Find a way out. There is no other choice. The government isn’t going to help you. Most poor people just give up. It’s too hard for them.


So is it too hard for you to develop confidence and love for yourself? Only if you continue to believe that no matter what you do uou’ll Always be alone. You can live the rest of your life wallowing in self pity regret and whatever other shitty feelings. Or you can make the choice and put the work in to change your mentality and develop yourself.

[meetkitty123]

I don't see what's the big deal.
Im 5'2 I've never met any man shorter than me
My man is a little taller than me. When i wear heals im almost equal to him
Honestly
Not too tall just means easier to hug kiss and squeeze. Works great for 69
I've never had an objection to a short man or a tall man.
The tallest I've dated was over a foot taller than me that was pretty cool cuz I like the way he would smother me with his hugs except it was hard to kiss him when I wanted to I had to yank him down
My shortest was 5'5
I don't know I like men based on their personalities more than what their physical traits look like
But seriously who cannot want to reach out and grab a cute cuddly short man it's like you can easily grab their hair and stroke it
Most short guys I've come across are adorable looking just want to hug them all up
I think you just had the bad luck of running into some seriously stuck up people
I don't worry the right one will come along maybe you'll find a super tall sexy lady who loves short ones.

[aq121]

Haha well I guess we have that cuteness factor other guys don't have. I dont know why its a big deal either. Height just seems to be a trait women go for, taller the better these days. It is what it is. Just the way you seem to be comfortable with short men, i'm the same with short women and i'm sure the feeling is mutual. Although tall women are very attractive, I just don't feel physically comfortable around women taller than me. Nothing against them. I find it very sweet and nice when taller women don't mind shorter men and give them a chance, thats awesome. But i'm not really sure if I could, I mean i'm only 5'4 and pretty small too.

[meetkitty123]

I'd had a feeling you would say something like that about tall women you might be missing out forget the short ones should try at all one maybe you'll have better luck hey you might be missing out on your true love match

[meetkitty123]

This site is really glitchy today what is up with all the typos

You should try a tall one maybe you'll have better luck hey you might be missing out on your true love match****
Corrected

[aq121]

Maybe I don't know. I'm not really sure about a tall woman though, like I said I'm just comfortable with women shorter than me, but women taller than me have shown interest in me so i'm not really sure at this point

[Cryptic-Game]

33 years old and never seen a man shorter than 5'2"? Wow. You must don't see a lot of Asian and Korean men. Many of them are barely 5 foot.

[meetkitty123]

@Cryptic-Game
Well I guess there's some Asian in Puerto Rico well I spent most my time but I only saw them in the occasional Chinese restaurant and they were alway behind the counter cooking but they didn't appear short to me. Here the Asian men i have seen are tall

[meetkitty123]

But hey you are being unfair I TOLD YOU im short lol
Always cracking jokes on us small folks lol
🤣🤣 Im use to it.

[Cryptic-Game]

I am 5'4". I've seen some men who didn't even come to my eyes but it is rare.

I prefer women taller than me actually. Like 5'6" to 5'8" but will consider women under 5'6" and even my height or shorter but not too short like a dwarf who is 4'6".

[meetkitty123]

@Cryptic-Game
Well now that I think about it I did see one little person as a cashier once at some random store I stopped at while on vacation he was cute.
Now I remember it it was actually checking me out literally checking me out while checking me out
🤷 didn't think anything about I just smiled. Had a munch of kids waiting in the care withy man excited to go swimming

[Marcusvinnie]

The deal is every women pretty much want a guy at least 5'8 if you are below that you very likely never get a girlfriend. Unless you go abroad which some guys do (good for them).

[Anonymous]

I really don't think I'm telling you anything you don't already know here, but here goes...

1. Women have been conditioned since a young age to want the tall guy. Every movie hero/love interest is always tall, the tall guys in class get the most attention, even in the world in general, tall men get a leg up in life in a lot of sports/careers just by virtue of being tall.

2. I know you're probably going to be like, I'm only talking about a date here, but on a subconscious level, women think about having children and two short people will most likely have a short child and just how you're complaining now, they don't want that for their male children so they reject bc if you're having sex, there is always the slight possibility of getting pregnant for women even if you are super casual.

3. Many have literally never even considered dating a short man, the way you may have never considered dating a really tall woman, or someone of a different race, or whatever---preferences, everyone's got them.

[aq121]

short women can have short kids thats not guaranteed. A short woman thats shorter than a short man is taller than him?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I'm aware, but what I am saying is the likelihood of two short parents having a tall kid is pretty slim compared to a 50/50ish chance with a tall guy unless you are the odd man out in your family and everyone else is tall or everyone else on her side is tall, blah, blah, genetics. I'm not sure about your second question because a short woman who is shorter than her man is shorter than him.

[aq121]

What if the son ends up short? I've seen short parents having a tall kid. Even then why should the height of a kid matter?

[elisa_0]

@aq121 it matters. It’s biology 101.

I thought you guys loved evolution and biology. Oh but not when it comes to you right?

[aq121]

@elisa_0 Who is "You guys" my opinion isn't automatically part of other opinions of men. I dont really give a shit how tall my kids are. I dont know why short women should either, that makes them look bad. If your kid ends up short then you'll hate him. I've read stories about a short woman marrying a tall man to get a tall kid, the son ended up being short. The short mother verbally abused her son because he wasn't tall. She abused him so much that he wanted to commit suicide. If you think thats right then you're just as bad. Maybe some other men care about their kid's height, but I certainly don't even care. If a woman says to me she doesn't want to be with me cause of short kids i'll get extremely pissed off and offended.

[elisa_0]

@aq121 It’s not only about kids. Short men are just not attractive and it’s evident that most women seem to agree based on their behavior. Its just how it is. We don’t find short men attractive.

[Opinion Owner]

You were asking for reasons why short women don't go for short men, and those are my speculations. I'm just trying to give you additional insight to why these things happen. Knowing some of this however can't really be helpful, can it? I mean, you're I assume looking for someone who likes you for you, and not for your height right? If someone doesn't want you for whatever reason, there isn't a point to like trying to hang on to them because their focus isn't actually on getting to know you but to boiling you down to a stat they've already pre-determined that they don't like.

[Mithradath]

Should I start wearing heels from today onwards then? They do want a tall guy, but that doesn't mean they end up with one. It's less than a preference.

[elisa_0]

No you just have to find a rare girl that doesn’t mind your height.

[Thatsamazing]

You haven't "been conditioned," it is naturally simply what the majority of females inherently want and desire. Where did that conditioning come from and originate in the first place, if that is not the case?

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing It's conditioned into us just like most desires for something in the opposite or same sex are. For example, when you think a short guy is cute and all your friends or family say stuff like, "but he's so short, or why would you date a short guy, you need a tall guy," you learn that your like of short guys is not generally rewarded by the majority. Every fairy tale we've ever seen since birth has the prince charming as the tall handsome guy. Even the phrase repeated over and over again to us is "tall, dark, and handsome." It's right up there with guys who are told since a young age to man up and be a man and men aren't weak and they don't cry. You are conditioned to start accepting certain behaviors as the way things ought to be, in the way a lot of women come to accept that what they are "supposed" to want is a tall man. Obviously there are outliers and variants, etc., but for the majority they at least believe this in theory.

[aq121]

1. You realize that 15% of men are tall, 85% of men are not. 2. Fairy tales aren't real life. When was the last time you saw a dragon roaming around in your neighborhood? On your way to work did you ever really see flying unicorns? 3. The majority of opinions doesn't dictate what women do. It is literally impossible for women to be with that many tall men cause there aren't that many. The population wouldn't exist if women went after tall men only. Short men wouldn't be in the gene pool if short women didn't want short kids. Everything you're saying a full load of bullshit

[Opinion Owner]

I guess your feelings are hurt or something. These are my opinions, and I've said what I've said. If it's too much for you to handle, then cool. Get frustrated. Get mad. It's hard to often hear what we don't want to but since I take it you're not a woman, you literally have no clue how we think so I'm trying to give you a clue and if you don't want to listen...simply don't. Good luck in your dating world man, truly. Good luck to you.

[Thatsamazing]

... Okay... I don't think you quite understood what I meant-- if what you're saying, which is that everything all of us (or a majority of us, anyway) want is a result of "conditioning," then again, where did that conditioning come from, and why do we so readily adhere to it, if it isn't what we want?

[Opinion Owner]

@Thatsamazing Nature/Nurture, take your pick. Both explain human behavior but it's rarely an all or nothing scenario.

[Thatsamazing]

Sure... and the point is, it's mostly nature, not nuture.

[Petra150]

@elisa_0 my god you really got hold on s girl gere, even the worse men in the Nazi regime couldn't come up with worse thoughts against humanity. I just want to tell you quite honest not all women are evil Heightist who hate men for not being tall. When younger we joked about whering a badge telling every guy " we are not HEIGHTIST" so they didn't thought that about us very tall girls. But must admit I didn't thought things were as horrible as this string obviously show. And may admit somthing ought to be done, knowing most Heightist hide behind the horrible word " PREFERENCE" resulting in a horror regime and causing " Race hygiene" just at the Nazi guys would do. But it's done but nice normal women all around the world. And there ought to be restrictions to stop Heightist. And a good place to start would be them who spread out poison on the internet and in public in generel. At least they NEED to be shamed out

[Petra150]

@elisa_0 rare? No a bright and fantastic girl , who isn't a horrible shallow Heightist , and we are out there , ask my hubby. And I do a great job bringing up my very tall girls to avoid being a Heightist them selv, and i do encourages them to prefer shorter boyfriends if possible , it's very important to get this thing stopped right away, we can't live in a world with somthing so unnatural as HEIGHTISM , as it causes so much hate and sorrow, WTF should we live in a world were the guy ought to be tallest. My hubby is 23-25 cm shorter than me , and he's not a bad guy for that !!!

[Petra150]

@elisa_0 please keep the " we" word for your self not all think like you. Where should I go as a 6'8 girl , if I had horrible prejudices like you

[SirBearon]

1st of all fuck what all these people are saying. You need to talk to more women. The more you approach you're bound to find one that is into you for you and not your height. It's true that women like a tall man for protection but there are women who love short dudes as well. I would recommend NOT trying to meet women on social media platforms. Most of these chicks are superficial and only go for their DREAM kinda dudes. Why? They have hundreds of thousands of guys messaging them too. It's bullshit and if you don't have physical traits, you need to showcase your personality. Women, especially as they get older and over themselves want to find a man who treats them well and who will provide for them their needs. I have a short friend like you with a beautiful wife and kid. I mean, she is beautiful and taller than him and loves the fuck out of him. Trust me, don't meet women online. I'm 6'3" and have hardly had any luck dating online because I'm not what majority of women find attractive here in Southern California. When they meet me in person the get to see WHO I really am and not who they PERCEIVE me to be.

[aq121]

Yeah some comments are just straight up rude, but its a double edged sword for short guys on online dating. Its easier to increase your chances and outcomes to find someone, but at the same time its gonna go against you whereas in person it will be harder but there's at least one woman that won't care. Its tough

[SirBearon]

There is no double edged sword. There is one sword and that's the effort you choose to put into meeting girls the right way. Trust me, I don't know you so I can honestly care less if you take my information and use it but it is quality information. When you meet women in person, even if they have a preconceived idea on what type of dude the like or are MORE attracted to. Most women aren't that shallow. If you make them laugh and make them feel beautiful inside and really be yourself they will overlook their ideas and go for you. Date you, let you fuck them or whatever. Talk to them everywhere. Gas stations, grocery stores. You obviously need help and I am the girl getting coach. Talking to more women will give you more confidence. Don't let the turn downs, turn your attitude down.

[btbc92]

You should be with people who accept and love you for you. Height in a sense does matter as far as attraction goes because a makes a women feel secure and protected. Which means as sonebody around my height, you have to work on a lot to gain the attention of women who are best suited for you. In fact, I think what a lot of these women has said to you was extremely rude. And you didn't deserve that at all. But at the same time you are also pursuing women that are not right for you anyway. Don't just try to go out with a stranger, and try to date women that you don't even really know. Avoid that at all costs. If a woman is not really showing much interest in you as a person, then they are not somebody you would want as a partner anyway. Love your height. You just have to keep looking.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Yup. I learned this after years.

[Twalli]

You don't really want protection though. Otherwise I would get a lot more interest due to the fact I enjoy practicing various combat styles.

[btbc92]

@Twalli

Women overall do want protection. But the level of protection defers from woman to woman. In the end, it's about what makes a woman feel special and wanted. Not about just the height or protection.

[Twalli]

I mean you want the illusion of possible protection. I don't seen nearly as threatening as I am.

[btbc92]

No, I don't want the illusion. You can feel that from the energy of the person. If they're able to protect you or not. And to do with the energy of a person. This is how a person can come of intimidating to others. I have seen even a few short of men, that exhibited the strength. It's that is what attracts a woman. But not everybody's going to be attracted to the same thing.

[Xoxocutekitty]

I'm 4'11 and my boyfriend is 5'5". he's honestly a really small guy, weighs 120lb. I'm pretty sure he's smaller than the average female. But being 4'11 and 100lb, he's still got 6 inches on me, so he still feels tall if that makes sense.

I can understand why a girl would want a guy who is more than 2 inches taller. Try going for girls 5'1" or under that weighs less than you. You can lift weights to increase your physical mass to increase your chances. I know it's really dumb, but a lot of women dont want to "weigh more" than their boyfriend. Weighing more makes you feel fat while having sex. I've never encountered it because but, I would never date a guy less than my weight, thats just the honest truth.

[aq121]

I have gone for girls 5'1 and under, as I stated already, I've been rejected and told i'm too short. I didn't think it would be like that, but I don't think being a short man is really all that attractive to women including short women. I don't know. I wish I was wrong, but thats just the sad reality of it

[modelUN242]

My dad is shorter than me, and he's 5'3 or '2 maybe and my mom is my height. But they're marriage was sort of arranged, they're Indian. So maybe we should resort to that, i'm joking.

Well, honestly, short guys for most women are seen as weak and inferior and not masculine.
This experiment has honest input by women.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZbG05ePWRQE

The best you can do is be optimistic and work on getting leaner and fit. If you're bigger, you'll look like a ball. I liked this guy and he was shorter than me but i thought he was cute and intelligent. But maybe he felt that I was too good for him because I was taller and I guess my personality can be more forward. But I wished he made the effort to talk to me.

You never know, just continue talking to women, you only need ONE person.

[dandiecandie]

Listen I'll be honest with you a short guy is not an eye catcher to females but if you develop your personality you can attract a woman using your personality and as a result the height won't be an issue but to further enhance your personality you must first love yourself and your current height.

[aq121]

Are you speaking on behalf of all women that exist in this world?

[dandiecandie]

Nope the guys is exhibiting a problem with the ladies and frankly I'm being honest with him because most ladies won't pick a 5 foot4 guy when they have a 5 foot10 right beside him. More is better just like in this case bigger is also better. But what could potentially make a girl chose the shorter guy is personality. That means the person you are inside over powers the physical appearance. That's not me speaking for all the women. That's the world speaking for themselves in regards to what observations, science and statistics show. Are you telling me that appearances dont matter? Maybe in the long run no but for a first time attraction yeah they matter. Someone who is more attractive than someone else can attract a person based on their appearance but that doesn't mean that it will last if their personality is terrible.

[DavidHart]

Agreed.
Personality when given enough time will overcome physical appearance.

[Snickermarstwix]

Women will only want to date the top 5% of men until they réalise that most of them may sleep with them but won't ever date them.
Men will date women who's got around the same "value" as them but will sleep with sort of whatever they can get who's not too much below them. Have you ever saw requirements women can make? Sometimes it's an entire list of shits you and I will never have while a man it will most likely be "Good looking, fun, let me get my personal space when I need it"
So women just need to réalise that. Just know it's not your fault, when it comes to dating they're not that smart and that's why they complain a lot. Just do your thing, they care of you and someday one will come out of her dream and know how good of a person you're may be.

[richardsnarky]

As someone who is 6’1”, I’ve never understood short women’s need to date a guy that is 6’+. I imagine the height difference would be a bit awkward.


But, as another responder said, go where you are embraced. I’m sure there is a woman out there that doesn’t care that you’re 5’4”.

[Alfleria]

Well.. I’m the kinda girl that I to tall guy. My height is only 5’1 but my exes mostly 5’10-6’0. Because it makes me feel safe, I don’t have to worry when I wanna wear high heels, They can get things high up that I can’t reach. Mostly it’s just my personal preference. Doesn’t mean I never dated short guy though. I got 3 exes that around 5’2-5’5. Doesn’t mean I don’t love them any less. It’s just maybe my heart prefer tall guys.
But hey, you could find the girl that will accept you no matter what your height is. Don’t worry. Just polish yourself. Love yourself. Then someone will come to love you eventually. For every shoe has their own pair.. have faith! 😉

[aq121]

1. Safe from what? 2. Do you wear high heels 24/7 at all times? 3. If you need to get shit from things high up then use a chair, its something they can be used for if you didn't know

[DonCachondo]

safe from her crippling anxiety I guess lol

[Alfleria]

@aq121 : 1. Not from something that I can really explain. It’s just feelings. 2. Are you just gonna stay at home all the time when you’re dating someone? 3. That’s also possible but if he can get it for me, then why not?

@don : I do have insecurities but at least I’m sensible enough to not mocking someone else’s problem.

[Alfleria]

Oh! And I like it when I hug him and my ear is right on his chest. I can hear his heartbeat. It calms me.

[DavidHart]

Your comment is a bit 'salty' but mostly it's a positive feedback.
i like it.
Thanks from a 5'8" guy.

[Alfleria]

@DavidHart : thanks! I’m just being honest. And not pulling anyone down (yet) 😝 and I’m short too! 5’1 only. Lol.

[TruthBringer]

@DonCachondo Exactly that 😂. Not just this girl, girls of her height who also feel they need a dude over 5''11 😂

[DavidHart]

@Alfleria
u're at my shoulder then.
That's cute.

[aq121]

@DavidHart she's only interested in guys 5'10+ because it makes her feel "safe"

[DavidHart]

@aq121
it's OK. it's her preference.
Can't force anyone, shan't we..

[Alfleria]

@DavidHart : thanks! And 5’8 not so bad. Your personality what matters most. And you’re great guy!

[aq121]

Lol so my 5'4 is bad coming from all these people shitting on my short height I see how it is. I literally have people telling me that my height isn't attractive and women find it a turn off.

[DavidHart]

i am feeling good with 5'8" already.
Hopefully i will be no more than 5'10".
Any more than that, my head will hit the roof top of my car.
😂

[DavidHart]

@aq121
having 5'4" isn't bad.
i have a friend with such height.
Got married already a year ago.

[hahahmm]

Stop worrying what women say. Focus on building your life up for you. Set big goals & make them happen. Women will come to yoi when you stop caring about them & do you.


I knew a guy who was like 4’11 and had a hot 6 foot tall wife. His tude was: I’m the man.


He got respect for never being a beggar

[AJC997]

A guy who was 4’11 and had a 6 foot tall wife? Are you being honest?

[hahahmm]

Yes. 100% true.

[AJC997]

How?

[AJC997]

I’m stunned

[hahahmm]

Read my original post again. It’s all in there. Stop thinking that women think the same way men do. Stop thinking that men & women are the same in any way & it will make more sense to you eventually. Especially if you listen to enough guys who have figured out how it all works

[iambae]

Women live in a fantasy world and have unrealistic expectations. They want the beast 666 when it comes to dating.

6 a man that is 6 feet and over (only 14% percent of men are this world wide.)

6 a man that makes 6 figures (this is less than 10% of men in the USA)

6 a man with 6 pack abs

=666

Don't entertain their foolishness, simply find a woman that accepts you for you.

[slatyb]

Pay no attention to the reason any woman gives for not dating you. Maybe they are being honest, maybe not. It doesn't matter, the only thing that matters is "yes" or "no". In dating, "why" is the almost always the wrong question. The real question for you is "where can I meet women who will be happy with my height?"

[chapawapa]

Those women have a preference

Personally though I think its snobbish and you don't want them in your life anyway. I liked a short dude once. But he was only into shorter girls. So yeah lol 😆 I got turned down. I don't know. When you really like someone height doesn't matter and neither does looks.

by the way I'm 5'8... I've only dated 6'2 to 6'5 and the guy I really liked and connected with was 5'4.. So he was very different than that I was use to

[aq121]

The thing with a preference is that you don't always stick to it, but I guess in my case most guys are a good amount taller than me so its likely they meet their preference anyway, so be it. 5'8 is a good height for a woman. I've never really seen many women that height, but its interesting because sometimes the woman that do give me the chance happen to be taller than me about 5'6+, i'm 5'4 as well. So its very ironic that the ones shorter me don't usually give me a chance, but seems like the ones that are taller than me give me the opportunity to talk to them. I don't usually get many matches. Only about 2 - 5 every year or so, but they are with women taller than me. I'll be honest though, I am just more comfortable with someone shorter than me, but I do think women taller than me are very attractive as well. Who knows what can happen though, if me and a taller woman connect as well I wouldn't mind it.

[chapawapa]

Stick to your preference. If you like shorter girls then you like them.. i honestly feel comfortable physically with someone bigger and taller so I get it.

[aq121]

Well I honestly dont know. Women taller than me just give me more of a chance so i'm confused in which type of women would be interested in me. I've never honestly had any woman shorter than woman match with me, I tried, but they unmatched me. Oh well. I'm not really sure what I want in someone tbh.

[Soremain]

It's not how tall you are compared to her, but compared to other guys. If you are smaller than most guys, you are less equipped to protect her from other guys with bad intentions.

Also you make it sound like people intentionally choose who they are attracted to. As if they could just stop judging your height and start being attracted to you, but that's not how it works. No one personally chooses who they find attractive.

[Anonymous]

I don't really know, I think the tallest guy I've dated was 5'8, if that. I feel weird being around guys who are significantly taller than me, to be honest.

But I can't say I've known too many guys that I'd consider short. The only one offhand I can think of is shorter than me (I'm 5'3) and he just got married to a girl who's taller.

I have heard other girls talk about guys being too short, but I don't really get the appeal of standing next to a relative giant.

[ettubrutus]

I'm a short guy too and I was lucky enough to get a girlfriend shorter than me that didn't care that I was short. It's pretty messed up how height standards are especially in America. They act like we had a choice in being short.

[aq121]

there's no winning as a short guy if short women don't even like them. Good for you, make sure she's a keeper

[elisa_0]

People don’t choose what they’re attracted to. It’s not like we can switch off our lack of attraction towards short guys. It’s similar to men finding heavy women unattractive. (Lots of heavy women cannot change their weight due to genetic issues or diseases)

[AJC997]

@elisa_0

I have zero issue dating a chubby woman at all. I would even prefer it, so no people can find qualities that don’t fit the mold desirable

[Wolkmi]

@elisa_0 what a stupid comparation lol? How can this guys be taller so he can be more attractive, how can he enter your standards? He should wear shoe lifts? even that, a man wearing shoes who add 6 inches will be ridiculous
the surgery is too much

[elisa_0]

@AJC997 Then you are rare, and I also suggest finding a girl who doesn’t mind dating a guy who’s 5’4”, who also happens to be rare. It’s just how it is. You can’t change everybody’s attraction standards just to make you feel better.

@Wolkmi Comparation? I’m not even American and I know the right word to use is comparison. Anyway, yes the taller guys are more attractive. Don’t know what else to tell you. You want me to go and convince every girl on the planet that short guys are also attractive just because you say so? Lol. No.

[Wolkmi]

@elisa_0 then he should kill himself or something?

[AJC997]

@Wolkmi

She didn’t say that

[elisa_0]

@Wolkmi What the fuck are you smoking?

[silvermoon84]

Probably because of evolutionary psychological conditioning about the man being considerably taller, but who knows. I’m only 2 inches taller than you are and have dated men who were shorter than you, so not all of us really care about height.

[Unit1]

Well. Think of women being attracted to short men the same way men are attracted to women with big tits only.

You make do with what you have.
You need those if you don't have already: Looks, Confidence and Money.

And if you still keep being single, don't mind it. It's not like we are supposed to be in a relationship anyway despite how nature designed us.

[thewiggles]

Its a lot of preference. Best thing I can tell you is work on body and mind and personality. It sucks how "love" works these days. Girls will inherently be more attracted to tall men. There are some who aren't as picky but this is just a thing with how the whole ideal partner works. People suck and I dont recommend giving much thought to any city girl. They aren't worth the emotion

[RingOfFire]

It's all about confidence. Everyone has something about them that isn't perfect.

If you can find a way to stop obsessing about your height, you will be much more attractive to women. Women like confidence in a man. Don't focus on your height, focus on the things about you that you like and you think she would like.

There is no reason you can't find a girl unless you are doing something that turns them off. Your height should not stop you from finding someone unless you let it.

[EyesOfGod]

It use to be women only married average height or short guys, because in the fields doing hard labor tall people would die 10-20 years sooner. Honestly id try to go for tall girls since they are less inclined by height because they are taller then most men to begin with.