He was applying to universities abroad and he got accepted into one of them, so he was leaving in a few months. I thought I don't have much time in my hand so if I want to go out with him then my time for that is very limited. So I asked him to go out with me at least once before he leaves. He started to beat around the bush and it was clear that it's a rejection.
Soon afterwards, I was back with my boyfriend. A lot of things happened and I decided that he deserves a second chance. After that I was talking to the school guy and he told me that he rejected because he thought I wanted a rebound and that's unhealthy. He totally misunderstood me so I made it clear that I didn't want a rebound and I did it only because he is leaving soon. He said that he would have 100% said yes if he knew my reasoning earlier. He even asked me if I would still go out with him, I obviously said no because it's too late!
He still tries to make me doubt my boyfriend, and always suggests finding someone better. I'm currently applying to universities abroad and he said that if I go to his university then he will welcome me with open arms and help me with anything that I need.
I am not sure what to do with this guy. Would you guys behave the same way if you were in his place?
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