Is it a turnoff or a deal breaker if your crush or partner smokes (weed or vape)?

[kamb1]

yes

no

[senor_bacon]

Tobacco is not healthy, and vaping is legit bad for you.

Drinking is ok if you moderate and drink water. If I don't see the balance and effort, then I'm gonna think you don't care about your liver.

sshhteamin' some bud however, has been shown to have a multiplicity of mental health benefits, which is why it's being legalized.

Diving into some reefer has been shown to help with involuntary twitching, tourette syndrome, depression, anxiety, etc. It helps with insomnia and pain.

Keep in mind this is all from a natural plant that you can grow yourself. It's not chemically brain addictive like drugs.

Also, with this is mind: weed is not a drug. Drugs are anti depresents and cocaine and the like, although some are prescribed and others are illegally bought on the street. A drug involves artificial processes. Again, weed is a plant.

If you're just a normal person smoking, it can help you in the mean time to deal with your issues. It's also a good alternative to drinking.

For those of you judgmental little shits on here that don't know shit about weed, I would recommend stop flapping your gums but it's a free country.

Legalize it.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

You sound like a real pothead. Smoking weed is still not healthy moron. You are still filling your lungs with smoke, you are absorbing chemicals that weren't meant for the human body. For pain I take Advil, not addictive. I don't suffer from any of the other issues. But, there is no clinical evidence that weed cured or helped the entire control group with all their symptoms. NONE. Because like others DRUGS it affects everyone differently. I know a person that suffered migraines and was told by a doctor that it might, might help no guarantee but the issue is the stink of the weed caused her migraines. You logic is flawed. As for weed being medically helpful, there is no absolute proof. It is like any other drug you take, a crap shoot. I would rather take a pill than fill my lungs with smoke. I saw the documentary when a lady was using weed consumables to deal with pain, anxiety, depression and it started off great but then she needed more and more and more and more and before she knew it she was spending $250 every couple of weeks ordering the stuff that wasn't working. Again your logic is flawed.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Poison Sumac is just a plant, why don't you roll that up and smoke it? I am sure you would only need to smoke it once and it will cure all that is wrong with you.

[Peanut127]

I full on agree with @senor_bacon answer. FYI NYC guy, weed isn't "smoke"... It's fumes that cause a different effect than nicotine

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Smoke is smoke. Looks like a duck quacks like a duck, must be a fucking duck.

Definition of fumes: gas, smoke, or vapor that smells strongly or is dangerous to inhale.

[senor_bacon]

@NyceGuyFinishingLast lol go commit purposeful lack of oxygen

You can have a different point of view, but lol I wonder where all that anger comes from.

Anyways you can finish you little snide comments then I'll respond maybe

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

Go get baked and then jump off a cliff. See if weed saves you then. If not that is one less stupid person breathing my air.

Have a good day!!

[senor_bacon]

@NyceGuyFinishingLast lol you are mad or offended or something about my point of view lol u so mad XD

I never said weed works 100% of the time for even 50% of people.

And the funny part about that migraine lady is she could use edibles or make weed tea, and then see IF it helps.

But regardless of all that, you are just one person, and with a stinky attitude like that, you are the only person you'll ever effect.

Legalize it bitchezzzzzz

[senor_bacon]

@NyceGuyFinishingLast out of curiosity who do you think I voted for? What color would you say my skin is?

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I am not trying to affect anyone. I don't care who you vote for and sure could care less what color your skin is. None of that matters in this convo. You are mistaken about me being angry. It is your praise of how well weed is a miracle when it is not. Like you stated it is a plant nothing more. I have friends that love smoking weed but that don't make it out to be what it is not. Nothing more than a party favor. I could really honestly care less who agrees with you or who agrees with me. I am not looking for the popularity vote. Just here to poke holes in your delusional prospect. Congrats tho on your one crony pothead follower. You two should continue on your fictional parade.

Don't bother responding this convo has given me a headache so I am gonna go take two Advil and never waste a thought on you again.

Have a nice wasted baked life.

[senor_bacon]

@NyceGuyFinishingLast if you take the time to look outside of your own perspective, there are facts and videos and articles that show weed doing what I've said.

And no there will never be clinical trails supporting weed, because people react to weed differently in their mentality.

Lol you still mad though XD

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I cannot be in a relationship with any woman that smokes cigarettes. Might could tolerate weed if not smoked every minute of the day. Vaping doesn't bother me at all.

I think that some women are sexy AF when smoking but I can't stand the smell. After smoking it makes it hard to cuddle or even sleep in the same bed. So as long as I can't smell it and the woman makes it look sexy then yes, huge turn on. The minute I smell it kills the whole effect. Like somethings that I don't find sexy is when they let it hang from the very corner of their mouth or when they try to talk with it hanging from their lips and it is flopping all over the place.

[roody]

It depends. I don’t really like weed, I don’t like the way it makes me feel and it smells terrible.
If it’s something they do occasionally, not a regular thing, then it would probably be fine. But if they smoked weed like everyday, I don’t think I could date that person.

[Peanut127]

I only accept weed. Smoking/vaping, same bodily harm. Weeds fine

[MCheetah]

Yes. Smoking in general is a big turn-off for me. Even worse if it's marijuana (then they're probably just a loser). And worse of all if it's vaping (then they're a pretentious Millennial loser). Vaping is like the veganism of vices: if you're going to be that big of a pussy, you might as well not even smoke at all. Vaping isn't exactly healthy or anything.

So yeah. Tobaccy is wacky, pot abusers is for losers, and vaping is for pretentious Millennial dipsh*ts.

[HawkPerception]

I've had a girlfriend for almost 3 years now and I would rather my girlfriend didn't smoke at all, but she does ocassionally. I wouldn't stop dating her for it, but I will never stop trying to get her out of it. The answer as to whether it's a turnoff... Yes. It is a turnoff. But it's not a dealbreaker.

[Daniel3035]

Weed stinks vape now does in fact = cancer weeds god knows no ones tested it enough.
Fact is my wife is not putting anything into her lungs especially when she's pregnant and has to abstain for 9 months when let's face it she'll probably sneak one or two smokes in. I'm not risking my child's health or the possibility even after birth her health is at risk with the smoke so she either quits for good or no deal. This is the one thing including alcohol during the 9 months.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

To each is own & I’ve dated some ashtrays before & every time her & I kissed the smell alone made me want to vomit.

[WindAtMyBack]

Weed is a turn off. If they do it regularly it's a deal breaker. If it's only occasionally it would be OK if they handled it well.

Vape is a deal breaker in any amount. I'd prefer a cigarette smoker over a vaper.

[normalice]

I like weed - or would if it was legal in Iowa. So that's fine. And I used to vape but quit a couple years ago. I don't mind it as long as she doesn't smoke real cigarettes - that will make me want one.

[Kiss_Me]

Definite deal breaker!
Smoking is such a sheep habit, and it stinks. I prefer my women to display stronger character, better judgement, and smell better.

[SjE78]

while i'm gonna say no, it does truly depend on whether or not they prioritise the weed over important things, vape doesn't bother me tbh nor does weed tbf

[Cherokeehp]

Vapes have been straight up killing people, and most of the potheads I know just aren’t going anywhere in life and blow all their money on weed.

[cth96190]

Smoking tobacco is an instant and non-negotiable deal breaker.
The use of marihuana and/or other recreational drugs is also an instant and non-negotiable deal breaker.

[Sonorous]

Yes, both. I'd rather them take substances in the safest way possible. And smoking is never safe in terms of lung longevity.

[Hawner]

Yes. I just can't stand people smoking around me, even to the point of walking away if someone starts smoking.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Depends on how frequently do they do that. If it's a gig they do daily, that's a turn off. Once a month, that's fine.

[t-8900]

once a month? really? Weekends are for living it up!

[SunnySri]

Mam I don't do any such things and I want someone who cares about themselves as much I would care about them.
These things are unhealthy.

[Nawlins34]

I wouldn't date them. If they are starting I end the relationship

[Dougzy]

what is wrong have you seen people in Amsterdam so relaxed. Only heavy users are a pain well docile anyway like stunned cattle. Just avoid people that also drink they are nuts

[t-8900]

vaping and weed are for peasants! The real pleasure is in a good hand rolled cigar! :P

[t-8900]

I smoke tobacco for prayer and ritual purposes by the way. Part of my religious practices. I dont smoke casually though but I do smoke between 0-3 times a day. I might go 2-4 days without any smoke or I might smoke 3 on a particular day. Depends on how in touch with my spirit I need/want to get with.

[Arjunaguy]

Yes it's a turnoff those things are quite harmful to your health.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Major turn off if they smoke cigarettes, ecigs, cigars, pipes, weed, vape etc or even use chewing tobacco.

[ashish804]

no.. not at all as it can be turnon as after the vape.. she can feel horny af and we could have a great bang.. or rest we could both be happy high