Is it a turnoff or a deal breaker if your crush or partner smokes (weed or vape)?

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senor_bacon · Accepted Answer

Tobacco is not healthy, and vaping is legit bad for you.

Drinking is ok if you moderate and drink water. If I don't see the balance and effort, then I'm gonna think you don't care about your liver.

sshhteamin' some bud however, has been shown to have a multiplicity of mental health benefits, which is why it's being legalized.

Is it a turnoff or a deal breaker if your crush or partner smokes (weed or vape)?

Diving into some reefer has been shown to help with involuntary twitching, tourette syndrome, depression, anxiety, etc. It helps with insomnia and pain.

Keep in mind this is all from a natural plant that you can grow yourself. It's not chemically brain addictive like drugs.

Also, with this is mind: weed is not a drug. Drugs are anti depresents and cocaine and the like, although some are prescribed and others are illegally bought on the street. A drug involves artificial processes. Again, weed is a plant.

If you're just a normal person smoking, it can help you in the mean time to deal with your issues. It's also a good alternative to drinking.

For those of you judgmental little shits on here that don't know shit about weed, I would recommend stop flapping your gums but it's a free country.

Legalize it.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Accepted Answer

I cannot be in a relationship with any woman that smokes cigarettes. Might could tolerate weed if not smoked every minute of the day. Vaping doesn't bother me at all.

I think that some women are sexy AF when smoking but I can't stand the smell. After smoking it makes it hard to cuddle or even sleep in the same bed. So as long as I can't smell it and the woman makes it look sexy then yes, huge turn on. The minute I smell it kills the whole effect. Like somethings that I don't find sexy is when they let it hang from the very corner of their mouth or when they try to talk with it hanging from their lips and it is flopping all over the place.

roody · Accepted Answer

It depends. I don’t really like weed, I don’t like the way it makes me feel and it smells terrible.
If it’s something they do occasionally, not a regular thing, then it would probably be fine. But if they smoked weed like everyday, I don’t think I could date that person.

Peanut127 · Accepted Answer

I only accept weed. Smoking/vaping, same bodily harm. Weeds fine

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. Smoking in general is a big turn-off for me. Even worse if it's marijuana (then they're probably just a loser). And worse of all if it's vaping (then they're a pretentious Millennial loser). Vaping is like the veganism of vices: if you're going to be that big of a pussy, you might as well not even smoke at all. Vaping isn't exactly healthy or anything.

So yeah. Tobaccy is wacky, pot abusers is for losers, and vaping is for pretentious Millennial dipsh*ts.

HawkPerception · Answer

I've had a girlfriend for almost 3 years now and I would rather my girlfriend didn't smoke at all, but she does ocassionally. I wouldn't stop dating her for it, but I will never stop trying to get her out of it. The answer as to whether it's a turnoff... Yes. It is a turnoff. But it's not a dealbreaker.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Weed stinks vape now does in fact = cancer weeds god knows no ones tested it enough.
Fact is my wife is not putting anything into her lungs especially when she's pregnant and has to abstain for 9 months when let's face it she'll probably sneak one or two smokes in. I'm not risking my child's health or the possibility even after birth her health is at risk with the smoke so she either quits for good or no deal. This is the one thing including alcohol during the 9 months.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

To each is own & I’ve dated some ashtrays before & every time her & I kissed the smell alone made me want to vomit.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Weed is a turn off. If they do it regularly it's a deal breaker. If it's only occasionally it would be OK if they handled it well.

Vape is a deal breaker in any amount. I'd prefer a cigarette smoker over a vaper.

normalice · Answer

I like weed - or would if it was legal in Iowa. So that's fine. And I used to vape but quit a couple years ago. I don't mind it as long as she doesn't smoke real cigarettes - that will make me want one.

Kiss_Me · Answer

Definite deal breaker!  Smoking is such a sheep habit, and it stinks. I prefer my women to display stronger character, better judgement, and smell better.

SjE78 · Answer

while i'm gonna say no, it does truly depend on whether or not they prioritise the weed over important things, vape doesn't bother me tbh nor does weed tbf

Cherokeehp · Answer

Vapes have been straight up killing people, and most of the potheads I know just aren’t going anywhere in life and blow all their money on weed.

cth96190 · Answer

Smoking tobacco is an instant and non-negotiable deal breaker. The use of marihuana and/or other recreational drugs is also an instant and non-negotiable deal breaker.

Sonorous · Answer

Yes, both. I'd rather them take substances in the safest way possible. And smoking is never safe in terms of lung longevity.

Hawner · Answer

Yes. I just can't stand people smoking around me, even to the point of walking away if someone starts smoking.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Depends on how frequently do they do that. If it's a gig they do daily, that's a turn off. Once a month, that's fine.

SunnySri · Answer

Mam I don't do any such things and I want someone who cares about themselves as much I would care about them. These things are unhealthy.

Nawlins34 · Answer

I wouldn't date them. If they are starting I end the relationship

Dougzy · Answer

what is wrong have you seen people in Amsterdam so relaxed. Only heavy users are a pain well docile anyway like stunned cattle. Just avoid people that also drink they are nuts

t-8900 · Answer

vaping and weed are for peasants! The real pleasure is in a good hand rolled cigar! :P

Arjunaguy · Answer

Yes it's a turnoff those things are quite harmful to your health.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

Major turn off if they smoke cigarettes, ecigs, cigars, pipes, weed, vape etc or even use chewing tobacco.

ashish804 · Answer

no.. not at all as it can be turnon as after the vape.. she can feel horny af and we could have a great bang.. or rest we could both be happy high

btbc92 · Answer

Would never date a smoker. Period.

worldscolide · Answer

any drug use what so ever is a huge turn off to me.. be it actual smoking or vaping.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Depends how you crushed them... if it was on purpose just to be a bitch yes... if you crushed them in my pocket sitting in me then no

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I wouldn't like it, but if I liked her enough, I would put up or look past it and maybe even discuss it with her.

YourSong · Answer

My boyfriend smokes and I hate it. He never does it around me tho

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Vaping, smoking... all of it is an instant deal-breaker for me.

007kingifrit · Answer

yea potheads aren't going to be viable long term partners

Paul09 · Answer

No. It's more of a turn on. Has long as it's not over doing it.

iFarted · Answer

No, unless she can't go without doing so. If she's dependent on it then yes, it's a deal breaker.

QuietRunner · Answer

I might be okay with weed, but vape is kinda dangerous.

Anonymous · Answer

a bunch of trashy trampy women in your profile banner I see

Anonymous · Answer

Weed is awesome. If you think it's a turn off you're weird.

xHoneyxBeex · Answer

Yes, I wouldn't be with someone who smokes.

dwcl99 · Answer

Yes. A total deal breaker.

Tamera952 · Answer

No it's practically a requirement.

ShortCircuit · Answer

Yes, either one would be a deal breaker for me.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It doesn’t bother me at all.

nodnol32 · Answer

Vape is fine. The other is a dealbreaker.

RHK36 · Answer

Weed is good, anything else not so much.

chriscdi · Answer

i hope not cause i do it 😶

Steve37 · Answer

It's a huge turn off for me

Dsg1193 · Answer

As long as it’s not cigs

Siavash_1990 · Answer

It doesn’t bother me.

mrgspoter · Answer

Yes must smoke weed as I do a lot.

perfectchaos · Answer

Vape yes weed no

maxflame · Answer

Depends PM me to talk

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, i don't want to have retarded kids.

jahaims · Answer

Weed no vape yes

Gedaria · Answer

Yes, stone dead...

EssenceOfLight · Answer

Yes, if it's weed

Juxtapose · Answer

Not at all!

jirwin7979 · Answer

i vape

Anonymous · Answer

Yep it is

gandolph3 · Answer

Weed is ok

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it is.

Anonymous · Answer

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