Is smoking a deal breaker? Would you date a smoker?

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Aenetone · Accepted Answer

I smoke. But I get why it's a deal breaker. Nobody who isn't a smoker wants to kiss that. I only date smokers. It's kind of a social thing. Like an exclusive club. We wanna talk to each other, but it's awkward. So we smoke. Like that's the real reason we're talking. Cuz we're both outside and craving.

WeirdoWerdo · Accepted Answer

It's a dealbreaker because it causes cancer and I dont want my wifey @sarahhcmarie or my daugther, wife and potato @Pitzi to get cancer nor do I want it myself and it smells like shit. I would NOT date a smoker.

ZambieMouse · Accepted Answer

It's a deal breaker for me. There's just so much science coming back about how bad second and even third hand smoke is, I couldn't risk my health like that. You do you, but you do you at a safe distance away from me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Its not a dealbrealer for me. I dont smoke. But I dont mind others to do so. Thats their life and their decision

SjE78 · Answer

not really, I don't smoke personally but have dated non smokers and smokers alike, it doesn't bother me either way
what would be a deal breaker in my book would be if they were obnoxious but if I have to say

If the woman is a chain smoker where by I couldn't see or breath without walking through a "burning building" that would be a time to step back and discuss with them about cutting down but if they didn't want to quit altogether I would be ok with that

LeFrogDog · Answer

It's a unhealthy habit. They smell of smoke. Their teeth are yellow depending on how much they smoke and if they take less care. To me I just seems more if a hassle. Personally I don't mind, I come from a family that has respiratory problems so I don't know many that smoke near me.

PlsWork · Answer

Depends on what they smoke. I can deal with weed, but definitely now cigarettes. Another factor is moderation. There's only so much I can deal with, especially when it comes to weed because there, it's also the price that comes to mind.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Smoke irritates my respiratory system. Hell no to dating a smoker!

maddog998 · Answer

Before I was a smoker; They saved on smokes for them self and money for dates.  Now I'm a smoker; I have dated many of smokers but it's so hard to keep two people in smokes.

hushlol · Answer

Nope, I want my partner to live long with me, if your smokeing, then somthing bothers you, and you may not know how to handle problems or depression. No thanks

Bandit74 · Answer

I don't know. I would really prefer someone who doesn't smoke, but I can't say for sure if it is something that would make me reject someone who has everything else I want.

sassygirl13 · Answer

It was a dealbreaker until I met him.  I still hate smoking but he is a fine man so I compromised on it. Still trying to help him quit.

Xyline · Answer

Honestly there is a very pretty girl I know and I'd say she is about an 8/10. One day I learned she's a smoker and smokes half a pack a day. She is now a 4/10 to me. So I'd say the formula is (nonsmoking attractiveness rating) /2.

MarketData · Answer

I'm afraid it's a deal breaker for me. If you date a smoker that makes you a smoker too, even if you never light a cigarette of your own.

panda2712 · Answer

No I wouldn’t date a smoker for the fact it could kill me especially if I smoked bc of my medical condition

AbdKilani · Answer

Not much, but a heavy smoker yes It is too much, if my girl asked me to quit I will do that for sure, I just smoke one cigarette a day I would give it up for sure

mishmishayezie · Answer

Yes definitely deal breaker I wouldn't date a smoker in the first place I've dated a smoker before Hated when we kissed His disgusting breath🤭😰 Never again...

winterfox10 · Answer

I could easily date an occasional or light smoker, but I would prefer not to date a heavier smoker. Like anything, there is a certain power in moderation.

Gopnik · Answer

no, i wouldn't, weed is fine but normal cigarettes smell like aids to me, the weed scent doesn't bother me too much where as the cigarette smoke does.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Deal breaker for me, I dont wanna get sick or for him to get sick. I dont get what all the fuss is.

ecfresh · Answer

I hae dated a smoker in the past and would really not be too keen on dating one again in the future.

Cammy137 · Answer

Sure. Although it largely depends on what they smoke.

JanuaryCanine · Answer

It’s not a deal breaker to me, however I don’t smoke. My ex smoked so I would date a smoker.

xunspokenx · Answer

It's only a deal breaker if they deliberately blow smoke in my face or flick their butts at me. I have dated a smoker in the past but then again, I never really hung around him... reasons.

Edanurus · Answer

Why does this question keep coming up, it just ends up with most people talking about how disgusting smokers are. I don't see the point.

_Dylan_ · Answer

I would not. Selfish and disgusting habit. Ruins lives and I refuse to let it be a part of mine.

adamski24 · Answer

I don't think it is a deal breaker I will just be worried I will start smirking cigars again but probably not as I manage not to around people that smoke.

Lance1965 · Answer

Not a deal-breaker for me but I totally understand why it is a deal-breaker to others although I find it a little trivial and silly at times.

Redstang88 · Answer

Not a deal breaker, there are worse habits to have. I don't trust anyone without some sort of vice

Anonymous · Answer

Not a deal breaker but I definitely would make it hard for them to smoke.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Yes, smoking is an absolute dealbreakers. No, I would never date a smoker.

NikkiMelan · Answer

Well if he wants to kiss me one day he will have to stop. I'm not kissing an ashtray.

Luuke · Answer

I don't like it personally. I'd still date one but encourage them to stop

Anonymous · Answer

It is, yes. I wouldn't although I have considered it in the past.

Seppelson · Answer

No it's not a deal breaker. I smoke too. I would never date a girl that doesn't smoke

MrBurke · Answer

I'd date a smoker so long as they weren't smoking anything illegal

pollard1990 · Answer

I'd date a smoker. Smoking isn't the worst thing someone can do.

Jayla31 · Answer

No smoking is not deal breaker lots of women date men that smoke

Anonymous · Answer

Not a deal breaker... but prepare for a daily nagging to try and quit.

jacquesvol · Answer

I wouldn't date a smoker

DakotaNorth · Answer

Deal breaker. It's gross.

crazy8000 · Answer

Always a deal breaker here.

Midhat · Answer

yes , i truly hate it with passion

healthywholesomelife · Answer

No smokers. Cigars are kinda hot tho

Eryxx · Answer

Smoking is a deal breaker for me.

OoseeeoOo · Answer

No, why she needs to smoke when she got me? ^^

Nachowedgie · Answer

Smokng is disgusting, I'd never date a smoker

Temporal_Ice · Answer

Yes, I'd rather my potential partner to not smoke.

Apple1996 · Answer

I wouldn't judge anyone for who they are

MlleCake · Answer

Smoking is gross.

hellacray · Answer

Yes it's a deal breaker.

Rangers · Answer

That's a huge dealbreaker

Prashantp8 · Answer

I somehow feel it attractive to date a smoker.

Anonymous · Answer

I dislike the brown ciggies.

anametouse · Answer

Add my ass as another addiction to the problem

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Yes it is. It's death acceptance.

Valephar · Answer

Deal breaker. Lose it or lose me.

DashboardLight · Answer

I'd never date a smoker, no.

MrVampire · Answer

I have no problem with it

gowtham12 · Answer

It's deal breaker Coz its causes mouth cancer

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

1) Yes. 2) No.

jellyroo · Answer

Yep.

Nxtawm · Answer

I wouldn't

literallyjoying · Answer

I would never!

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